Solar Women and The Curse of Sacrifice
None of them really love you...they just fixated on you because of how you made them feel. But that's not real love.
Solar Nakshatra women possess within them a unique inner radiance, that translates to an external shine. That shine provokes a plethora of reactions from the native’s environment, some of them less obvious than you would think from such a positive placement. The Sun is a sad lesson in realizing, that when people see something good in front of them, they want to own it and control it, and try to destroy what they can’t control.
We must remember, that the Sun has a malefic nature to it. It is responsible for dividing limitations, drawing territorial lines, ruling over its kingdom and burning its enemies. The king has an unquestionable, objective advantage of position and with that advantage comes power. However, with power comes jealousy, competition and fake flattery practiced by sneaky position-grabbers.
Solar Nakshatras over time grow into not trusting most people, as they deal a lot with those who simply want to stay in their good graces for their own benefit. People desire to bask in their energy so much they will do everything to hold onto it, even just for a chance for a “turn” with them. The mere presence of the Solar woman makes men feel validated in their masculinity and women feeling like some of that magical shine is falling on them.
The difficulty starts when people realize they’re not allowed access to that magical Solar energy anymore. The intense jealousy experienced causes the Solar native enemies. “If I can’t have her, nobody can”. First, they try to control such a woman and lock her up, then if that fails, they try to destroy her.
To understand the reason behind such reactions in people, minus the basic psychology of human pettiness, we can look to Kabbalah in order to understand the energy of Tiphareth.
The karmic purpose of Tiphareth, and thus, the Sun, is to achieve an energetic state of higher being and enter into a real connection with the Divine. In fact, Kabbalah compares Tiphareth to Jesus dying on the Cross in the name of God. So the native is required to give up any latent internal narcissism, that can come with being born into advantage, and truly join God from an ascended, more selfless place.
In fact, Tiphareth can be so in love with their own energetic radiance and beauty, they can think themselves superior to others. The Universe sends them “punishing” experiences in order for them to understand the meaning and value of true love, in both human and divine form. Otherwise, they get “killed” for the purpose of their beauty being sacrificed for a higher purpose, even if that is done so through people’s lower reactions.
Solar women actually really struggle to find true love, because they struggle to find people who genuinely care for their best interests instead of just using them. The curse of the Sun is to be “lonely at the top”. But if they have inner perseverance and don’t fall too far into the narcissism spectrum, they end up recognizing those who truly love them over those who simply envy them.
Cameron Diaz, Krittika Moon
Cameron Diaz has had many famous roles, but in the context of this subject, the best example is her role in There’s Something About Mary.
Mary is a beautiful, giving young woman with a soft spot for disabled people due to her own family situation. However, she has no luck in relationships, as she attracts perverts, stalkers and creeps who lie, commit fraud and adopt false identities just to be able to get near her or get a scrap of her attention. She actually had to get a restraining order against one of them, move across the country and change her name to protect her peace. These men all act like they’re entitled to something from her just because of her kindness. Mary only finds love with Ted, when he calls out her past lovers on not really caring about her well being, but simply being around her radiance being a balm on their insecurities. He’s also proved to be the only one to actually have interests in common with her and get along with her family. This is the level of choosiness a Solar woman must adopt.
Elle Fanning, Uttara Phalguni Moon.
Elle has had several roles, that exemplify the Solar woman archetype. One of them is her performance in A Rainy Day in New York, where she is a student interviewing celebrities and artists for her college newspaper. As she meets them, famous men all find her attractive and want to have an affair with her, but at the end of the day she finds herself abandoned in difficult circumstances, when all these men want to own her, but ultimately leave her to fend for herself. She ends up single, when her boyfriend realizes she doesn’t share any of his interests or aspirations. This is a good example of a Solar woman who hasn’t managed to find a partner through the right set of guidelines, but is still learning them.
In The Neon Demon, Elle actually embodies the Narcissus type, falling in love with her own beauty and being careless with people’s jealousy over it, using them for her own advantage when she is forced to, but at the end of the day showing condescension towards a more innocent form of infatuation. As a result of her mistakes, she gets killed by jealous women in a ritual used to take her shine away from her, as per the “Sacrificed” archetype. You can also see the women who killed her benefiting from her energy after her death.
Monica Belucci, Uttara Ashadha Ascendant in Malena.
Malena is the most beautiful woman in town, but she attracts attention of too many men, and her beauty sparks intense jealousy of local women. As a result, they beat her up, permanently changing her. She is only accepted when she is no longer a threat to the townsfolk, and settled with her husband she fits into the community.
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