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It has been a rough week and weekend. Itās only the beginning. So, when life gives you lemons mix it with vodka and sugar to make lemon drops!! š¤£š¤£ I laugh, bc I canāt cry! https://www.instagram.com/p/B2LW87rBKzbFbyph8Io9kQ2p_1FFASs5qg6jAQ0/?igshid=dix4u0zjev08
When youāre scared of the thunderstorm outside and youāre home alone... watch scary movies with thunderstorms so youāre not scared anymore!!! https://www.instagram.com/p/BzTmCOFBdU8SGNkRu52B0hdV_V580BRchMQm4s0/?igshid=1tk3dywi8yry3
Motivation Monday!!! https://www.instagram.com/p/Bw2lCEEhD3PJNYcje2BsyX9EJqA-mrWyzdwqfo0/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=14twvwmfym4gm
Can we say M. Night Shyamalan movie marathon today!!! Yes we can!!!! #mommydaughterdate #goodfriday #peacefullplace #almostunplugged (at Houston, Texas) https://www.instagram.com/p/BwciGxlBTIearwkzqI_88CiuajwizUhA33QwUc0/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=4grcoq6il5pa
Between the turkey and the alcohol STOP to take time to give thanks to all the beautiful things in your life!!! Also donāt forget to be thankful for the hard times, bc they make the good time better and you stronger!!! https://www.instagram.com/p/BqfEbAeg-jRh-0rfap3yjoUdcv7CnzHn5Ca3BQ0/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1fgcti0a9h1zi
Thank you so much to those that serve during the past, present, and future!!! You help keep our country free!! Some of you are close to my heart, but ALL of you have my respect and appreciation!! #veteransday #thankyouforyourservice #keepusfree #homeofthebrave https://www.instagram.com/p/BqDkQVeAFWvjNug4e8aE679Oel_cXTrzQC5aDo0/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=lmtrvyvul5dz
So this has NOT been the best week of my life, but itās getting better!!! In the mail I had this beautiful fuchsia pad envelope!! Inside was something from #lmn #lifetimemovies #lifetimemoviesinnercircle Thank you!!! Keep making the great movies and Iāll keep watching!! Always a part of mommy/daughter date night!! https://www.instagram.com/p/Bo2kChqlR7Jq0rV7eqJpoKNWB535n-QUHzBgqI0/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=t3sfjsruejho
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Because I'm trying not to be petty and I'm also trying to stay positive!!! I have a lot of drama behind the scenes!! Y'all know I keep things to muself!!! I'm at my wicks end!!
Meant to post this morning, but better late than never!!
Letās take a moment to look at how it really feels outside!!!
Work proved to be an interesting day!!! Now this horror nerd is going to drink ākool-aidā and have an 80s horror fest!!! #fridaythe13th #horrorfest #nerdgirl
The calm before the storm!! We heard thunder and looked outside!! Beautiful!! #godblesstexas #calmbeforethestorm #beautiful photo credit @tmiahhhh
Things I love about being autistic
Having such good attention to detail, Iām always noticing tiny things that are so intricate and yet so beautiful. I love seeing every single detail of a tree, of the leaves, of the bark..
Having a strong moral code and stubbornness to stick to it no matter what.
Not naturally judging people for their looks or otherwise, I just see people as people, all different and all interesting
Sensing the world in a different way, being so engaged in my senses, getting so much joy from just feeling the grass on my feet
Having interests I am so passionate about! The pure happiness from finding out something new about an interest and sharing it with others or expressing it on your own!
Being able to think outside the box, not feeling the need to fit inside a role made by society, having a strong mind of my own
Okay to reblog, Iād love people to add more!
Day 5 of autism acceptance
Talk about employment and your career. Ā What do you do to support yourself? Ā Are you on disability? Ā Was it hard to get or maintain?
I guess I was mainly lucky on that part. I had a traineeship in a library for my studies and they needed someone. Since I was pretty good at what I was doing, notably with computers, they kept me as long as they needed.
They came back to me a few times and I must have worked 3 or 4 times for them. I never had a job solely by attending a job interview. People always called me back months or years later because they needed someone or the person they chose over me wasnāt the person they needed.
I thought my last job would be my chance to get a long-term job, but it turns out they didnāt want me because Iām too autistic for them. They didnāt say that, but, basically Iām āweirdā, I make people feel uneasy and itās a burden on them that I have sensory processing issues (notably when it comes to noise).
Going to be unemployed by the end of april. My diagnosis is not officialized yet, so I canāt pretend to disability allowance, but I still have my unemployment allowance and, since I worked for quite a long time, I have at least a year to find a job.
Working can be pretty hard because there are so many social rules and so many ways to f*ck them up. Just take the concept of a coffee break :
How long is it supposed to last ? What are you supposed to talk about ? Why is it frown upon to not take a coffee break, because thereās a lot of work to do and you feel like youād be wastingĀ your time ?
Dealing with the noise and the chattering is quite difficult too. They pretended that they didnāt mind if I worked with headphones on when I was in my office, but they actually told me that it was wrong after saying that they didnāt want me anymore. I donāt get it.
I hate the whole ājob interviewā process. It seems to me that itās just theater and that youāre supposed to build a character that your boss will like. You have to be fake to earn your job and itās mind-boggling to me.
Why should it matter more that the other guy they interviewed is super chatty and all if he canāt handle a computer at all and canāt deal with deadlines ? Why should it make him the perfect candidate ? I think this whole system is unfair and very uneffective.
Anyway, I try to stim, even though people can look weirdly at me, because it helps with my anxiety. I have stim toys that I use when itās too much. I also try to have a very quiet and comfortable life outside of work because I need my energy for my job. Well, not anymore, nowā¦
