Sports Parenting 101: How to Boost Morale
It’s the beginning of a new school year, and every parent with an active child knows what that means: it’s officially time for school sports again. Maybe your daughter lives for field hockey, or maybe you have a son that can’t wait to get back on the football field. Either way, you are sports parent now and you love doing whatever you can to ensure you’re involved and supportive. You’ll happily drive the carpool for games back to back, and you have no issue getting the team snacks every now and then.
Since this isn’t your first school sports season, you know how important it is to keep the team and your kid motivated throughout the year. After a few losing games or a heavy workload at school, staying in high spirits during game day can be a bit tough. You don’t have to hire your own cheerleading squad to boost team morale when times get tough. If you want to ensure everyone does their best and is happy to get on the field during game day, try these tips.
Point out small victories
Maybe the team didn’t win the game, but that doesn’t mean everyone did a bad job. You noticed that Jacob made a great defensive move when the other team was close to scoring. You saw that Amy blocked a hard shot. You noticed Alex was kind enough to sincerely congratulate the other team. Sometimes simply pointing out the things that went right during the game can pick up anybody’s spirit when they lose.
Plan some activities after the game
Why do you think so many coaches make it a tradition to go out for pizza after the team wins a game? It isn’t because kids love pizza (although that may play into it), it’s because they know how important it is to foster a sense of belonging and camaraderie with teammates. Your kids and their team members will feel more connected to one another and will be in higher spirits if they take the time to do things off the field. Plan a team dinner, or a fun night at an activity center once a while.
Go beyond jerseys
Uniforms are a great way to help people feel like they belong, but you have to take those off once the game is finished. Something simple like custom embroidered patches could be sewn onto a jacket or backpack, and can double as a fashion statement and support for the team. Custom t-shirts, bags, and other items can boost morale and help people really feel like they’re part of them.









