pocketwlw

posts are mostly if not entirely queued. fresh new sideblog mostly for wlw stuff, chappell roan, willow, and whatever show im currently watching. just finished: btvs, just caught up: 9-1-1, svu, omitb currently watching: big little lies next up: dickinson

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[gentlier]

What is your eye color?

A 10, 17, 40, or 50

A 20, 30, or 60

C 20, 30, or 40

D 10, 30, 37, or 50

D 20, 34, 40, or 60

T 7, 10, 15, or 17

T 20, 30, 40, or 50

BOTH of my eyes are two different colors.

ONE of my eyes is two different colors.

I don’t have eyes.

Remaining time: 1 day 6 hours

[theglitchywriterboi]

Honestly we really need to stop being weird about older adults who are virgins.

& not even purely in a "I'm sex repulsed &/or ace &/or not into the idea of so I willingly didn't have it" but also in a "I'm 80, I would've loved to have sex, but it takes two to tango & no one wanted to have sex w/ me-" and in a "I'm 60 & I wanted to, but I had anxiety so bad I just didn't put myself in a situation where I could've" way, etc. [But yes also the people who are like "I'm a virgin because I never wanted to have sex"]

Someone made a post about having their 40th birthday & still being a virgin & someone commented about how it was heartbreaking... [The OP talked about all their other achievements they reached & how they were happy - just never had sex btw. They weren't lamenting about how they never had sex]

You don't need sex/sexual intimacy to be happy. You don't need romantic intimacy to be happy. [Obviously having those may add happiness, but like you won't live a sad depressing empty life if you're single forever &/or never have sex]

[forgetmcnotts]

BARBIE (2023), Dir. Greta Gerwig

[biggaybunny]

Tumblr staff: ten options is enough for polls, right? No one needs more than that on a regular basis. The average tumblr user: Hey guys which element of the periodic table do you think is the most fuckable?

[saturnvs]

hugs ♡

[kawamamilosc]

can’t draw today but hey at least i tried to paint again

[defaultsadgirl]

[fashion-runways]

NEPHI GARCIA Vampire Dress 2025 if you want to support this blog consider donating to:ko-fi.com/fashionrunways

[miniaturize]

there's been a horrible almost accident at the hypervigilance factory

[onenicebugperday]

Lipstick lady beetle, Cheilomenes bidentata, Coccinellidae

Found in South Africa

Photos by tonyrebelo

[necromanticsoul]

My Grey Wardens Rook mage at JordanCon 2026

[karvina]

this girl was showing all the signs of being a secret mermaid so i pushed her into the pool and she turned into a forty foot long mosasaurus which is tbh way cooler

[karvina]

not really sure how to get her out though

[karvina]

for those of you asking why i pushed her into the pool in the first place: i work for a duplicitous small town aquarium and i'm trying to kidnap mermaids to jump through hoops and shit to entertain tourists and make money. fucking obviously. now that i know she's actually a mosasaurus though i Have fallen in pure-hearted love with her

[mairarisk-stuff]

#mairariskstuff #blackandwhite #black #and #white #style #shoot #reading #book

[mairarisk-stuff]

[cabybapa]

hey.. dont cry .. 1 million mg prozac , ok ?

[angelicdewdrop]

[thatdiabolicalfeminist]

If your partner ever acts like it’s a huge sacrifice to “patiently” wait until you’re ready to have sex, RUN.

Not having sex because you don’t want to is not kind, it’s not generous, it’s not something anyone should get credit for at all. It is the bare minimum of “things people who aren’t rapists do.”

If they’re acting like it’s a big deal that they should be rewarded for, they think the default is not waiting for a yes.

And if they’re bringing it up over and over and making you feel guilty for not having sex whenever they want it, they are trying to get you to have sex even though they know you don’t want to. And there is a word for that.

You do not owe anyone sex. Sex is not an essential need. There are thousands of reasons to be in a relationship with someone as amazing as you, and if they’re fixated on sex somehow making dating you “worth it”, they’re not seeing you as a whole person.

[socialjusticesummoner]

As someone who was regularly coerced and guilted into having sex as part of their abuse, I feel this so much.

[existenceandbeing]

I just was in a relationship where it was regularly like this. This is such affirming advice.

[hellyeahscarleteen]

A “yes” can’t be genuine consent unless the person also feels safe and supported saying “no.” An atmosphere of coercion can creep up so gradually it’s hard to notice, but if you ever feel like it’s just easier to agree to something you don’t really want to do in order avoid arguments or pouting, or your “no” is met with “are you sure? How about now? Now?” every time, it’s time to reassess the relationship, or at the very least have a big talk with your partner about consent and respecting boundaries.