hello everyone! I'm making a new pinned post because I feel like the way I use this blog has changed quite a bit and I want my introduction to reflect that :)
✨ about me ✨
one of my names is Joy and my pronouns are they/them; you can also call me doll (as a nickname, not a title). I am twenty-four, queer, aromantic, and a relationship anarchist. my interests include (but are not limited to):
magic, herbalism, & spirituality (I'm Jewish!)
fiber arts & fashion (mostly I knit, but I also dabble in mending & embroidery and I am determined to learn how to tat lace)
television & movies (I'm currently watching The Gilded Age, but feel free to ask me about my favorites)
reading books! (at the moment I cannot get Iron Widow out of my head)
✨ about this blog ✨
this blog is essentially my erotic diary. my sexuality and kinks have been radically altered by some traumatic events that happened earlier this year, and this is where I go to explore: am I still into that? which part of this fantasy is turning me on, and which part is freaking me out? what do I feel really really drawn to and captivated by? how can I engage with things I love and things that scare me in a way that helps me grow and bloom rather than shrivel or shrink away?
I do not consistently tag hardly anything anymore, so browse at your own discretion. given the very liminal state of my sexuality at the moment, I hesitate to generalize about what I am or am not into. what I can say is this: I have always leaned submissive, but recently have become very interested in dynamics that defy a straightforward D/s binary. I am far more interested in kink and sensuality than sex, and I am presently uninterested in sex acts involving genitals.
✨ between you and me ✨
I love to make friends, and I promise I don't bite (unless you ask me to)! I am not open to any form of roleplaying without negotiation first, and I am not open to negotiating until I build up a rapport with someone. that said, followers and mutuals are more than welcome to send in anons, asks, or DMs! feel free to share your nudes (knowing that, if I like them and you do not object, I will collage them), your own personal fantasies, questions you have about me, thoughts that you have about kink or politics or art. I only ask that you not send me fantasies that involve me specifically, including rape threats or threats of violence.
minors, ageless blogs, and cishet folk will be blocked. I also block anyone who shares rhetoric that is anti-survivor, TERF, SWERF, racist, misogynist, authoritarian, Zionist, queerphobic, fatphobic, or otherwise bigoted. I block kink blogs that sexualize these forms of bigotry without clearly disclaiming that they are opposed to their real life manifestations.
✨ my tags ✨
#the doll does have thoughts : tag for posts that aren't necessarily erotic, just something I think or agree with
#the doll speaks : tag for posts that I wrote myself
#the doll answers : tag for when I respond to asks
#the doll does collage : tag for erotic collages that I occasionally make
oh and also! @milknhoneybabey is my feedism sideblog :)
sadist who lays you down with bright eyes and a big toothy smile that's so contagious you find yourself grinning back with excitement growing in ur tummy until they say "you really aren't going to like this, baby"
i do think we should normalise being like. platonically enamoured with someone. perhaps i love and admire you dearly and there's nothing romantic about it
neck kissing is honestly the hottest, most seductive thing anybody could ever do to me. if you kiss my neck, if you playfully bite my neck, if your tongue touches my neck i will melt in your fingertips.
do you ever just wanna sit next to someone and listen to everything they could possibly say about anything ever just because you like their face and their voice and their general existence
im so bad at maintaining online friendships!! im sorry to everyone i’ve had a lovely chat with but havent followed up with!! im a very isolating person and i still consider you my friend i promise !!!
it’s so, so cute when someone is clearly horny but is too shy to say anything about it… sweetheart, you’re not as subtle as you think. i’ll give you what you want in no time at all if you’ll just speak up about it
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