Okay you know what I was just gonna reblog this and say nothing but you know what, Iām pissed off and you wanna know why?
Ted is a Nice Guy. I donāt mean a nice man, no. I mean the motherfucking āNice Guyā who moans and complains about how women just wonāt flock to him and be exactly who he expects of them. He knew from the beginning Robin wanted to focus on her career before marriage. He knew from the beginning she didnāt want kids. She rejected him time after time before they dated the first time. She rejected him time after time after that, for nine goddamn fucking years. His refusal to stop pursuing her, and accept she did not fucking love her, destroyed his relationship with Victoria TWICE. He is the whiny high school teenager bitching because the popular girl he obsesses over just isnāt into him. He is the goddamn Nice Guy, the kind whose every action, every so-called kind deed is done purely out of trying to get Robin to date him.
Robin motherfucking Scherbatsky was an independent woman who not only relied on herself, but expected the men she wanted to be with to be independent and rely on himself, as well. She was career-minded and strong and independent and self-reliant. Those were the traits that doomed her and Ted.
In this gifset we see that Ted did not respect Robin for who she was. He didnāt want her to be self-reliantāhe wanted her to rely on him. Heās like so many men out there, so many Nice Guys. Baby, let me take care of you while you put me before everything else, Youāre too independent, Robin. I need you to need me, I need you to rely on me. The reason they didnāt work out was because they both wanted and needed different things in relationships, and thatās okayāwhat isnāt okay is that instead of accepting that, Ted blames her. Tells her that SHE is the reason why they broke up, and something about her is WRONG. He insults her, tells her that her fundamental personality is wrong, and that she is why their relationship failed; that they they just arenāt compatible, no; because she is broken.
She is so upset at this she goes to another ex. Heās the Jerk, you know; the guy who all the Nice Guys in the world call The Asshole. And you know what? You know what this Asshole does? He comforts her, he compliments her. He tells her that those traits, the traits sheās been belittled and taunted over, the traits that make her broken, the reason why She Canāt Find A Man, are what makes her wonderful. Barney loved her for her insecurities, and he supported her independence. He supported her self-reliance. In one scene, this Asshole proved to be far more accepting and mature than the so-called Nice Guy.
So who do she end up with?
Ted.
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