lesbian positivity sideblog!

pfp credit to @uppik on tumblr - carrd!

[positivitylesblog]

welcome to my lesbian sideblog! (main is @wahffles)

please read my carrd before following or interacting, link is in bio! thank you!

[mascgirls]

there is so little positivity aimed specifically at stud/ag lesbians on this site, and that’s honestly a crime. shoutout to all the studs and ags here, you’re all so great and often underappreciated, but i see you.

studs/ags who feel alienated from white gnc lesbians and their experiences and as a result feel disconnected from gnc lesbian spaces due to them centering whiteness

studs/ags who never see themselves represented in media 

studs/ags whose identities are often demonized and who are stereotyped as unfeeling, angry or violent

studs/ags whose specific identity and it’s intersections with race and gender is never talked about and feel invisible in the lesbian/lgbt community

i see you, and you’re so important. your feelings matter, your experiences matter, your identity matters, but most importantly you matter. the world is a better place with you in it.

[orquidia]

gay moms and their daughter :)

[loverspond-remade]

[orquidia]

femmeboss and butchwife ⚢

[lunar-femme]

Fact: lesbians love fat toads

[darwinsfinches-deactivated20210]

Proof ❤️

Image description: six photos of American toads. In four of them they are being handled carefully and in the other two they are in a plastic container.

Note: I have been taught to handle amphibians without causing them distress or injury. Please avoid touching wildlife unless you know how to do so!

[lunar-femme]

Look at these chonky girls!! They’re so cute 💕💕💕

[lunar-femme]

Lesbians often do not get to experience their lives in teen years. When they become adults they may still feel like a kid or teenager. That is perfectly okay. You get to live the childhood you wanted anytime you want.

[theladyisafuckingdandy]

Being a lesbian is a uniquely alienating experience because not only do we have to learn the paradigms of attraction to women in a society that does not give us a script for those interactions, but we also have to unlearn the paradigms of attraction to men that have been forced on us our whole lives. It’s an incredibly hard thing to do and every lesbian is doing a great job and I am proud of you all

This post is not for terfs and it is for trans lesbians

[positivitylesblog]

shout to lesbians who realized their sexuality through an experience or person that hurt them. i dont tend see a lot of people talk about this, but as someone whose been through it, it can make it hard to really take pride and comfort in your lesbianism knowing how the way you realized it affected you and your life overall. to anyone else who needs to hear it; what happened to you does not define your  lesbianism. itll take time, but eventually you will be able to take comfort in your identity despite everything. 

[femmeanqel]

:D !

[positivitylesblog]

made a trans and nonbinary lesbian icon w/ namine and xion from kingdom hearts!! i think it looks pretty cool

[positivitylesblog]

Heyo just wanted to say that I love your blog and it's so cool seeing another she/they lesbian with a positivity blog!!! That is all aha, enjoy the rest of your day :)

thank you sm!! she/they lesbian solidarity all day everyday

[genderweird-lesbian]

You are not a predator for being a lesbian. You are not manipulating your friend just because you have a crush on them. You are not a pervert for wanting to do things with someone, whether they be romantic or sexual.

Being a lesbian does not make you gross. You are not gross, you are fine the way you are. I promise you that.

[genderweird-lesbian]

The fact there are trans lesbians out there just EXISTING fills me with so much love and joy

[eunnieboo]

pink in the night

[sourcherrymagiks]

If there is a time I don’t reblog this it will be because the apocalypse got me

[septicake]

reblog the adorable lesbian couple

[lesblob]

I want to give a shoutout to all Asian lesbians, especially the ones who had to grow up not knowing it was possible to like girls, since the mere mention of homosexuality was or still is taboo in our cultures.

I want to give a shoutout to Asian lesbians who are butch or gender non-conforming. Asian women, especially East and Southeast Asians, are portrayed in media as being feminine and submissive, making those of us who do not conform to these stereotypes feel alienated from the porcelain dolls society wants us to be.

I want to give a shoutout to Asian lesbians who still live in Asia. I am fortunate enough to live in a country where I can legally marry a woman I love, and where there are laws in place protecting me from homophobia. Taiwan is going to be the first country in Asia allowing for same sex marriage this year, but that monumental ruling that is going to pave the way for LGBTQ+ rights in Asia was almost thwarted by a referendum in November 2018, when the majority of Taiwan’s voters decided that marriage should only be between a man and a woman. Fortunately, the Taiwanese government is still going to follow through with allowing same sex marriage before March of 2019, but the majority of countries in Asia still do not have protections in place for us. In some countries, merely expressing our love for other women could lead to our arrests or even deaths.

Asian lesbians do not deserve to be shunned by our families, and god forbid be arrested or killed. We deserve representation, we deserve to be accepted, and we deserve rights.

If you’re an out lesbian living in Asia, I want you to know that I am in awe of your bravery.

[turing-tested]

credit to @spaceraestuck on twitter!