phantom

hiatus until further notice.

[phxntomsdusk]

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🍋┆phantom ， 사랑 — he / they ִ ࣪𖤐

˖ ✦ › 222 𓂃 ★ wilbur’s boy

lil about me;

that one person from the crimebeings duo (aka the wilbur to ax’s tommy). nonbinary and bisexual kid, plus somewhere in the aroace spectrum. crimeboys, james marriott, lovejoy, chuckle sandwich, sorry boys, qsmp <3

my other half -> @jaes-lattes

what i write;

this is a strictly sfw acc, im a minor so any nsfw is not allowed, but i do make nsfw jokes but that’s as far as it’ll go<3 i write for mostly wilbur and chuckle sandwich, plus bursonas and other personas. plus i love to write based on songs !

& i am the proud creator of softball!wilma , baseball!wilbur , klepto!wilbur , klepto!wilma & goth!wilma / goth!softball wilma , churchboy!wilbur (lilly did help me with that tho <3)

masterlist | boundaries

others accs;

side blog - @phxntomrants

age regression - @littlesoot

wattpad - phxntomsdusk

anons;

taglist; @ax-y10 , @joviepog , @idontreallyexistyet , @pheliiaa , @rqvii , @lillylvjy , @ivvees-blog , @average-vibe , @toastyliltoasts41 (ask to be added!)

divider creds -> @cafekitsune , @saradika-graphics

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[phxntomsdusk]

i am officially quitting this account for good.

i’m proud of the following i was able to gain on here, the community i formed around my writing has been some of the nicest people i’ve met, and i’m truly grateful you’ve all stuck around.

though for the better in the future i don’t think continuing this account would be best.

in the future i may return on a different account with a new change of pace, but for now i shall stay off tumblr as of the time being.

if anyone wants to reach out my discord is in my last post, i may check in occasionally with dm’s and such, where you can ask for other ways of communicating.

but until next time friends :) remember to stay safe and take care of yourself, i love you all and you’ve truly helped me build a space i’ve grown to love and cherish, one u was able to call my own.

- phantom

[phxntomsdusk]

rlly don’t think i’m gonna be continuing this acc in the foreseeable future due to personal and social reasons. my mental health has been off and on since november-december of last year, i’ve constantly been close to quitting this account just as i had with my previous acc

with not being able to write for something i enjoy, it’s truly not fun anymore. i may come back to this acc at some point, but i doubt it. it was fun to meet people and such, but for now, this acc will be smth of the past

i’ll question coming back in these upcoming weeks and months, we’ll see. if you need to reach out my discord username has changed to “titihq” feel free to add me or send a dm, i’ll most likely respond at some point

i loved having the opportunity to share my love for writing and make a small community here on tumblr, i’ll see you around at some point, have a good day/night my friends :)

- phantom

[phxntomsdusk]

gonna be logging out for the day !!

[whos-nicooo]

i'm with @mysticalsoot

even if i don't want to speak up any more than i have about what i think about this situation, i agree with a lot of what connor says. his posts are worth reading. actually understand why people are saying the things that they are before attacking them.

if you don't like connor, just block me too and move on.

[afewskittlesshortofarainbow]

I'd like to say tla special thank you to some people for constantly supporting me and always being in my notes and bringing a smile to my face.

@phxntomsdusk

@ella-fella-bo-bella

@sergeantjessi

@sootwilb

And many others, I'm just too tired to go through my notes to look for all of you and I can't tag everyone

[phxntomsdusk]

lowkey honored to be here<3

[mysticalsoot]

logging on for a moment to say fuck you ccharza. fuck. you.

was doxxing both of a persons addresses fucking necessary? what the hell did you think you’d get out of it?

[phxntomsdusk]

hey i just saw that you’re leaving tumblr and i just want to say i’m sorry and hope you feel good enough to come back here whenever! take your time away, we’ll be waiting here<3

i really appreciate it :)

idk when i’ll be back with posting but it shouldn’t be forever. i’m most likely just not gonna be working on fics and stuff

[phxntomsdusk]

break from tumblr for a bit, if you wanna reach out add my disc i’ll be on there

luvejoys

yeah

[phxntomsdusk]

let’s hope twitter doesn’t go for my throat today !

[phxntomsdusk]

gonna leave this here

[whos-nicooo]

i'd also like to add this

[phxntomsdusk]

as someone who has suffered from an abusive situation and found comfort in certain content creators, i now feel like the bad guy for finding comfort in said creators

but another thing i wanna say. WHEN WAS IT CONFIRMED THEY EVER DATED?

anyway

[phxntomsdusk]

sleep

all i need is sleep

i’m gonna sleep

then i’m gonna write tomorrow

yeahhh

[lillylvjy]

Please tumblr.

Please make this a place where I can go without people assuming shit for once.

[phxntomsdusk]

i need tumblr to be a safe space from the shit going on in twitter

PLEASE BRO

i want a safe space to do shit and not have to see people spreading rumors and making people look bad

[lillylvjy]

thanks for slowly taking my comfort away from me.

[phxntomsdusk]

i truly believe parasocial relationships will be the end of most of my favorite content creators careers.

anymore i feel as tho there are two sides to a fandom. the one who like to sit back and bask in content, maybe following a few update blogs or accounts so they’re updated on the most recent events involving their favorite creator.

and then there’s the people who dig too deep into someone’s personal life. they treat them as a friend and not a stranger constructed of pixels on a screen. they talk about them and refer to them as if they know them in real life.

these people concern me, constantly digging into the lives of those online, and making it an ultimate hell for everyone else.

parasocial relationships are an evasion of privacy, a way to start rumors and lies, a thing that can make or break a persons online presence.

parasocial relationships will most likely scare people off the internet, leaving other fans with nothing to watch, with no comfort creator or streams, maybe even video to look forward too.

please, if you’re going to be a fan of someone be normal.

there’s a perfect term for this; stan. stalker-fan.

don’t be a stan. be a normal fan.

consume the content, leave a like and positive comment, and move on.

don’t treat them like a friend. don’t talk about them like a friend. don’t act like they’re your friend. because they’re not.

if you only know them through a screen, their posts are just a bunch of 1’s and 0’s to you; they are not your friend.

parasocial relationships truly need to stop