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[kiss-my-piss]

Resources for Male Victims of Abuse

How to Recognize Abuse

**Emotional Abuse of Men

**Sexual Assault of Men and Boys

**Men Can Be Victims of Abuse, Too

**Domestic Violence Against Men - Know the Signs

**Information for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse

**Help for Battered Men

**Battered Men, Battered Husbands

**For Male Survivors of Rape and Sexual Abuse

**Male Survivors of Incest and Sexual Child Abuse

**Help for Men Who Are Being Abused

Help Lines (Phone and Text Chat)

National Domestic Violence Hotline: [phone] (or 1-800-787-3224 for TTY)

National Dating Abuse Hotline: [phone]

National Sexual Assault Hotline: [phone]

National Suicide Prevention Hotline: [phone]

Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men: 1-888-743-5754 (US and Canada)

Hopeline Suicide Prevention Hotline: [phone]

National Hotline for Victims of Crimes: 1-855-484-2846

National Human Trafficking Hotline: [phone]

Polaris Human Trafficking Text Line: Text “BEFREE” to 233733

**1in6/RAINN Chat for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse

Support Groups

**1in6 Support Groups

Male Survivor Support Groups

Pandora’s Aquarium - Chat (includes chats specifically for men)

Pandora’s Aquarium - Forums (includes forums specifically for men)

How to Find a Shelter

Domestic Shelters Search (shelter locator with filters to find shelters specifically for male survivors)

SAFE (located in Austin, TX, but states they can help people find resources/shelters in their area)

How to Find a Therapist

**Male Survivor Therapist Directory

Mental Health Services Locator

Resources for and About the Abuse of Kids/Teens

Love is Respect Hotline: [phone] (Hotline for teens)

Darkness to Light Helpline (Sexual Abuse): 1-866-367-5444

Darkness to Light Text Line: Text “LIGHT” to 741741

ChildHelp USA National Child Abuse Hotline: [phone]

Children of the Night Hotline (Children in Prostitution): 1-800-551-1300

National Runaway Safeline: 1-800-786-2929

Covenant House Nineline (Homeless Youth): 1-800-999-9999

Stop it Now Hotline: [phone] (for adults concerned about the welfare of a child)

Jennifer Ann’s Group (for teens experiencing dating violence)

Other Resource Lists 

(While I tried to include the most helpful resources I could here (i.e., resources that lend themselves to one-on-one communication, individual reading, etc.), there are plenty of other great resources, including regional resources, listed in these links. Some of the resources are specific to men and others aren’t, but they are all helpful for male survivors.)

**Male Survivor (regional, international, and online resources)

**Husband Battering: Men and Domestic Violence

**Help for Battered Men: Online Resources

**Help for Battered Men: National and International Resources

**Help for Guys: Help for Victims (some resources for men, many general resources)

[cdeine-crzy]

[i-hate-the-beach]

girls this is important as fuck

[chunkymouse]

I will never not reblog this. Nothing is more important than this. Remember it always. 

[sithbbyy-deactivated20230228]

this needs to be signal boosted for all to see.

[quiet-savior]

This goes for lgbtqia relationships too kids.

[ghost-slut18]

leave while you still see the early red flags, before it becomes really dangerous.

[caps-boo-bear]

What Are the “Warning Signs” of an Abuser?

Red flags and warning signs of an abuser include but are not limited to:

Extreme jealousy

Possessiveness

Unpredictability

A bad temper

Cruelty to animals

Verbal abuse

Extremely controlling behavior

Antiquated beliefs about roles of women and men in relationships

Forced sex or disregard of their partner’s unwillingness to have sex

Sabotage of birth control methods or refusal to honor agreed upon methods

Blaming the victim for anything bad that happens

Sabotage or obstruction of the victim’s ability to work or attend school

Controls all the finances

Abuse of other family members, children or pets

Accusations of the victim flirting with others or having an affair

Control of what the victim wears and how they act

Demeaning the victim either privately or publicly

Embarrassment or humiliation of the victim in front of others

Harassment of the victim at work

What Traits Do Abusers Have in Common?

There is no one typical, detectable personality of an abuser. However, they do often display common characteristics.

An abuser often denies the existence or minimizes the seriousness of the violence and its effect on the victim and other family members.

An abuser objectifies the victim and often sees them as their property or sexual objects.

An abuser has low self-esteem and feels powerless and ineffective in the world. He or she may appear successful, but internally, they feel inadequate.

An abuser externalizes the causes of their behavior. They blame their violence on circumstances such as stress, their partner’s behavior, a “bad day,” on alcohol, drugs, or other factors.

An abuser may be pleasant and charming between periods of violence and is often seen as a “nice person” to others outside the relationship.

[thricethechrises]

Abusers are not just male either folks

[pizzagurl04]

THIS RIGHT HERE ^^^^^^ i feel like a lot of people tend to forget that men get abused in relationships as well. i mean, sure it might not happen as often, but it still happens, its still a problem. ABUSERS ARE NOT JUST MALE

[lettersinscarlet]

10,12, and 14 for Jake

Jakey boy! Love some Jake hehe

———

You felt someone gently shaking you. You groaned as you opened your eyes, a little grumpy. You were about to get angry before you looked over and saw who woke you up. You smiled at your boyfriend, causing him to chuckle softly.

“It’s time to get up,” he said, smiling as you threw the covers back over your head.

“Five more minutes,” you whined, upset when he pulled the covers back.

“Come on, baby,” Jake continued. “We have some things to do.”

With a big sigh, you opened your eyes and stared at him. He smiled at you, and it made you smile back. He made your mornings so much better, even if he was waking you up when you wanted to sleep in.

“Okay, I’m going to let you get ready. I’m going to see if I can snag us something for breakfast or if the guys already ate everything,” he informed you. He went to walk out and you put on your best puppy dog eyes before you called his name.

“Jake, wait! I think you’re forgetting something...” you trailed off, looking up at him. He stopped for a second, not sure what you were talking about, before the realization dawned on him. He gently walked over and he crouched down by your bed, leaning over and pressing a gentle kiss to your lips. He pulled just a few centimeters away from you, looking deep into your eyes.

“Good morning, beautiful,” he whispered. You giggled softly and a certain look came into his eyes. “Your laugh is so adorable,” he confessed. A blush tinted your cheeks and he kissed you one more time. This time he got up and told you he’d be waiting for you downstairs. He shut the door behind him and you let out a contented sigh.

In your opinion, that was one of the best ways to wake up.

[hischierdevils-deactivated20250]

W I L D F L O W E R

5SOS Tumblr Headers inspired by Wildflower.

Please reblog/like if using! <3

[pizzagurl04]

this. is. beauty.

[pizzagurl04]

Seriously tho... if you don’t ship cat and robbie... what are you even doing?!?

[augustsllippedaway-deactivated2]

What your Instagram stories would look like if you were one of the boys girlfriend’s: Cashton edition

Instagram story imagines masterlist

Taglist: @gh0st-0f-y0u-95 @halcyonnhood @asht0ns-world @5-secondsofcolor @lockthisheartinchains @myloverboyash @ashtoniwir @burncrashbromance @lashtoncurls @lashtondaddies @caswinchester2000 @pagesuponstpages @aspiringwildfire @pinkbubbles-and-bigtroubles

If you would like to be on my taglist just message me!

[pizzagurl04]

Muh husbands ❤❤

[halcyonnhood]

Apparently this must be an unpopular opinion, but if all you do is shit on the boys and think that they're "not impressive" anymore...Fuckin leave dude. They aren't teenagers anymore and that means growing and changing their styles or sounds. You don't have to like every song, but stop acting so entitled. They don't owe it to you to make music that'd impress you. Some of you also need to stop holding them to gross standards while saying that you're stans/fans/whatever. :)

[jupiterforbreakfast-deactivated]

Why is no one talking about what happened in São Paulo yesterday?

The sky turned completely black around three in the afternoon partly because of smoke coming from the Amazon rainforest, WHICH IS 2300 KILOMETERS AWAY FROM THE CITY, where the government has greatly increased the amount of land being burned for profit. People are getting sick, animals are dying, native territory is being lost to the flames.

This is what the sky looked like in my city yesterday, in the early afternoon.

It got so dark so fast the city had to turn on the lamp posts and night lighting.

Please talk about this. Reblog this post, non-brazilians especially.

[314eater]

today is the only day you can reblog this

[quotemadness]

“Always show kindness and love to others. Your words might be filling the empty places in someone’s heart.”

— Mandy Hale

[5soshqgallery]

i LOVE their friendship

[missnothingquotes]

I’m ready for hoodies and cold nights.

[pizzagurl04]

Zendaya really be out here glowing like this 💛💛

[extramadness]

[1pepsiboy]

THEY FUCKING WON

THEY ABSOLUTELY DESERVE THIS AND I COULDN'T BE PROUDER!!!

GAHHH THEY DID IT Y'ALL THEY DID IT

[badlandsnialler]

why is it that every time I search up “sam golbach”, pictures of Colby keep coming up?

This is a Sam appreciation post because he deserves just as much love. I mean, if you’re not a soft Sam stan then I’m sorry, but you’re in the wrong lane.🥺🥰