you already know what it is when you see his behinds comingā¦
when a guy comes out of his mouth and blatantly says, āIM NOT LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP. SHORTY, IM JUST CHILLINā ā pay very close attention & never forget his telling words.
it does not matter how often the two of you smoke together, have sex, wake up in the same bed or get caught up in the longest and most intimate conversations. it does not matter how many times he has asked you to help him with things that seem like tasks or responsibilities that someone would only ask of a romantic partner. the universal, social motto, āACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDSā does not necessarily apply to guys who arent interested in investing themselves into committed, titled relationships. yes, he enjoys spending time with you. he definitely finds you attractive. and he may have even introduced you to his mother, god sister, close homeboys and first born. so what?ā¦
once upon a time, these moments were monumental signals that suggested a dating situation was moving closer to something substantial. now-a-day, guys pull these stunts as a part of their regular, dating routine. EVERYONE meets the homies in 2016 and EVERYONE gets invited to family cookouts.
you and your āgirlfriendsā are wasting time sitting around trying to figure out WHY he would have said this or done that IF he didnāt really want to be with you. when a man you have been spending intimate time with has changed his mind about wanting to enter into a more serious, monogamous relationship, he will come out of his mouth and say so.
him getting jealous over you pretending that youāre seeing someone else or him blowing up your phone because youāve been intentionally ignoring his text messages for days, is his EGO IN ACTION and not his heart.
itās totally cool that you play with the guy who āisnāt looking for anything seriousā, but balance the time you spend with him alongside another man who IS wanting a long term relationship.
*its just so unfortunate that the guys who are willing to give us the world are the ones we are usually not organically drawn to*
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