Plurality pet peeves

This blog is pro-all origins, anyone is allowed to send asks || Set to post one every 2 hours! || Queue: 31 (May be incorrect from time-to-time!)

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Are there misconceptions, terms, or just plural experiences you have that annoy you?

This is a blog for you to share those things! Just submit what's a plural pet peeve to you in the ask box :)

To submit one I ask that you start your pet peeve with "My P3 is-", "Ppp is-", "My plural pet peeve is-", etc. because I have trouble understanding if an ask is a pet peeve or not when it's not explicitly stated ; ;

P3 and PPP stand for Plural Pet Peeve(s)! Credits to the anons who originally came up with those lol

All types of plurals/collectives/systems/etc are allowed to send asks, this include polyminds, singlet adjacent plurals and vice versa, transplurals/systems, and anyone else! (Sidenote — while we do allow transplurals/systems to submit pet peeves, we ask that people who identify as transdid/OSDD/etc don't mention that in their pet peeve, thank you!)

This is supposed to be a lighthearted blog, and asks sent in that are just to start drama will be deleted (if I accidentally post one that's offensive in any way please let me know in an ask and I will delete it, I'm neurodivergent and I sometimes don't understand certain things), things like shipcourse, mocking others, or anything unnecessarily hateful is included in the "will be deleted"

This blog has no DNI, as this is for everyone, if there's a pet peeve you have you're allowed to share :)

Anon list

About the blog owner and tags below!

Hello! We're a DID system, we use He/Him and Hy/Hymn pronouns. We made this blog because there are quite a few things that are pet peeves of ours in this community, such as people using host and original interchangeably, people assuming that endogenic automatically means non-disordered, people assuming all medians are monoconscious and vice versa, and many more. So we got to thinking, there's probably a lot more things that others have issues with within this community, so why not make a blog for it?

Just realized we should probably add this, our main is @the100percent

Tags:

"#Plural pet peeve" answering asks (also can be us stating our personal pet peeves without an ask)

"#Not a pet peeve" anything that isn't answering a pet peeve ask (this can include answering non pet peeve asks and just completely unrelated posts)

I hope folks can enjoy sending asks here!

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Welcome!

Hello! We are The Solar Haven - a traumagenic system of about 45. For now, we are the only system running this blog, and the only one actually running this. We will not be allowing others to run this, so expect this to be only us posting.

This blog will function almost like @plurality-pet-peeves, except for one thing. Since I am unable to figure out how a queue works, posts will be posted whenever we can. If I were to give an estimate, roughly at least 1 time a day will posts be posted.

The main folk posting these are Will (me) and possibly Wren, if shx is willing to. Collective pronouns are They/It and you may use you/your on us. My pronouns (Will) are They/She/He, and Wren's are Shx/They/Vie.

We are pro-endo and accepting of all plural folk. Whether you are a polymind, a system, or literally anything else, you may submit peeves or even chat. I'm very open to random chats and questions, same with Wren. Similarly, while we don't understand transDID and transOSDD, as long as it isn't mentioned in asks (that you are one, not if you have an opinion about them.), you can request.

Under no circumstance is hate allowed. This includes, but is not limited to: racism, sexism, fake claiming of anyone, homophobia, transphobia. Any hate asks will be deleted without reply.

There is no limit to the amount you can send, but please say if it is a peeve at the start so I don't answer it like a chat. Same goes for a chat, we get easily confused otherwise. Another thing recently added - you can always request if you want a comment or not from me or Wren, the default is not however. This is to ensure that on peeves that don't want commentary from us don't get any.

Thank you for reading all of this, this may be updated soon but I cannot think of more to say. Tags: #not a peeve - literally not a peeve, usually for chatting #anon peeve - for peeves from anons #regular peeve - for peeves not from anons (probably just from us) #tw peeve - peeves containing a trigger warning (will have warnings mentioned at the beginning and locked under a read more)

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Completely missed this originally :( sorry! But I'm finally reblogging it!!!

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Biggest PPP is when people dissmiss DID/systems as a whole as if they aren't PROVEN??

I can't show images so here are some quotes from actual tiktok comments:

"Antipsychotics exist for a reason... Specialists aren't sure if systems exist and i'm pretty sure that when even they aren't sure it's most definitely just a psychotic episode"

"Why is michael [from fnaf, this was under a video of somebody introducing their headmates] one of your fricking things bru im crine 😭"

"Enemy territory" "smile guys we're in the original" and "im not woke enough for ts" under the same video of a system introducing their headmates

"Also on top of that fictive r all bs because you can't know something is fictional and than think you are that because your identity is nonfictional so if you know a character is fictional and still think your a fictive (which has fiction in the name) is incorrect. This was confirmed by my therapist and my stepmum who works with people with diagnosed DID every day."

Genuine shitheads

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my p3 is the flavor of people that always need you to “be in recovery” or “work on that” every time you show a symptom (or mention your plurality) in order for you to “not be faking”

same people who insist that plurality disables you forever and ever and you’re obviously lying if you’re not sobbing on the side of the road in the rain every second of your life

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P3 is people comparing me not wanting to interact with sourcemates to like… non sharing communities and stuff?? It’s so weird and drives me bonkers that people think I’m being rude and toxic because I don’t want to talk with sourcemates- which is only a boundary for systems we’re not friends with and it’s because we’ve had bad experiences and now feel like we have to be as close to canon or else we’re “faking” like noooo stop this isn’t like doubles dni at all stop comparing me to that im just protecting my peace

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P3 is people meeting an alter and then not talking to anyone but that single alter who proxied the first time we talked like PLEASEEEEE we are a very co-front/co-con system it’s very rare you’re talking to just one of us why won’t you be my friend too 💔

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P3 is the amount of mansplaining that happens in the plural community like damn calm down I know that I have the condition 🥲

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plurality pet peeve is turn the fucking volume down we're gonna go deaf

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p3 is the fictive who showed up 3 months ago for 1 day is back and now it’s like what the heck man where were you

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Not being able to write because somebody won't put the phone down and let Me focus.

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P³: Feeling like we can't trust fun plurality posts when they're only tagged with DID and/or OSDD tags. 97% of the time, when we go to check the blog, they're anti-endo.

I feel bad for being automatically distrusting, but it happens so much.

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A plurality pet peeve I've found out despite being relatively new:

Sneezing and someone just yelling 'big ass sneeze' somewhere AND I DONT KNOW WHO DID IT BECAUSE WERE ALL STILL NEW TO THIS

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me: *plays new game* this is nice :D

new alters: bonjour

(anyways, it is fun to be here) -Caducus (i think every playable character from ALTER EGO is here now..)

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Ppp is.. did we eat today? Are we sick cuz we didn’t eat or are we just sick

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Our P3 is anti endos using things made by/for endo systems while saying endos invade plural spaces. I don't care much if it's an anti endo in general as long as they don't harass people or some shit, but saying they INVADE YOUR SPACES while YOU ARE ACTIVELY USING THEIRS??? Hypocrisy istg

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My ppp is the jealousy i feel at systems that discover themselves and can immediately start hanging out and getting to know one another. It's nobody's fault we are built differently, and also, my abandonment issues plus meeting a revolving door of alters who aren't sticking around has been retraumatizing.

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p3 is having to pretend you dislike someone that someone else in the system dislikes, like I literally do not give a crap about that person I could care less but they've already expressed their dislike to other people so I gotta keep up that mask SIGHHHS

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