Hi I waswondering about getting some advice. I get jealous of other girls and don't like my daddy talking or looking at them because I'm insecure i have no reason to be im barely 100pounds i know i can love him more than any other girl could but I hate how I look I have problems with my eating i just don't want to i want to lose weight and i look at other girls and feel like he could slip away even though he loves me and we both want to be with each other but my jealousy keeps causing complicati
Unfortunately, I am not a jealous person and am currently in a poly relationship with a girl and my Daddy. We are all together and yes, my daddy and my gf are in relationship with one another. I feel no jealousy. I will try my best to answer this question, but I will not completely understand it. But I still hope it helps.
I am also around your weight. The lowest I was 90 pounds when I had anorexia, which was extremely underweight for my frame. The only thing I would eat was liquids. Being insecure doesn’t necessarily rely solely on weight. I was embarrassed by many other things before I had this obsession with my weight. I felt my nose was too large and my jaw too strong, like my mothers. Of course, they were normal for my face, but I was insecure about it. Just know, there is a cure for your insecurity. You can go to therapy, to specialists, etc, you can write everyday, listen to soothing music, and participate in other self care techniques to make sure you are taking care of yourself emotionally. My anorexia went away when I finally gave myself time to heal. I didn’t have any therapists, or specialists for this particular illness and I just used my self-care techniques and realized how I was diminishing away. It scared me so much that I changed it. I hope you can find something to help you with this.
For your jealousy, I would ask you two things.
1. Do you love your Daddy?
If you said no to either of those questions, then you both need to sit down and have a serous talk about what this relationship is really all about and how you can go about loving each other unconditionally and trusting one another.
If you’re Daddy is prone to do these kind of things in the past (cheating, looking at other girls, overall being untrustworthy), then I would not suggest being with him in general. And maybe give a break to really think about if you want to be constantly jealous, always checking up on him, and can’t seem to leave him alone for a minute as he will be unfaithful and live a life in this relationship of being constantly paranoid.
If you’re Daddy has always been faithful and you have no reason to think this, then like I said, talk to your Daddy, trust your Daddy, and know that your Daddy always loves you, even when you’re not around.