you are your mother

ma, twenties

[bad-moodboard]

Fallen debris from the burnt out roof structure sits near the high altar inside Notre Dame Cathedral in Paris, Christophe Morin

[forgottenflickr]

2006

[bad-moodboard]

Fallen debris from the burnt out roof structure sits near the high altar inside Notre Dame Cathedral in Paris, Christophe Morin

[rilowitz]

[blainehasregrets]

I love this callback to A House Is Not A Home in Theatricality, where Finn answers Kurt. He recognizes the loneliness Kurt had been feeling ("Well I'm not meant to live alone, turn this house into a home // When I climb the stair and turn the key, oh, please be there" "You say you feel so empty, that our house just ain't a home // I'm always somewhere else and you're always there alone"), and promises that despite what happened between them, Kurt can trust him and he'll be there for him ("Just a few more hours and I'll be right home to you").

While he was initially a little freaked out by it, A House Is Not A Home is a song that really spoke to Finn, so much that he sang it himself to his dad’s chair. The song had helped Finn realize his father is more than just the things he and his mom own, and so I think it’s extra sweet and more heartfelt that Finn would want to respond back to a song that meant something to him, hoping this would mean just as much to Kurt.

[phantomsofyourformerself]

# rant

ive been on a relationship that i asjed for a time out in these 3 months. but its been so hard. she's also traumatized and had stuff to deal with and whatever i understand but it's been logically impossible to deal with. i always feel like i'm a burden and an object of shame, and it's so tiring. especially because she's very centered on what she wants and frankly, i don't know how to build connections like these. i don't know what comes with a relationship when she has these strong beliefs of it. and there's the entire stigma that i have been changing all that about me but every single time i felt something negative about hers, it comes back to me and my unability to open up. there's this entire "i have given you everything and you refuse to let me keep this thing about myself" and also. she thinks i should prioritise her over everything else. which is impossible for me. it's so hard not to take is that i am impossible to love without being known for years and her trauma is bigger than mine so her needs are more reasonable and also, i should kill myself

[normalbrothers]

committing suicide not because of the trauma but because of the economic precarity resulting from the trauma

[carnadelions]

THE VAMPIRE LESTAT 3.02 — Toledo

[albertserra]

Sharp Objects by Gillian Flynn, 2006.

[phantomsofyourformerself]

sometimes things happen to me and i just remember roman roy out of a suddenly. like a patron saint

[phantomsofyourformerself]

getting a girlfriend is easy letting her know you is the difficult part

[phantomsofyourformerself]

it would be easier if i didn't thought so low of myself but this is something for another lifetime. sad!

[phantomsofyourformerself]

you guys will never guess what didn't work out

[riverlarking]

ancient peoples loooved a flood narrative it was kinda like their beatles

[diosapate]

operation normal girl

[tordenvejr]

[vintagewildlife]

Luna moth By: Jane Burton From: The Mating Game 1976

[phantomsofyourformerself]

on god i am never showing this place to anyone im dating unless they know i have a place here beforehand. the topics are too cautious for things like these

[wildparsnip]

dream worms graphite and pen on paper Sophie Margolin, 2017