Polyamorous K-Pop *REQUESTS CLOSED*

STRICTLY SAFE FOR WORK There isn't enough polyamory in kpop so here I am. Sammy - He/They - Genderfluid - PolyPansexual - 22 - White - Safe place for LGBTQ and POC - Main blog gaykpopincluded - Suggestions sideblog - vixxsuggestions

[hazel2468]

Anti-Polyam attitudes that center around “It’s just cheating, but the other person knows about it” SO clearly come from people who have no understanding of why cheating is bad.

Cheating isn’t bad because you had sex with someone else. Cheating is bad because you violated the terms of your relationship. Cheating is bad because you violated your partner’s trust. That’s why things other than sex can be cheating- it’s why there’s emotional cheating.

Cheating is bad because it is violating your partner’s trust. It is bad because you and your partner(s) decided on something, trusted one another, and you said “fuck them and their trust”. THAT is why it is bad.

Polyamory is not cheating. In polyamory, everyone knows about everything and everyone. Everyone consents. There is communication. If not everyone is aware and consents, then it’s fucking cheating. There’s a damn difference.

There’s also the “Polyamory is bad because you’re having sex with someone who isn’t your one true love” which… I could go on all day about how fucking stupid that is, but same principle.

In honor of Pride month- stop shitting on polyamory and polyam people. And stop telling us that we’re all cheaters, because if you say that, you’re coming from a place of totally misunderstanding why cheating is bad. And, spoilers, cheating isn’t bad because of the sex.

[polyamorouspunk]

Dear Monogamous People,

It’s okay if your partner comes out as polyamorous and you don’t feel comfortable with them dating someone else. There’s nothing wrong with saying “I don’t feel comfortable sharing you”. All we ask is that you support us finding out who we are, and maybe leaving a relationship to find one better suited to ourselves. It’s okay if you as a person are not okay with sharing someone you’re dating as long as you hold yourself to the same standards. We understand your reluctance and we don’t blame you for being who you are, just as we hope you won’t blame us for being who we are.

[polyamorykpopimagines]

Vampire Taemin and Kai and their goth non-binary partner

[polyamorykpopimagines]

Hey Sammy, I hope you're doing good!! I'm not sure if your requests are open so I'm sorry if they aren't. But if you do find the time, can I ask for, and I'm so sorry if this gets to be too hard, RV's Wendy and Joy with their gf! Either a yellow aesthetic or something really dark (suggestive is fine IF you want to do that but pls not nsfw lol). Anyways thank you so much! Love what you're doing here 💛

I’m doing much better now!! Here’s the long awaited moodboard, I’m sorry it took so long :( And yeah I’ll never post anything n*fw so no worries! Thank you so much <3

[polyamorykpopimagines]

Wendy, Joy, and their Girlfriend for Anon~

[gaykpopincluded]

Please spread this - I also have 2 infinite albums, 2 girls day albums, a nu’est album and a B1A4 album for sale. Please dm me for more details :)

[corvid-bf-moved]

concept: a boyfriend

[corvid-bf-moved]

concept: two boyfriends

[polyculediaries]

Real Talk

Poly is super complicated. It requires a ton of communication in ways that you’re you’re probably not proficient in. That’s ok. You can learn. But you gotta want to.

Also we should be able to list this shot on resumes cause we can resolve conflicts and work with others like you’ve never seen.

[polyamorykpopimagines]

I have four more requests and these are probably a year or more old and I’m so sorry it took so long but I’m going to do them!!! I’m saving the triple h bullet points for last :)

[polyamorykpopimagines]

are still doing requests, if so can you do Rap Monster and Jin from BTS with their girlfriend. Thank you!

I’m so sorry this took so long, but here it is!! I hope you like it!!!

[polyamorykpopimagines]

Namjin and their Girlfriend for Anon!

[polyamorykpopimagines]

A Little Update

I’m sorry I’ve been gone for so long, things just got hard, but I’m finally starting to get back into the groove of things. I’ve got a few requests that I’m hoping to do soon and then I’ll reopen requests!

I feel so bad for kind of disappearing for so long, I know a lot of people really like this blog and enjoyed my content. And, hey, it’s kinda funny how I disappeared after Hyuna and Dawn left cube and I’m starting to return the day they’ve returned. Stream Flower Shower and Money while you wait for me :) After all, those two are 2/3 of the reason I made this blog <3

[chemicalforgery]

We need more polygamy and polyamory in every piece of art - writing , drawing , music , video games , movies and more. I just need to see more representation of this!! And if no one is gonna make it , then I will!

[polyamteacher]

We can make due WITHOUT polygamy, it brings too much baggage.

But yes to polyamory

[polyamandhellaglam]

Examples of Internalized Anti-polyamory

“Nobody will ever wan’t me if they can’t have me all to themself.”

“I’m a slut.”

“Why am I never satisfied?”

“One partner should be good enough.”

“I’m not really polyam. I’m just selfish.”

“I’m not really polyam. I need to learn to be happy with monogamy.”

“I’m not really polyam. I must be lying to myself.”

“Their other partners are cooler. Why do they need me?”

“I’m not as hot as their other partners. I bet they love them more.”

“My partners don’t really love me.”

“My partners love each other more than they love me.”

“Eventually they will leave me to be monogamous.”

“I’ll never have a family.”

“I’ll never get married.”

“I don’t deserve more partners.”

“I don’t deserve this many partners.”’

“I’m greedy.”

“I’m just a cheater.”

Watch out for when you’re saying these things to yourself. They’re examples of internalized anti-polyamory and they aren’t true. They’re things that society tells us because they are intimidated by us. Don’t be your own enemy. Try to unlearn these. Practice phrases like.

“I will have love.”

“I am polyamorous enough.”

“My partners love me.”

“I deserve good things.”

“Polyamory is good.”

“Times change. Things get better.”

“I am proud to be polyamorous.”

“I know myself. I trust myself.”

[bittersweet-mermaid]

Hello everyone, it is I, Cass, who works 40 hours a week and still can't pay her shit even tho I buy the bare minimum I need to survive. I used to have someone who helped me pay for stuff but I don't anymore so I owe money and need about 300$ if I want to pay my debts and eat this week

Here's my PayPal, I'm sorry to ask for this :(

https://paypal.me/bittersweetmermaid?locale.x=en_USU

[bittersweet-mermaid]

0/300$

[dateaboysuggestions]

I'm still at 0

If every one of you gave me 1$ I'd have enough to buy a small house ( a v small house but a house nonetheless )

I'm desperate and I wouldn't do this if I didn't have to

[queenpeachqueen]

If only everyone could understand this...

[polyamteacher]

DnD nights in our case

[polyamandhellaglam]

Happy bi visibility day to all the bi polyamorous people out there. You aren’t a stereotype, you don’t give anybody a bad name. You are wonderful people filled with love and the community is proud to have you amongst our numbers.