Part time human, full time mess

she/it/meow/sea/lun(see pinned post for full pronoun sets), grey-biromantic-lesbian, audhd, and more than a little awkward. Sometimes, I know how to socialize. Other times, I have the urge to walk into a room like “hello fellow humans, I definitely know how to people.” My identity keeps getting more specific, so that’s interesting.

[pearl-raynefel]

Introduction 

Hi, you can call me Pearl or Margaret. I’m an audhd, otherkin, polygender, grey-biromantic lesbian with somewhat contradicting kintypes

My genders are:

female

ADHDgender

autigender

catgender

kotogender

eluvian

nuptunun

angelgender

aqueousgender

ottergender 

etherelian

oceangender

lunarfem

attorneygender

pinkgender

bluegender

genderfluff

genderblanket

nebulagender

zoomiegender

My pronouns are:

she/her/her/hers/herself

it/it/its/its/itself

meow/meow/meows/meows/meowself

sea/sea/sear/sear/searself

lun/lun/luns/luns/lunself

My kintypes are:

mermaid

seafairy

just water in general

house cat

angel

otter

owl

[ahmed-ziiaad]

This may be the day I lose my mother after all the pain and suffering she has endured.

Today, my mother is standing between life and death, and she urgently needs treatment before it is too late. Please, do not let your silence become part of our loss. I have pleaded and cried out so many times because my mother’s condition can no longer survive another day of waiting.

I beg every person who still carries mercy in their heart to help save my mother now. Please donate whatever you can and share this with your audience. It may reach someone capable of saving my mother’s life before we lose her forever.

Donate Here - Vetted#658

[mj-moments]

Ahmed is not asking for the impossible, he just wants to save his mother. Don’t let him lose her because of money.

[el1woods]

Help My Mother Receive Life-Saving Treatment

Help My Mother Get Urgent Medical Treatment Abroad

Donate if you can, share and repost so others can see!

[virovac]

Donate Here - Vetted#658 Donation rewards below!

she was long been working hard for her family despite her health. please help!https://safe.txmblr.com/svc/embed/inline/https%3A%2F%2Fva.media.tumblr.com%2Ftumblr_t7sj22uWwi1w43lmt.mp4#embed-6a4b1f87dd862007871730-partied

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DOnation Rewards!

Art and other rewards being offered for those who have proof of donation (such as a screenshot of receipt, probably with personal information blacked out) to the well-known vetting lists and a few other. I have collected an up-to-date list here. There is also links to other lists: for such as flowerpawarts's spreadsheet, you should make sure they accept the vetting list or are not just funding for a specific family

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[aolafamily2000]

In this scorching summer, our tent has become an unbearable place to live. The suffocating heat fills it throughout the day, leaving us with no shade to protect us and no breeze to bring relief. When night falls, another struggle begins as rats and insects spread throughout the tent, stealing our children's sleep and filling their hearts with fear. Every day, we endure the relentless summer heat and the dangers of these harsh conditions. All we hope for is a safe shelter that preserves our dignity and gives our children the chance to live in safety.

Donate to Help Ola’s Family Find Stability Again, organized by Ola Moh

"The Alaa family lived a peaceful and stable life in their beautiful home. Alaa and her… Ola Moh needs your support for Help Ola’s Family Fi

✅Vetted by @gazavetters, my number verified on the list is (#514)✅

[deemagaza]

‼️Two Lives. One Desperate Cry for Help.🙏🏻💔

There are days when grief comes one wound at a time.For us, it came all at once.My father is critically ill in the hospital.My daughter Farah is still fighting a rare kidney disease.I'm exhausted, terrified, and running out of options.I need someone to help save my family.I'm pleading with anyone who still believes kindness can save lives.I wish I were asking for hope Instead, I am asking for help Please donate or share our appeal Your compassion could be the reason we make it through this nightmare. I urgently need money for the medication prescribed by the doctors when my father is discharged from the hospital so he can continue taking it. It costs us 320 euros 🙏🏻

🙏🏻"I'm terrified that one day I'll have to say goodbye to my father while watching my daughter continue to suffer. No one should have to carry this much pain."Please donate now, I desperately need your help🙏🏻💔

Urgent appeal: kidney failure and autism threaten Farah

Note: if you would prefer to pay via paypal, you can do so here.

✅️Vetted by @gazavetters, my number verified on the list is ( #451 )✅️

[oediex]

These are extremely stressful times for Farah's family, and they are very distressing for Farah as well, who does not understand why she must suffer as she does.

Please reach out your hand and support them by either donating or sharing the fundraiser.

Thank you.

[deemagaza]

The Donations Are Fading. Our Crisis Is Not.Our donations have almost disappeared. Our suffering hasn't. Every day I wake up wondering how much more my family can endure. My father is fighting for his life. My daughter is still fighting her disease. I have nothing left to ask for except mercy. If you can help, please don't wait. 💔🙏🏻

[pomscorner]

please share and donate!!!!

[deemagaza]

⚠️I never want to write the words "It is too late"—when a small donation could have changed everything.🙏🏻😭

The hardest thing I face is neither poverty nor illness, but rather seeing the doors of mercy closing one by one.⏳🥹🙏🏻

[dialafamily-2026]

💔 Baby Taj, 18 months old, survived the impossible. Now she urgently needs $250 for milk, diapers, food, and clean water.

Please help her survive. Every donation—or even a share—can make a life-changing difference. ❤️

Help Baby Taj — A Miracle Child from Gaza

I am Veronica Salber, a friend of baby taj from Gaza. I created this campaign to ensure that donations reach her safely and with full transp

[dialazzz18]

Please donate or share. Every act of kindness brings my little daughter Taj one step closer to the milk and diapers she urgently needs. ❤️@nodoesntmeanconvinceme

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[mosab-story]

THESE MAY BE MY LAST WORDS ABOUT MY WIFE. This could be the last time I write anything while my wife is still alive, and I will never forgive anyone who sees this and scrolls past without caring or even sharing. Today, my wife's medicine ran out. Since leaving the intensive care unit, her condition has remained critical, and without her treatment, I fear she could stop breathing again. I have no way to afford the medication she urgently needs. I am begging you from Gaza, watching the woman I love struggle for every breath while I stand helpless beside her. Please donate now and help me get her treatment before it's too late. Please donate now. GoFundMe.

vetted by 520

[mosab-story]

Please, time is running out. Donate now and help us, I beg you

[abdulrahman-family22]

My little nephew is dying; I feel like he's taking his last breaths. I will never forgive anyone who ignores this.

[abdulrahman-family22]

Please, we urgently need €700 for emergency surgery for my nephew. His health has deteriorated significantly; he is now in a coma and unconscious, suffering greatly. Time is running out, and every moment is crucial for him.

[abdulrahman-family22]

My nephew is his parents' only child. He lost his father in this genocide in the Gaza Strip and suffered multiple traumas during this war. He has already had one operation and now needs another. Please don't leave him alone. Donate towards his operation. I don't want to lose him like I lost my mother and brother. Please donate, donate!

[abdulrahman-family22]

I swear to you, watching a child in pain right before our eyes while we are helpless to assist him is a feeling beyond words. Please, do not let my nephew suffer any longer; help us secure his surgery before it is too late. Please donate. 🥺💔

Donate here - PayPal - Vetted#642

[abdulrahman-family22]

Someone has donated €20, but we still need €680 to afford the surgery for my nephew. I swear we need your help; my nephew is suffering terribly right now. Please, every moment of delay could cost him his life. This is a life-or-death surgery—please don't let him die. You are our only hope. Please, please donate. 💔😭

[abdulrahman-family22]

Everyone, we still need 550 euros. Please don't let us down; a young child's life needs to be saved. Please donate—don't let me or my nephew down. We urgently need your help to get the surgery done for him. Please, please donate. 💔😭

[abdulrahman-family22]

Someone has donated €50, but we still need €500. Please, everyone—we are getting closer to our goal of funding my nephew's surgery. Please don't let us down; please donate. Every delay could cost my nephew his life. If we raise the funds today, the surgery can be performed tomorrow. Please, please donate. 😭💔

[abdulrahman-family22]

Everyone, we still need 450 euros to go ahead with the surgery tomorrow—it is the last possible day for the procedure. Please, don't let us down; our goal is so close. Please, don't let me down—donate, donate so my nephew doesn't die. Please donate. 💔😭

[abdulrahman-family22]

Everyone, we have only 14 hours left to book my nephew's surgery for tomorrow, and we still need 430 euros. Everyone keeps ignoring me. Please donate! Please donate! We cannot postpone his surgery. If we don't raise the money, he won't be able to have the procedure anytime soon, and it won't be successful. Please donate! 💔😭

[abdulrahman-family22]

Please, every moment of delay could cost him his life. This is a life-or-death surgery—please don't let him die. You are our only hope. Please, please donate💔

[ahmadsfamily]

We no longer have the strength to endure what is happening to us.

This is one of the worst tragedies in history.

Please speak up for us. Share, comment, and let the world know that two million people are suffering every day.

I’m not only trying to survive…

My father is sick, and I can’t afford his treatment. Watching him get worse while I can do nothing is breaking me.

I just need to buy medicine and food for my family.

📌📌📌Fundraiser vetted (#167 by el-shab-hussein & nabulsi), But we created a new GoFundMe page because GoFundMe suspended the beneficiary’s account on the platform, which put us in a very difficult situation.

[ahmadsfamily]

Guys, it’s getting harder every day my father is still in critical condition and we still need help.

Please keep sharing and supporting we desperately need your help and your humanity 🙏💔

[hildanasr123]

My grandmother has been urgently admitted to the hospital because I couldn't afford to buy her medication due to the lack of donations.💔 🙏

My grandmother needs your help.

She urgently needs an expensive treatment that we cannot afford. If we cannot buy her medication, she may be forced to undergo emergency surgery, and there is a serious risk to her life.

Please, I love my grandmother and I want her to stay with us. Every donation, no matter how small, brings us closer to our €600 goal and gives her a better chance of getting the treatment she desperately needs.

Please don't leave us alone. Your kindness, your donation, or even sharing our campaign could help save her life. 🙏💔

Hilda🙏💔💔

[hildanasr123]

2days, I've been posting, tagging, and pleading for help.no donation come .When will you help me—after I've lost my grandmother?💔🙏

My grandmother's life = €600 😭

Imagine someone you love fighting for their life simply because they can't afford a surgery and the medicine they urgently need.

Please help my grandmother stay with us. 💔

Donation link

[abdulrahman-family22]

My little nephew is dying; I feel like he's taking his last breaths. I will never forgive anyone who ignores this.

[abdulrahman-family22]

Please, we urgently need €700 for emergency surgery for my nephew. His health has deteriorated significantly; he is now in a coma and unconscious, suffering greatly. Time is running out, and every moment is crucial for him.

[abdulrahman-family22]

My nephew is his parents' only child. He lost his father in this genocide in the Gaza Strip and suffered multiple traumas during this war. He has already had one operation and now needs another. Please don't leave him alone. Donate towards his operation. I don't want to lose him like I lost my mother and brother. Please donate, donate!

[abdulrahman-family22]

I swear to you, watching a child in pain right before our eyes while we are helpless to assist him is a feeling beyond words. Please, do not let my nephew suffer any longer; help us secure his surgery before it is too late. Please donate. 🥺💔

Donate here - PayPal - Vetted#642

[abdulrahman-family22]

Someone has donated €20, but we still need €680 to afford the surgery for my nephew. I swear we need your help; my nephew is suffering terribly right now. Please, every moment of delay could cost him his life. This is a life-or-death surgery—please don't let him die. You are our only hope. Please, please donate. 💔😭

[abdulrahman-family22]

Everyone, we still need 550 euros. Please don't let us down; a young child's life needs to be saved. Please donate—don't let me or my nephew down. We urgently need your help to get the surgery done for him. Please, please donate. 💔😭

[abdulrahman-family22]

Someone has donated €50, but we still need €500. Please, everyone—we are getting closer to our goal of funding my nephew's surgery. Please don't let us down; please donate. Every delay could cost my nephew his life. If we raise the funds today, the surgery can be performed tomorrow. Please, please donate. 😭💔

[abdulrahman-family22]

Everyone, we still need 450 euros to go ahead with the surgery tomorrow—it is the last possible day for the procedure. Please, don't let us down; our goal is so close. Please, don't let me down—donate, donate so my nephew doesn't die. Please donate. 💔😭

[abdulrahman-family22]

Everyone, we have only 14 hours left to book my nephew's surgery for tomorrow, and we still need 430 euros. Everyone keeps ignoring me. Please donate! Please donate! We cannot postpone his surgery. If we don't raise the money, he won't be able to have the procedure anytime soon, and it won't be successful. Please donate! 💔😭

[abdulrahman-family22]

Please, every moment of delay could cost him his life. This is a life-or-death surgery—please don't let him die. You are our only hope. Please, please donate💔

[abdulrahman-family22]

Oh God, time is running out fast; only 10 hours remain until the surgery, and we still need 423 euros. Please, please donate—don't abandon us. 😭💔

[ahmadsfamily]

Unfortunately, I am fading 💔

The unbearable conditions we are living through in Gaza are slowly breaking me, and I have no strength left.

At the same time, my father is in critical condition and needs daily medication that we can no longer afford. Every day without treatment puts his life at serious risk.

We are living through something beyond our ability to endure.

If you’re reading this, please don’t scroll away. Your help could save my father’s life.

Please support us and share our story 🙏💔

📌 Fundraiser vetted (#167 by el-shab-hussein & nabulsi), But we created a new GoFundMe page because GoFundMe suspended the beneficiary’s account on the platform, which put us in a very difficult situation.

[ecstaticadventures]

‘bread is bad for you’ ‘rice is bad for you’ sorry im not subscribing to the idea that staple grains that have been integral to cultures for centuries are evil. i love you carbs

[corvids-corner]

I have a degree in environmental biology you can trust me 👍

[interleague]

My fellow college baseball player Johan Sandoval was detained by ICE on July 3rd. His family just set up a GoFundMe to cover legal expenses and other costs. If you could consider donating or sharing, it would be greatly appreciated.

Donate to Help Bring Johan Home to Finish His Final Year of College, organized by Mel Sandoval

Our Story: My name is Stacey, and I am raising funds on behalf … Mel Sandoval needs your support for Help Bring Johan Home to Finish His Fin

[berkeleygirl3]

[liberaljane]

[teaboot]

I hate that thing some people do where it's like. "I left my wallet on the table to see if you'd say anything" or "I wanted to see if you'd wash the car if I stopped doing it"

Cause like

I dont know about anyone else

But I am perpetually hovering three inches above the strong subconscious belief that everyone knows what they're doing at all times except me, so if you change your normal patterns and I notice, then I will assume it is an intentional choice with a thought-out plan behind it and I will avoid interfering

And if I don't notice, because I won't, because why would I, because not much bothers me and if you don't say anything to indicate you are bothered then how would I KNOW

[teaboot]

Alternatives to experimenting on me like a lab rat when you suspect me of being inconsiderate:

"I feel like I'm the only one who does this chore. Can we start taking turns?"

"I'd like you to ask me how I'm doing more often."

"It bothers me when this area stays messy so long. Can you do X when Y happens?"

"I feel like the onus is on me to initiate X, and it's wearing me down. Could you try making the first move more? Like 3-4 times a week?"

"I'm feeling upset right now and I'd like to spend some time with you."

"When X happens, I feel like you're taking my work for granted."

"I'm feeling neglected. Could you do X?"

"I'm burnt out and need help."

"I feel like I'm the only one putting effort into X."

"Do you notice this?"

"Are you bothered by this?"

"I am bothered when this happens."

"X habit of yours bothers me."

"When X is like this, I feel bad. Can you [action] when you notice X?"

[hug-your-face]