This blog is ABOUT AND ADVOCATES for love towards all Black women
This blog SUPPORTS all Black women being the love interests and soulmates
If you're racist/this isn't your "cup of tea," then my blog isn't for you. I will continue to post about and talk about Black women, and it won't ever stop. 💗
This blog is ABOUT AND ADVOCATES for love towards all Black women
This blog SUPPORTS all Black women being the love interests and soulmates
If you're racist/this isn't your "cup of tea," then my blog isn't for you. I will continue to post about and talk about Black women, and it won't ever stop. 💗
You know who’s going to give you everything you want? Yourself.
You know who always has your back? Yourself.
You know who’s never going to leave you? Yourself.
This summer is about creating space to feel comfortable in who I am and setting the tone for choosing the right people to allow into my life. I’m taking the time to invest in myself, not just to be alone, but to trust myself, show up for me, be my own safe place, and my biggest push forward.
Stepping Out of My Comfort Zone ₊˚⊹ᰔ
I like to challenge myself. I want to do that more often, but I’ve built this little safety box around me, and it’s hard to break out of. So I’m taking it one step at a time—slowly removing the box around me so I can grow.
Go places alone (cafes, beaches, theaters, etc.)
Starting conversations with strangers (and I don’t mean randomly going up to people for no reason. I mean if I want to find something out, I’m usually too shy and just thug it out but now I’ll slowly break out of this)
Wearing outfits and accessorizing the way I’ve always wanted to but been too scared to.
Doing something that scares me just a little
Every time I take a step, I grow, even if it’s seems scary.
Mother Nature is my Home ₊˚⊹ᰔ
Nature is so beautiful. Genuinely. It amazes me every time.
Being surrounded by it feels necessary- like a reset. Sometimes all it takes is looking up at the sky to remember how big the universe is, and how small my fears and doubts actually are.
Evening strolls with music or journalling
Taking a book to the park or an open field
Getting sunlight on purpose, to feel alive
Touching grass (literally) when life feels fabricated
Stargazing
Creating intentionally ₊˚⊹ᰔ
I want to create habits that feel like home.
Habits, rituals, and routines that help me feel like myself, but also give me a little boost when I need it.
Looking for and trying new recipes
Dancing around my room with no care in the world
Focus periods (just me and my thoughts)
Creating todo and bucket lists
Solo hobbies ₊˚⊹ᰔ
I’ve learned that the best way to love being alone is to make the time feel meaningful.
If I can fill it with things I enjoy- like hobbies that bring me peace or joy- then being by myself doesn't feel lonely. It feels full.
Learn a new language (basic French and Korean for me)
Reading (i manifested some new books so summer is on)
Beach trips (manifesting a cute beach bag!)
Crocheting (buying a kit from Amazon)
Catching up on shows and giving new ones a chance
Working out (yes I’m going to make working out a hobby)
Colouring
Plant identification + gardening (flowers mainly)
Scrapbooking
Hair care (ayurvedic hair growth spray: fenugreek powder, flaxseed powder, rosemary, hibiscus leaves powder, a small drop of jojoba oil)
Without boundaries, I move on autopilot. And when I do, I shrink into the girl who just wanted to be seen. But that’s not me anymore. So I stepped back from anything that made me feel invisible, too much or not enough. I decided to make a list. Not for them. For me. A quiet reminder to only hold onto what feels like love. No more shrinking. I deserve to take up space.
I won’t stretch myself thin just to keep up with everyone else.
If I’m tired, I rest. No guilt.
If scrolling makes me feel worse, I log off.
I’m allowed to mute, block, or unfollow without warning or guilt.
Just because someone sees my story doesn’t mean they have access to me.
If it feels one-sided, I stop pouring.
If someone’s presence drains me, I don’t force a connection.
I won’t chase anyone for clarity, love, or attention.
I honor my feelings even when others don’t understand them.
I don’t stay where I feel small or unseen.
I don’t abandon myself just to be liked.
If something feels off, I trust that.
I get to choose peace, even if it means disappointing someone.
I don’t wait for others to validate my dreams.
I’m allowed to outgrow people, places, and versions of myself.
I don’t apologize for choosing what’s best for me.
Intentions for the Season ₊˚⊹ᰔ
🍓🌴 I’ll listen to my voice louder than anyone else’s.
🍓🌴I will say yes to things that scare me in a good way
you cannot talk about the homophobic murder of jonathan joss without including in the conversation that he is indigenous.
american indian men are at the 2nd highest risk of death by murder compared to all other ethnic groups. in their lifetimes, 82% of native men report having experienced domestic violence. yet the overwhelming majority of perpetrators are non-natives (88% of native men and 92% of native women who reported violence said their attacker was non-native). what’s more, tribal governments are often stymied in their attempts to bring justice against non-natives, meaning that many of these cases go unresolved.
this was an intersectional attack. the fact that he is indigenous matters, even if the motivation was homophobic, because it made him even more vulnerable and disposable in the eyes of his killer.
as always, look into MMIWP to learn more, and speak up for us. miigwetch, take care
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im so sorry I have no money but I will put this on my page . Please help this girl. This really breaks my heart
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