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🌼 Princess Kinslee 🌼 Please be kind & know you’re never alone.

[peculiar--princess]

So Ik this isn’t going to be a “popular” post but a lot more people are going to be struggling to keep food on the table now that they won’t be getting assistance for food and other things they need just to survive.

I just wanted to say that if anyone sees this, PLEASE help your neighbors & loved ones. Everyone deserves to have food in their stomachs, a warm place to lay their heads, and their basic necessities to live.

[bunniepriestess]

this fit 💔

[astrids-angel]

[adequately]

桜の花びらをハートになぞる

[champagnexowishes]

Flower Knows-Swan Ballet Collection🦢

[bakeryfairy]

they’re all besties

[coquette-club]

[malnedott]

some more weird makeup …….

[candybisous]

camrihewie

[cyberglittter]

aliya.will

[tortol]

circus animals 🥠

[whizpurr]

[conceptart-storyboards]

from Winnie the Pooh: A Celebration of the Silly Old Bear by Christopher Finch

[kitschday]

[silk-swan]

[applebutterbabie]

Love seeing little pawprints. So fucking magical. There was a little guy here.

[traumasurvivors]

I find that society wants trauma survivors who are soft. Survivors who are kind. Survivors who feel they’ve come out better because of their trauma. They want this so they can validate themselves and believe in “everything happens for a reason” because it makes them feel better.

But you don’t exist to make other people feel better. If you came out bitter, and hardened, that’s okay. If you don’t believe it made you stronger, then that’s okay!

My trauma didn’t make me stronger. I’m not “better” for my trauma. I didn’t need my trauma. My trauma just hurt. And I’m not going to pretend otherwise to make others feel comfortable.

[traumasurvivors]

I had a reply about this last year, but someone sent an ask again about how “it’s not okay to be an asshole,” and I just want to be really clear that this isn’t what the post is saying.

It isn’t okay to treat people like shit. That’s never the message here.

But being bitter or hardened after trauma doesn’t automatically mean “you’re being an asshole to others.” Sometimes it just means you’re tired, guarded, and not interested in performing softness for other people’s comfort. And that’s valid.