This pic by Duck Press has been the source of a lot of discussion in the House of Aspyce.
The idea of a casual party where the dommes can show up in casual clothes and generally hang out (an occasionally torment a sub) sounds great. Dommes are supposed to be in charge! Why not have a party where they do whatever they want!
Then you get into the reality of setting this party up.
First, you need to find a set of subs who aren't too anxious about not getting picked for play at a party. Not only do they have to be open, they have to be casual about it.
Then, you also need to get the dommes on the right vibe. A surprising number of dommes don't feel dom-ly if they don't get to look the part. We need a group of dommes who aren't just dommes, they are confident enough in the role to do it casually.
I'm not giving up on this party just yet. I'm treating it as a long-term goal.
Would love to be the "subject" at a party like this. Everyone else is casual but here you are in bondage and naked on display for whatever they want to do.
