Debunking the illusory perception of twin flames.
Last few days Ive come a cross several different twin flame posts.. And they just have me scratching my head.
This ideal love and light, perfect balance and harmony, no quarrelling, everything grand in 5d consciousness.. Lol
Im sorry but thats just nonsense.
As long as our feet touch the ground, we are having a human experience on the physical plane.
On the physical plane, duality exists.
Bring two people together, regardless of how much inner work both of them have done, there will be struggles, dramas, disagreements, hurt feelings, ect.
We cannot escape the darkness. But we can embrace it and invite it to dance.
Kabbalah teachings reveal that there are 4 worlds.
Within these 4 worlds, is the human blueprint of the divine within man.
Assiah is the physical plane and respresents action.
Without action, there is no growth.
Now lets really look at the word twin flame:
Fire is to purify. Meaning to burn away impurities. Any alchemist can tell you that.
If the twins are already perfect, where is there room for growth?
Every person has a light and a dark side. The flame of our twin reveals to us what needs to be purified. They are a constant mirror. Reflecting back to us our own unconsciousness.
To stand toe to toe with our twin, being purified in the flame of the one we love, is to constantly discard all that is not unconditional love.
The impurities dissolve. All we thought was love, burns away. The conditioning of the unconscious.
Do you have any idea how humbling it is to stand face to face with the one person you love more than anything and realize you dont know shit about love?
“If you accept that a relationship is here to make you conscious instead of happy, then the relationship will offer you salvation, and you will be aligning yourself with the higher consciousness that wants to be born into this world.”
Without action, Assiah, there is no evolution. Change is the only constant.
If a twin flame relationship is supposed to be perfect then there is no space for growth.
So if we are not growing in love with the imperfections of a perfectly imperfect human being, learning how to love without conditions, seeking to love ALL aspects of our partner, dark and light together, there is stagnation.
Its unrealistic, mere fantasy, that any relationship is perfect.
Best guess: these posts are made by people who have been alone for a long time and fantasy has become their reality.
Its ok to dream, its healthy!
But in reality, when you finally meet your twin flame, on the physical plane.. Trust me, that precious little fantasy about perfect union, balance and harmony will be destroyed by the reality that in fact, this relationship will test to the 9s every single thing you thought you knew about love.
Walls come crashing down, the earth shakes under your feet, reality straight tilts on its axis and dumps you into this one most delicious yet very painful and harsh truth:
And my twin flame will carry that torch with me because by the Grace of God, we found eachother again in this lifetime and chose, CHOSE to do this sacred work together.
Love is enough. It always will be.
Its the rest of the shit that we must learn to master.
