Introduction
This blog is a place for me to share - but primarily save - things that make me hard and make me come.
I am happily married, monogamous, looking for nothing more than inspiration and probably won't massively engage with people on here (except sometimes to seek or offer advice or otherwise discuss and debate things). Except for my kids, my wife is everything to me.
I came here from BDSMLR and I miss it. So far this seems full of very young people (which makes me a bit uncomfortable) and quite extreme caption writing and not enough porn. Maybe I'll end up liking it but Im not sure so far. But BDSMLR is dying so hey...
Politics and beliefs
In real life I am a 25yr veteran of progressive, feminist, anti capitalist, anti authoritarian, anti fascist, anti war, environmental political activism and organising.
I am a 40+, straight, white, working class man and the working class I am part of is as global and diverse as humanity itself.
I have become more aware and understanding of patriarchal oppressions, rising misogeny and feminist struggles in the last few years, ironically partly through engagement with kink.
Any real fascists, racists, misogynists, transphobes or other bigots, please go away. I hope to meet you on the streets.
However:
I get off on Mf Ds and misogeny as a kink.
I even think in real life we can use it to undo some harmful sexist behaviours we often exhibit.
But it is still a kink, still a game, not representative of my beliefs or how I would ever treat anyone without explicit, enthusiastic consent.
Kinks I am into:
Mf Ds
Female submission
Abuse/degradation of women
Objectification/use of women
Ownership/domestication of women
Piss/spit
Slapping/spanking
Rape fantasies
Exhibitionism/public
Kinks I am not
Ageplay
Snuff
Scat
Animals
Incest
Anything I think may be "real"
Leather/whips/etc
Still, don't yuck others yums.
