Now wear that condom on your arm for a while. Ten minutes at least. Still got sensation in your arm?
One of the many failures of sex ed in this country is the notion that thereâs only two types of condom, âfits everyone except those elephant-trunk-cock freaksâ and âfor elephant-trunk-cock freaks or lying braggartsâ (and yes, thereâs implicit shame in the idea of people needing non-âregularâ-sized condoms and the genesis for such is pretty likely rooted in some really nasty viewpoints about certain groups of people but Iâm digressing).
But penises come in a LOT of dimensions, and not all of them fit right in a ânormalâ condom. You donât need to have a monster down there for a condom to be legitimately painful and/or break mid-act. This can leave a lot of people legitimately unawares that it doesnât have to be like this. (I was, early on.)
Condom too tight? Thatâs a real problem for the reasons pointed out above. But itâs a solvable one at most drug stores, which generally have a broader (ha ha) selection than your Walmarts or Targets. Or suck it up (ha ha) and go to an âadult boutiqueâ (a proper one) where theyâre likely to have even more options and letâs be real here the people working at these arenât gonna give you Looks over condom selection. Or shop at said boutiques online if you REALLY need to avoid the in-person thing.
And if you think youâre gonna be doing things requiring condoms, HAVE YOUR OWN. Yes, even if you personally donât have a penis. Buy a box of large-size as well just in case.
And donât let anyone give you guff over it, and donât let anyone pressure you into unprotected sex because of condom size.
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