まふまふのwaifuです

Like I said, BADASS!!!! Badass white haired ikemens are life!!!! System of a down are BADASS too!!!!! But you know what is BADASS? BADASS WHITE HAIRED IKEMEN LISTENING TO SYSTEM OF A DOWN!!!!!

[shotous]

Kirishima Natsuya ☆ Serizawa Nao

[poipoiyatta]

Lalalalala

[medakakurokami]

[cherryberryann]

[peachpiefuckingangeldeath-deact]

this was so cute lma o and made me giggle

[giovanniespinuevaa-deactivated2]

This makes me happy haha

[animentality]

Tokyo Ghoul fans are the fandom equivalent of an English teacher

“The curtains are blue.”

“They’re symbolic of Kaneki Ken’s tears.”

[animentality]

It’s almost like those illuminati posts

“The angle of Kaneki’s fall is 45 degrees, the 45th verse in psalms in the bible is about redemption, this is Kaneki’s fall and that means the next chapter will be his redemption”

Easy frank

[kumateddi]

Person: What do you and your friends talk about online

[musical-mirai]

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誰も知らないハッピーエンド - そらる × まふまふ

Original by 40mP

[yuseirra]

Little tips on how to approach/talk to depressed/suicidal people

Hi everyone, I took a gatekeeper training for suicide prevention? I think that’s what you call it English but it’s basically a three hour lecture that I signed up for, they offered that where I live. Nothing too significant or something that holds up as a big achievement, but it did give me a little certificate and all Uh that aside!! I felt some of the things I’ve heard there were very helpful and I felt the need to share. This was something that I really wanted to learn about all my life!! I’ve never been told on how to approach depressed/suicidal people in the right ways, on how to comfort them till now. Maybe it could be the same for my followers. I hope these little tips I’ve learned could help you, and the people who care about around you as well.

Just take this as a little reminder ;v; ahh I’m not a doctor or anything I just took a single class and got this info!

When you talk to someone who is suicidal, 

DO NOT: Tell that they’re too young to die and they’ve got so many things ahead of them and they should keep going on for other people’s sake. You may feel you’re encouraging them and showing the bright sides of life but they don’t have the emotional energy to cope with people telling them what to do. 

DO NOT: Tell them “Oh don’t worry about these things everything will be okay from now on!” <- this happens a lot, and I think I may have been telling this to my friends when were depressed which makes me very ashamed. Positivity is a great thing, but for people who’s going through great emotional turmoil this does not help. It is too vague, and it may appear to them as if you’re brushing off what they find immensely hard to deal with as trivial, little things. Be happy!! The world is beautiful!! I appreciate phrases like that, those have a point too but when you are feeling depressed, you don’t feel encouraged from hearing those. It does not work that way.

DO NOT: Tell them it is god’s ways, that they’re probably proposing you an obstacle so that you can become a better person in the future. It doesn’t help them feel any better about the situation they’re facing RIGHT NOW that’s pushing them to the limit.

NEVER: Blame them. “You’re feeling that way because you’re weak”, or “You don’t allow others to open up to you” whatevers. First of all, that is horrible. Second, they will not relate to what you say anyways, most of the time. It’s easy to say things from an outsider’s point of view: these are people who are thinking about taking their own life. They are going through a lot already.

These kinds of responses may keep them from talking with you in the future when they’re going through hardships, keep it in mind!

Here are better things that you could say:

DO: Tell them you’re willing to listen. Also, ask them what’s been ailing them in more detail.Listening to them could lift them a huge burden off their chest, and it’s good for these people to know they have someone who they could trust, and that they have people who care and show support for them.

DO: Empathize with them. Be an attentive listener. This could be hard, I know, but it’s the best thing you can do, especially if you do love and care about the person. To add, if the situation seems serious DO NOT HESITATE TO contact the officials and the suicide hotline. Never think you’re the only one who can save them, there are reasons why counselors, psychiatrists and doctors exist.

DO: Give them room and the time to talk. They may not be willing to talk at first or keep quiet. If that’s so, leave them be. But only after reminding them you’re here, and that you’re with them to listen to what they say when they feel like it. They will eventually open up to you. Most people do not want to be alone, they want love and support. If you could give it to them, they will feel it.

When you approach a person who may be suicidal, check the following things:

1. If they are really feeling suicidal.

2. If they are, then find out if they’re planning to carry out their actions.

3. If that’s the case, find out if they’ve got the means to do it (like ropes, or pills, or a gun if you live in a place where it is legal. Guns, especially, ARE FATAL. It can bring irreversible consequences)

4. Find out if they’ve decided when they’re going to commit suicide. After the finals? When their paycheck deadlines come up? Surprisingly, I learned that people think of when they’re going to carry out their suicides in detail.

5. Finally, find out if they have had previous attempts on suicide. The more attempts they’ve had, the more likely that they could be successful on taking their lives.

One last thing: remember that talking/asking people about suicide actually keeps them from carrying out the action. People have trouble bringing the subject up in fear of “giving people ideas of committing actual suicide” but that is not the case.

Thanks for reading, I hope these information could help my followers the way it did for me! We need to learn about these things in school!! Seriously!! ;v;

[poipoiyatta]

I remember last year I was really depressed by something at school I was almost crying and my friend asked me why I was sad, I didn’t reply and because she was bored standing next to me watching me depressed she went away to her other friends so that’s why I don’t talk to her anymore she wasn’t my friend I was here just to play with her when she was bored

[destination-of-fate]

Do you know a simple way to convert Japanese clothing sizes to US?

sorry for the late reply, and double sorry for not having an answer to your question ;_; I don’t think I’ve ever really bought Japanese clothing before…

[toofuro]

japanese clothes tend to come in one-size…most clothing retailers will have the measurements (i.e. bust, waist, hips, height, etc) listed somewhere so you’ll have to learn your own measurements too

[poipoiyatta]

aahh yeah, that’s why when I ordered clothes from Romwe.fr it was all one sized and some were a little under my size

[shenanigans-of-a-young-person]

There are 3 responses to hearing “Hello”

a.) it’s me

b.) My name is Elder Price

c.)is it me you’re looking for?

[carrotsnhorses]

d.) Darkness, my old friend

e.) boys…

f.) My name is Inigo Montoya. You killed my father. Prepare to die.

[philsgiggle-deactivated20240910]

g) my name is Erica! :) I am a game developer and I and my team are currently working on a most latest game……..

[therainingkiwi]

h) twelve, hello thirteen, hello love

[vtsvro]

i) from the other side

[poipoiyatta]

j) WHAT DO YOU WANT? WHY ARE YOU ALLWAYS HERE TO FUCK ALL MY PLANS?? JUST LET ME IN MY WORLD YOU’RE THE REASON I DON’T WANT TO GO OUTSIDE JUST DIE

[poipoiyatta]

I created a mascot, kneel before USAN BOLT 

yeah because usa is usagi is rabbit in japanese

[citrusflan]

kiki!

[nndxsoralon]

綺麗だよ

During SoraLon Minecraft today, Lon mumbled “Hoshi” (star) but it sounded like “Ushi” so…

Lon: The stars are beautiful~

Soraru: The cattle?

Lon: Not the cattle! The stars!

Soraru: Ah, the stars

Lon: -without moving- …

Soraru: You stopped www come on, move www

Lon: -laughs- Eh, I’m looking!

Soraru: What are you looking at? The cattle?

Lon: Soraru-shi!

Soraru: It’s something like, “You’re more beautiful” (than the stars)

Lon: What are you saying…?

Soraru: Eh…?

[anime-music-fan]

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Reikenzan: Hoshikuzu-tachi no Utage TV Series OP Song - Fast End Soraru Mafumafu

[fedorakero-old]

I follow Mafumafu, Soraru and 96neko on twitter and their reactions to the snow is killing me??? like 96neko screamed about it and Soraru repeatedly screamed about it and posted three pictures and made a snowman and Mafumafu just said something like “it’s cold and I’m still in my pajamas”

[matchakame]

Mafumafu: “I think the placebo effect where your illness cures itself when you are prescribed a simple ramune while being convinced that "it is medicine” is amazing. When I convinced myself that I was doing work, I started to feel like I actually did some sort of work. Even though I slept. Good morning.“

(Source)

[poipoiyatta]

the fact that I rade something about it on internet a little before he posted this is scary www

[rainofashe]

After the Rain and Serious Matters | Mafumafu blog post 2016.01.08

Good evening, Mafumafu here.

As I am writing this blog post, it’s 2am on the 8th of January.

By the time this blog post has been published, I believe the announcement livestream would have already ended.

First I’d like to make an official announcement here, and then talk about something on a more serious note.

I’d really appreciate it if you would read all the way to the end.

Announcement

Serious matters

Announcement

So, after working as Soraru x Mafumafu for 2 years and completing our ATR Live tour, finally we have finally decided on a name for our unit!!!

It’s

After the Rain!!

Finally! More like, why didn’t we even have a name for 2 whole years!

Truth be told, we’ve actually been thinking of a name for our unit ever since working on our first song.

But without any sort of reason or preface, just coming right out and saying “So from now on we’ll be working as 〇〇,” would surprise just about anyone.

That’s why at the beginning we just went along without fixing a name.

We didn’t even have a name for our circle, and ended up having a lot of trouble when we had to identify ourselves. Really, it was a lot of trouble.

Starting with our first album, “After Rain Quest”, and completing our first Live Tour, “After the Rain tour 2015”, we decided that we wanted to keep the name that had found a place in our heart. 

Thus, we decided on the name After the Rain.

With that said, 2016.4.13 After the Rain will be releasing an album, 『Black crest story』 !!

Yayyyyyyyy!!!

We’re in the midst of production right now, please look forward to it!!

Album details

Release date: 13 April 2016

First-run limited edition CD A (+ tokuten CD) 2500 yen + tax

Tokuten CD will include music tracks (TBA) and Hikikomoranai Radio special edition

First-run limited edition CD B (+ tokuten CD) 2500 yen + tax

Tokuten CD will include a collection of MVs of the listed tracks and footage of live audio recording and interviews

Normal edition 2000 yen + tax

Tokutens available at the following corporations, applicable only to limited edition CDs A&B

Animate: Secret DVD “Soramafu goes to an Onsen” edition

Amazon: B3 poster (of Soramafu themselves)

Tsutaya: TBA music track CD (1 solo song each, total of 2 songs, vocaloid cover ver.)

Tower: TBA music track CD (1 solo song each, total of 2 songs, anisong cover ver.)

WIth that said, I’ve come to the end of the announcement.

Serious Matters

Just writing the announcement already took up more time than expected. It’s now 3:20am.

I’m sure there are those who are looking forward to what I’m about to say, and on the other hand there are also those who feel anxious. So let me start by addressing a few things first.

First of all, as usual, I will still be continuing solo activities as Mafumafu. I’d like to think of solo x solo activities as a chemical reaction, which makes everything even more fun.

We also did not enter a company or sign any contracts.

We’ll be learning many things again now with a different setting, but I always, always want to treasure this freedom.

In the first place, even if I had the ability to listen to what other people are saying, I don’t have the cooperativeness and social skills needed to make a decent living. (´-ω-｀)

All of our activities will be carried out following our intentions, with the album this time being no exception; everything from production, writing, composing, editing, mixing and mastering, all 100% of it will be completed with our own hands.

The big things that can’t be done individually, I believe they can be accomplished when the two of us combine our powers! We’ll definitely create a wonderful album so please look forward to it ヾ(*´□｀*)ﾉ

To be honest, I was really, really scared of everything and anything.

By experiencing all sorts of pain and sadness, I’ve become the person I am today.

I am someone who can’t really sense another person’s evil intentions, and can be quick to trust people.

Easily swallowing the tales that were told to garner my sympathy, I slowly started hating myself.

I will not disclose the details, but a few years back I was bullied terribly.

It was something made me feel socially, mentally and physically pressured.

Being woken up in the middle of the night by the door being kicked open, or being shouted at, being dragged out while still in my pajamas, or just having insults hurled at me. 

After doing some investigation, I learned that I, as well as a group of people, have been cheated by someone, and it seemed that they had the intention of sowing discord amongst us.

Now, I’ve already made up with that group, and we treat that incident as a joke, but at that time it was really painful, depressing, and scary.

Unable to overcome a part of this incident, wrecked by the spite and violence, swallowed by despair, the one who reached out his hand to me was Soraru-san.

Soraru-san, who found out about the truth, defended me and made the culprit promise “Not to do anything to hurt Mafumafu again”.

He also said that he’d always look out for me, and thanks to soraru-san, I was able to find release.

Urata-san, Amatsuki-kun, luz-kun, all these friends were also there for me when I needed someone to talk to.

And after packing my stuff, and moving…

Just thinking that if things were left alone is enough to send shudders down my spine.

“What the hell is that? A story from some manga?” might be what you’re thinking right now, but this is all true.

In fact, all of this doesn’t even amount to a fraction of the whole incident.

With all these things happening, I started working together with Soraru-san.

I feel like it’ll come off as too staged if I were to praise this friend of mine right now, so I won’t praise him, but just let me say that I’m utterly grateful to him.

Without knowing, it seems like I’ve told an unbelievable story, so it’s no surprise that I have such a gloomy personality right!?

It seems like I’m still trying to justify my gloomy personality. I seriously don’t know when to give up do I!

Being cheerful and having fun is still the best huh~_( _ `ω､)_

Our two albums After Rain Quest and Prism Ark, as well as our ATR tour, have gotten amazing response.

Makes me nervous.

Being so afraid of dying to the point of nearing death and having had my head trapped in an endless cycle of pain, I transformed all these thoughts into songs and lyrics, which so many people hear today.

I can’t help but cower in fear under the eyes of others, to the point where I can’t even take the train, yet I was able to stand on that stage, look forward and smile.

Last year was a peaceful year and I was able to devote a lot of my time to music.

I don’t really know how to put this into words, but I’m really happy that there are people out there who can accept the person that I am today.

I’m really grateful.

Right now it’s 5am in the morning.

Just how long am I gonna take to write this…

I’m writing this while being in a state of half-sleep so maybe all this is just an incoherent mess? Will it be okay?

In any case, whatever I write will end up becoming a really formal essay right I tried my best to write it in a lighter tone but well It’s gonna be hard to read….(´・ω・｀)

Now then

My activities as Mafumafu, as After the Rain, as a composer, whichever it may be, I’ll definitely create more good music in 2016.

I’ll write till I’ve written out everything I wanted to say.

I want to have the most fun when doing lots of fun things.

What even is a composer

I kinda have an inkling as to what it is but please make a guess

So long wwwwwwwwww wtf is this wwwwwwww  I feel like someone who suffers from some communication disorder when they can’t stop talking wwwwwww

Thanks for reading all the way till here www

From now on it’ll be busy again but I’ll give it my all! Goodnight! ヾ(*´ー｀*)ﾉ

(t/n: really really grateful that mafu had the courage to come out and tell us about his past, his story, and it just shows how far he’s come as a person, how he’s grown, how important ATR is to him and how much Soraru means to him, how much he has saved him, and I’m really really glad they’re friends today. and mafu is a precious angel. congratulations on their major debut as After the Rain, congratulations to a lasting partnership, congratulations to mafu for being brave, to soraru for his courage to save mafu and I’m really super happy!!!! 

side note first time translating one of mafu’s blog posts and it’s one of the longest and probably is BUT thanks for reading!! kinda gave up halfway cos mafu also kinda gave up talking coherently so what’s a coherent translation man

once again congratulations to soramafu!!!!!! ^^)

also first song of ATR!! check it out here