people tend towards two poles: boring or crazy. take your pic
if you’re bad at sex, don’t seek human relationships. Like Mao says, “only right battles you can win”
avoid being somebody else’s identity crisis.
Machiavelli says women like young blood that enjoys life, not old phlegmatic somber people. A dour outlook might be attractive at first, but when a woman sees that you actually do hate life, the gimic gets old quick.
Don’t fuck people that don’t read.
If you can only date radicals, prepare for incestuous social circles
if one night stands are sleazy to you, that because they are.
there is no perfect form, and looking for one will end in misery. Selling yourself short lends towards resentment. Both apply in attempts at love.
Porn is what the end of the world looks likes
Some people have an apocalyptic fetish. Others are prudish. See point #1
at some point you may being to see the general, shared aspects all people have in common. Physically, psychologically, etc. This is helpful to prevent yourself from becoming too into somebody. Soon you wont get interested at all. Nothing will peak your desire. That is because at the end of the day, bodies are just bodies.
Being the one that still cares in the end is the more honest role, but honestly the worse one.
Don't trust Georgian women. Medea killed her own kids out of spite from Jason’s adultery. Admit it: an angry text or broken glass is much easier to deal with. This has been confirmed to me by multiple people without prompting them.
Orgy-porgy-cuddle-pudles might be fun but are fucking weird quick.
Polyamory is a way for men to be sexist in an ‘understanding environment’. “Free sex? OK!” In a sexist environment, it’s a rhetorical defense for sexism.
Shallow relationships are considered radical now and mirror a lack of commitment to politics.
Sure, all relationships are political. But like war, love has its own rules to follow. Not all late night visits from ex boyfriends are stalking. Not all manic email storms is sexism. People do crazy shit when they care about somebody.
Attraction. Lust. Disillusionment. Resentment. This is the path relationships usually take. Bail at lust. The last two suck, badly.
The worst feeling in the world is when you give it all you’ve got and it’s still not enough. Either they cannot be pleased or your best isn’t very good.
Sex is meant to be a place “beyond language”. If you aren’t acting like an animal, figure out why. This is also the worst possible place to evoke shame on somebody.
Kissing should always be the most intimate thing possible. If you don’t think so, you probably aren’t doing it right.
Men: replace masturbation with exercise. Porn is addictive.
Pushing somebody’s boundary can be a very good and necessary thing. Sometimes that might mean making somebody uncomfortable. This can build trust, not detract from it.
Few things are as unattractive as bad taste in music
Take showers together. Grooming one another can be fun and kinky.
There’s only so many terms of endearment to use. Your partner has probably said the same things they say to you to other people before. Maybe even the same smile. If you don’t like this, get creative.
