Postmodern Marriage

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Genderfluid means I'm not always feminine. I don't post my guy pics too often, but once in a while I gotta remind the world I'm a male human. The people at all the places I run errands know I could be feminine or masculine or in between on any given day, and they think it's cool. They accept me.

The fact that I am not trans seems to make people online act a little weird. Almost like being trans is normal and being genderfluid is a mental health problem. Is it uncomfortable for you to see me manifest as a guy? Do you wish you hadn't seen it?

[marleenbackthen]

When I had my outing in 2014 I started to experience the new world of outdoors. I had fun with trying new and casual outfits as an appropriate type of clothing for going public. It was so exciting and amazing.

[desireeraye]

Things you can’t make happen:

Eliminate your feminine desires

Change your gender identity

Undo past decisions

Things you can make happen:

Keep your skin smooth and soft

Wear more feminine outfits

Try out different makeup looks

Practice wearing high heels every day

Grow out & polish your nails

Dye your hair a pretty color

Tweeze & shape your eyebrows

Always wear some pink

Practice feminine poise & grace

Get a feminine hairstyle

Pierce your ears

Work out & diet to feminize your body

Train your feminine voice

Listen to feminization hypnosis

Read happy gender transition stories

Get permanent facial hair removal

Start hormone replacement therapy

Join a trans support group

Be honest with yourself

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Winged Eyeliner for Beginners 

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I don’t reblog a ton but this is an amazing guide for those who struttle to get their eyeliner just right. <3

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My Love-Affair with Femininity

(2 min. read)

Don’t we all cherish a little self-spoiling from time to time?  I know of no human who would resist an occasion to feel a sense of luxury and ease.  We’re not made to be busy all the time.  We’re not made to be what people expect all the time either.  Sometimes we only want to be at ease and find comfort in ourselves and in our place and time.

I’ve had a long-running love-affair with being girly.  This affair is my release, my escape, my moment in sweet luxury.   

Life as I know it doesn’t afford me the pleasure of being Candie.  I can pretend to be Candie, play at it, and dream.  I can write about it, be artistic in it, and share thoughts on an anonymous blog.  Yet, because I’m committed to “life as I know it”, my delightful girl-on-the-side must remain as an affair.

I suppose that you understand where I am coming from, even if you are more open than myself, transitioning, or perhaps just now sampling in femininity.  I’ve tried to put a stamp on why I love girliness so much.  It’s not worth the stress to wrestle with the why’s.  It’s too woven in my heart to get anxious about that.  It’s enjoyable, it’s peaceful, it’s comfortable, it’s sexy, it’s me…it’s me.  The more I linger in femininity, the more I long for it.  The more I dress, the more I appreciate it.  It’s beyond lust.  It’s more of an intimacy.  That all seems strange since I don’t have any concrete desire to leave my “life as i know it”.  Maybe, just maybe, I’m cheating myself of some real happiness.  Perhaps my little love-affair is what is cheating me of something else?  However, what I do know, is that I greatly adore feeling pretty, soft, and even demure.  I cherish my affair with femininity.

Tempt me with panties, bras, cute sneakers, and adorable casual outfits.  Lure me in with pretty dresses, heels, and lingerie.  Seduce me with bikinis, leggings, capris, wedges, makeup, jewelry, and fabulous, flowing, hair.  Let me feel the soft caress of silk and satin, the pleasure of yoga pants and sports bras, and the cool breeze underneath skirts.  Make my eyes dance with love for your embrace.  Femininity, take me away to your hypnotic realm of mystery and luxury, that I may immerse myself, if even for a moment of a time, in all of you.

Much love to you all!

CandieHart   

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I Envy Cuteness

I’m all about the cuteness.  Simple top and short shorts.  Girly pink tennis shoes with no socks.  A feminine ball cap and pony tail.  It’s a picture of feminine bliss that any boy would be proud to replicate.  But the best part would be putting it all together with a sweet smile which expresses happiness–a joy to be girly for everyone to appreciate, admire, and yes, to envy.  

CandieHart

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When it All Comes Together

I’ve been working on a remodeling project in our house and all the preparatory steps involved in the process are painstaking.  For several days now, all of my work has been prep-work without much to show for the hours of labor, except for paint splatter on my Keds.  But it’s all starting to come together.  The walls, the windows, the door, the counters, the floor, etc. are all beginning to pop.  

There might be many days when you feel like nothing more than a man living out a bizarre fantasy with your hidden thongs and shaved legs.  You may wonder if all those girly clothes you’ve been collecting over time can ever create anything special on you.  Has your practice in walking, talking, and gesturing feminine been for nought?  Perhaps you wonder if all the small girly gidgets will mean something.  You know what I’m talking about.  Those little items that you want or need in girly styles–the bracelets, watch, rings, phone case, wallet, key-chain, sunglasses, belt, socks, slippers, pens, satchels/backpacks, etc. etc.  Not a single one of them are in the styles meant for men, but you have them; and you wonder if you’ve blown your money on them.  Then, there are also those days you dare to wear a bra, encase yourself in pantyhose, publicly treat your feet to cute shoes. or apply a bit of makeup. Is it for something or nothing?   

All of the mismatching in androgyny, the sporadic self-dares, the occasional practice, the clothing, lingerie, shoes, jewelry, grooming, and gadgets, don’t always come together in the sweet girly melody that we wish that they would.  Yet, you should be okay with that.  Because girly boy, when it all comes together, you will definitely pop!  You will sparkle the way you were meant to shine. 

Boys who aren’t girly can have a certain sheen to them when they’re all put together.  It’s more like a paint in an egg-shell finish–glossy enough to look crisp, but flat enough to appear reserved.  Not you though.  You’re a girly boy, a princess, an effeminate man, maybe a sissy.  You are meant to be dazzling–to sparkle in a dim egg-shell painted room.  Maybe for you it all just needs to come together.  Somehow, I believe it can for you.

Light up the world, girlies!

CandieHart 

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It’s been a few years since this post, but right on the mark still, imo.

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