just your average shit posts

occasional emotional breakouts

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Sometimes I just want to give up and I think everyone should let me

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So I’m a baby hairstylist just lmk where I went wrong here

Took a new client

Could only do a time/day I was extremely busy, insisted it

The first time in my career I asked a loyal regular to come in later to accommodate this girl

She wanted to go from dark long hair to blond in one session

Budget was $120

I texted her and told her in person I could lighten the top and sides for $130 (already a discounted price)

She agrees and loves it when she leaves (didn’t tip)

Calls me a week later saying she hates that the bottom back of her hair is dark even though you can’t tell unless her hair is up

Tells me I should redo it for free because I didn’t explain to her that I wasn’t lightening all of it (again I explained it to her multiple times prior to our appointment)

I told her I can redo it for her as soon as I can for $35 JUST to pay for product and break even

She again says I should do it for free because I mislead her

Blocked🫠

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In spite of it all

You are still so perfect to me

Despite the ending

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Today feels like we’re still us

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This is the first time I’ve had to change my bedsheets alone in years

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I wanna be angry but I’m not

I know that some things she said wasn’t true, but that’s okay.

She’s angry and I can understand why, she has some things to work on but I definitely have some too, probably more.

At the end of the day all I can do it think about my side not hers, I was hurt and didn’t know how to heal so this grudge pushed us apart and I let it, but our friendship was so amazing when we had it.

I could be myself or whoever I felt like being around her, I was almost always happy and I loved her like family, I would have done anything for her as long as it was good for her and maybe that was the problem.

I don’t have a lot of friends now so maybe the problem is just me; but I will work on it.

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When he overreacts, she says it’s because he has trauma

When I overreact, it’s because I am petty

When he doesn’t trust me, it’s because it’s hard for him to trust people

When I don’t trust him, it’s because I’m assuming the worst

When he hurts her, she forgives him

When I hurt her, she doesn’t even tell me

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What do you do when you feel like you care about someone way more than they care about you?

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The moment I decided not to worry how much people like me I realized I really don’t like people

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I wanna be positive in my life but I also want to be honest and that’s where the sadness comes in

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Watch me post my hair shit here because I know no one I know irl will see it

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*wakes up at 7am every weekday*

Oh boy Friday night I can sleep in

*Sleeps until 8am* living the life

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My problem with people is that they would rather argue their perspective until they are out of breath rather than even think of trying to understand someone else’s. Seriously, trying to explain this to people in real life is like pulling fucking teeth.

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You can go to the doctor because you feel bad, and he can give you an explanation of what is going on in your body.

The difference is that the doctor knows it firsthand, and you are only being told the information

You can never understand it as a fact the way someone who understands the human body does, so don’t act like you do

I’m going on a tangent but people reading stuff on the internet and taking it as seriously as firsthand information is infuriating. An article online supports your beliefs, or scorns another and people choose to take it as fact. Not only take it as fact, but spread it as truth when they themselves can never be 100% sure! If someone told you something happened, and you spread the story as if you truly experienced it, even that spreads a lie. Even a story with only one perspective can be a lie. The truth lies in the acknowledgment that everyone can see it differently, each assessment is not wrong, but a different perspective.

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Here’s how to not argue with people because of stupid shit

-acknowledge that there are infinite perspectives of any and every situation

-differentiate the knowledge you know from experience and what you are told to believe

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I’m running out of songs after YMCA

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Im tired of feeling like people are going to be tired of me