Polyamorous Zeal

Exploring polyamory with a passionate zeal along with the social issues often associated with it.

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So like. I picked this url for this sideblog because

I'm polyamorous and like pierogi

In some of my other internet spaces (discord) I have used the [thing]-pierogi format for some of my usernames, with examples including bisexual-pierogi, agender-pierogi, and I'm pretty sure I did also use polyam-pierogi. I made this and my other sideblog (@spaghetti-polonaise) after that and looked at my discord names for inspiration

A lot of my horny thoughts are either specifically and explicitly polyamorous in nature, or implicitly so. Same goes for a lot of the horny posts I like and reblog. I could have also gone with bisexual-pierogi for the same reason, but...

I wanted to make it obvious that I'm polyam

All that said, it does occur to me that this runs the risk of my blog getting confused for blogs like @polyamzeal or @polyamorouspunk or @polyamorouscultureis - which, incidentally, are pretty cool blogs as far as I've seen - so just as a point of clarity, this is not a polyamory-themed blog, this is a horny containment zone blog run by a nerd who happens to be polyamorous

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@polyamorouscultureis @polyamoryfacts and @polyamzeal and I are all actually the same person (and now you are too)

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Well it looks like my identity has been stolen by a polyamorous-blog collector. I guess we are all just part of the Borg now 🤣

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Hello! I wanted to see if what I’m experiencing might be considered normal for poly people?

My partner and I are poly but we haven’t had other partners for about a year now. We have had other partners before while dating each other.

I personally have been struggling with dating other people since leaving my other partner last year. I thought I was just becoming demisexual or something, because I just have no sexual attraction to people other than my partner, but I used to be a self proclaimed ho when I was single and also when I was solo poly.

I don’t think I’m demisexual, but when I have sexual encounters with other people, even people I have a strong emotional connection to, I feel like I’m just doing what I think that they want and I’m not very into it. All of my other connections have fizzled out for this reason.

I’m not sure what to do about it or if this means I’m less poly than I thought I was. We’ve talked about it and we both feel similarly but don’t know what to do.

A large part of it involves where you are and where you are looking. I live near a big city with a very active polyamory community but I hear lots of stories of people that are not as lucky.

Being demisexual shouldn't really be a factor. Lots of polyamory people are demisexual or even asexual. It sounds like you should both evaluate what you want out of other relationships, especially the non-sexual stuff. It kind of sounds like anxiety over sexual encounters not being satisfying might be distracting you from connecting with other people.

And remember that neither of you need to rush into more relationships to keep the polyamory label. Sometimes people are just poly-saturated at 1 (or even 0) people for a period of time. Being polyamory just means being open to other relationships if opportunities present themselves but that doesn't mean you need to be constantly seeking. If you aren't finding anyone then it is okay to take a break from looking. Maybe the right people will find you. Or maybe after a break you'll start looking again in new places or events. So go easy on yourself.

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I really want want intimacy is that too much ask for 30 not had anything close to a romantic relationship hate my life want to change everything 😭

Everybody is deserving of intimacy. But the world is filled with obstacles and barriers. I would examine yourself and see if there are small individual things you want to improve about yourself that would help to remove those challenges. There are dating coaches out there too that you pay to train you and give you a makeover basically. So explore your options and you will likely find something when you least expect it.

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