Audrey

im the sweetest girl in town so why are you so mean

[dollfacedaya]

Can’t wait to turn 18 and disappear from everyone’s life

[dollfacedaya]

the feminine urge to reinvent yourself every 3 business days

[dollfacedaya]

girlhood is romanticizing your life so intensely that you forget you’re literally just sitting in your bedroom

[dollfacedaya]

Do you ever look in the mirror and genuinely think “oh she’s gorgeous” and then 20 minutes later wonder who let you leave the house

[dollfacedaya]

do other girls also have a completely different personality depending on what they’re wearing

[dollfacedaya]

i wish girls could just exist without constantly wondering if they’re pretty enough”

[dollfacedaya]

sometimes i feel insecure, sometimes i think i’m the prettiest girl in the world. sometimes i love my body, sometimes i hate it. sometimes i want to be delicate and adored, sometimes i want to be untouchable. i can be the sweetest girl you’ve ever met or the meanest. i want attention, but i hate being perceived. i want to be loved, but i push people away. i’ll romanticize my whole life one day and hate myself the next. i’m soft, jealous, dreamy, angry, loving, insecure, confident, everything at once.

Who am I?

[dollfacedaya]

girlhood is wanting to grow up so badly and then wanting to be little again the second life gets difficult

[dollfacedaya]

sometimes i don’t know if i actually dislike myself or if i’ve just been taught to look for things to dislike

[dollfacedaya]

nobody talks about how exhausting it is constantly wondering how other people perceive you

[dollfacedaya]

i’ve noticed that the ⭐️🪽 community can be sooo unnecessarily hateful towards other women 😭 like girls we get it, you hate yourself, but what exactly did jessica on tiktok do to you besides post her little ootd???

why are we treating a random girl existing and looking cute like it’s a personal attack, just mad because ur face card is ass😭

[dollfacedaya]

WOMEN ARE NOT MADE FOR MEN

men have spent centuries deciding what a woman should look like and then calling it “beauty.”

thin =but not too thin. soft =but not fat. Natural = shave, and always look feminine. natural, but not too natural. young, but somehow never aging. sexy, but only in ways they approve of. effortless, but spend money to look effortless.

and the strangest part is how often women are taught to enforce these rules on each other. because beauty standards were never really about beauty. they were about making women feel like their bodies were public property something to be inspected, corrected, compared, purchased, and approved.

a woman who believes she is ugly is easier to sell things to. a woman who believes she is aging is easier to sell youth to. a woman who believes she is “not enough” is easier to keep chasing enough. maybe the most radical thing a woman can do is stop treating her body like a problem that needs solving. let them call it unattractive. you were never born to be aesthetically convenient for a man.

[dollfacedaya]

WOMEN ARE NOT MADE FOR MEN

men have spent centuries deciding what a woman should look like and then calling it “beauty.”

thin =but not too thin. soft =but not fat. Natural = shave, and always look feminine. natural, but not too natural. young, but somehow never aging. sexy, but only in ways they approve of. effortless, but spend money to look effortless.

and the strangest part is how often women are taught to enforce these rules on each other. because beauty standards were never really about beauty. they were about making women feel like their bodies were public property something to be inspected, corrected, compared, purchased, and approved.

a woman who believes she is ugly is easier to sell things to. a woman who believes she is aging is easier to sell youth to. a woman who believes she is “not enough” is easier to keep chasing enough. maybe the most radical thing a woman can do is stop treating her body like a problem that needs solving. let them call it unattractive. you were never born to be aesthetically convenient for a man.

[mew8sijskwkw]

PLEASE READ IF YOU DON’tTWANT TUMBLR TO BE LIKE INSTAGRAM COMMENTS

looks maxxers made their way to tumblr and it’s so bad

like hello???? this is TUMBLR.

not a fucking beauty pageant.

not a facial-rating forum.

not a place where some random man/woman can crawl onto your blog and decide whether your face is a 4 or an 8.

and somehow we’re supposed to be okay with people:

🚩 going onto RANDOM girls’ blogs and rating their faces/bodies

🚩 making girls feel ugly for having completely normal features

🚩 acting like your nose/jaw/eyes/body need to be “fixed”

🚩 pushing insanely rigid, Eurocentric beauty standards

🚩 being racist/colorist about which features are “attractive”

🚩 body-shaming girls who don’t fit their ideal

🚩 romanticizing plastic surgery like insecurity = a shopping list

🚩 obsessing over “bone maxxing” and other extreme appearance shit

🚩 turning BEING A HUMAN BEING into a fucking optimization project

and the worst part???

girls actually start believing them.

you look in the mirror and suddenly your nose is “too big.”

your jaw is “wrong.”

your body isn’t “feminine enough.”

your skin isn’t perfect enough.

your face isn’t symmetrical enough.

you were literally just existing five minutes ago and now some random internet account has convinced you that you need to change your FACE to deserve feeling pretty

NO don’t forget the racism they bring to

we’re not doing that.

Tumblr should be a place where a teenage girl can post her outfit, her makeup, her art, her selfies, her poetry, her weird little fandom obsession, whatever the fuck she wants without somebody turning her appearance into a score.

and before anybody says “just ignore it”:

why should girls have to hide from harassment instead of the people doing the harassing being held accountable?

If an account is actually targeting people, body-shaming them, harassing them, posting hateful content, sexualizing minors, or violating Tumblr’s rules, REPORT THE BEHAVIOR.

Don’t harass them back. Don’t dox them. Don’t dogpile them. Report their accounts and their community’s

Just make it very clear:

🎀 OUR BODIES ARE NOT RATING SYSTEMS.

🎀 OUR FACES ARE NOT PROJECTS.

🎀 OUR INSECURITIES ARE NOT YOUR CONTENT.

🎀 GIRLS DON’T EXIST TO BE RANKED.

Use the hastag #LooksmaxxingLeaveTumblr 🎀 even if it’s just one post spreading awareness, when u see a account REPORT IT.. theres already a community with over 1k people how soon is it gonna be before tumblr is like instagram

[mew8sijskwkw]

When tumblr turns into instagram comments I don’t wanna hear no complaining because no one wants to help cause it’s “messing up ur aesthetic “

[stalkingaccount8292]

When tumblr turns into instagram comments I don’t wanna hear no complaining because no one wants to help cause it’s “messing up ur aesthetic

[pixiedevine]

I normally don’t repost this but there are to many young girls on this app for me not to

[justcallme1anangel]

tumble out of bed dizzy in the head

[imaflowerxoo]

[eloiseezy]

I’ve always felt different