[powered--buttercup]

Exhibitionism isn't rape. The stuff you're seeing, if it's seeming non consentual is con-non-con. It's a form of bdsm but it's still consentual.

I said sexual assault dumbass. Not rape. Fucking read. And I'm not talking about that con non con shit either. I'm talking about blogs exposing ACTUAL NON CONSENTING PEOPLE LIKE ME AND MY FIANCÉ!! To triggering content!! That is what exhibitionism is. It is a form of sexual assault (like peeping and flashing) in which you expose non consenting people, especially minors, to pornographic/sexual content. Which is what you are doing when you take your porn/bdsm blog and follow people, reblog from people, and send messages/asks to people who expressly do not consent to your kink. When y'all fail to flag your blog. And when y'all use minor safe tags on your porn and shit. But yeah when you can't accept "no" in this context, your not gonna accept "no" when someone doesn't consent to having sex with you either. Because when you let yourself live by that mentality, Thats what makes you rape-y. The fact that you treat consent as optional in any situation, and the fact that you think you can pick and choose when/if you have to respect that consent. I honestly wasn't gonna answer any asks after this but I got a notification for this in my email. And I genuinely fear for anyone you come into contact with. So this one was worth responding to.

[powered--buttercup]

hey so you and your fiancée seem to have the most adorable relationship! i'm sorry if you've answered this before, but... any tips you have for staying together and in love even through difficulties? i wish you both the best x

This may not be what you want to hear, but if you fall out of love with whoever your with, don't stay with them. Don't try to make it work. It's better to end it while you are still on good terms than to force it. If you try to force a relationship, any good feelings you still have will turn into bitterness and resentment.

[powered--buttercup]

Honestly. This site is fucked up. So many of y'all treat the laws of consent as some option and have this rapist/victim blaming mentality. I'm taking mimi off this hellsite. All of you nsfw/porn blogs that seem to enjoy triggering a ptsd survivor (like mimi) and need to sexually assault/harass (look up exhibitionism. It's sexual assault) people to enjoy your kink? I hope you all fucking die or get arrested. We don't need rapey scum like you out there among the general population. Especially around kids or rape survivors. And I know y'all are gonna go "it's the internet, chill out" but ya know what? The people you interact with on the internet, are still PEOPLE! Real fucking people. So if you'll sit there and expose minors on the internet to porn and shit illegally, then you'll do it to minors in person too. Like pedophiles and rapists you are. And to anyone who isn't a porn/nsfw blog and didn't support them ignoring the "safe sane consensual" they preach but don't follow: your chill. This ain't at you. I hope y'all have a great life.

[powered--buttercup]

If an under aged little knows what they're doing and isn't sexual what's wrong with it im not underaged I just don't see the problem vanilla of age people teach vanilla under aged people to keep them safe if of age people don't help underaged people they'll be less safe also the age of consent is different in different places for me it's 14 and yes I'm in the us

Honestly? What does this have to do with me? Why are you sending me this?

[powered--buttercup]

Surely if people are okay and consenting it doesn't matter what they're into or what they post and you should just keep your nose out of other people's business, just because you may not like something doesn't mean they shouldn't be allowed to post it and if it bothers you so much then you should just stay away from that content rather than ruining what they like and making them feel shit about it. Just saying!

...so your probably some butt hurt asshole that I blocked. But 1) I'm not telling them what they can/can't post, I'm telling them to stay away from me and my blog. And 2) I'm not fucking looking for them. Again they are interacting with ME! They are reblogging from me, sending me asks, sending me messages. If they'd stay in their fucking lane then I wouldn't ever have to see their shit. You can go fuck yourself with that backwards victim blaming mentality.

[powered--buttercup]

I'm under the age of 18 but I age regress. Is that wrong or illegal or just any of that ? I'm so confused

Age regression isn't ageplay. Ageplay is a kink tho and that is 18+ only.

[powered--buttercup]

I'm 18 but my blog isn't a porn blog. It's sfw with the occasion bad language even though it's against my rules.... do you mind if I follow?

Of course not. 18+ refers to 18+ content. Like bdsm/porn/etc

[powered--buttercup]

Okay I'm very very confused about the "no 18+" part of who can reblog your stuff I mean if this is a kink blog shouldnt 18+ be the only ones interacting with you?

This isn't a kink blog. So whatever. 🖕🏻

[powered--buttercup]

I don't mean this in a mean way I am just asking in geeral but, if nsfw blogs bother you so much why don't you just block them rather than telling everyone to report them? :/ I just don't understand why you're going out of your own way to make yourself unhappy and stressed and putting other people's hard work in jeopardy (no matter the content, they still worked hard to build a following)

Because at least 50% of the time or so, I have to message them to remove a post. And more often than not they reply atrociously. 

Now I think somewhere, you’ve gotten confused. Because I’ve only told people to report one blog. A MINOR WHO WAS RUNNING A KINK BLOG. Which is a danger to themselves as well as against the terms of service. I don’t give a damn if they lose their following, as no self respecting person should be following a MINOR posting nsfw content. Those kinds of people are called pedophiles. And I am all too happy to cut off their kiddie porn sources. And y’all should be too. 

Every other post I made was just a block post. as in “this person is horrible/refuses to remove posts/ignores boundaries/has a rapist mentality/sent me lewd messages/sent me death threats/etc so do yourselves a favor and block them BEFORE they interact with you or your posts” 

Because no matter how many times they tell me to “grow a thicker skin” the fact is that I already have thick skin. I’m messaging them asking them to remove my posts, am I not? I’m telling them what a peice of shit they are when they tell me consent doesn’t matter. But I know there are people, like my fiance, who have PTSD or sex repulsion or what have you, and are unable to defend themselves against these people. 

That’s who I make the block posts for. For people who are too traumatized and disgusted by these people who laugh at consent laws to even safely be on their blogs because these assholes repeatedly harrasss them and ignore their boundaries. 

And as a side note, the “block them and move on” thing doesnt work. Ive made less than ten block posts but I’ve blocked over 600 people now. And some of those people have literally made spam accounts just to harass me for blocking them. These people not only ignore consent and think it’s beneath them, but get outraged when anyone tells them “no” and enforces it by blocking them. I can only imagine what they’d do to people who encounter them in person. 

[miss-babygirl]

tips for being little subtlety

- Wear cute dresses/skirts/shirts/etc. wear something cute, with cute designs, or in a cute color! 

 - Find cute pins! Walmart sells some REALLY cute pins to clip on your clothes/backpack/purse or whatever you want! 

- Water bottles with a ‘sippy cup’ type lid. Those can make you feel super super little. 

 - Do cute hairstyles! Pigtails, braids, French braids, literally any hairstyle that makes you feel little! 

- key chains! I LOVE key chains. I have a white puffball, pastel pink rock, and I just recently took off a whale I had on there. 

-Cute phone case! I have my phone with my at all times, so having a cute case always makes me feel little. I also just ordered a pink laptop case for my MacBook!

- Carry around a small stuffie! You can keep it in your bag, locker, car, or literally anywhere. 

- Pack a cute lunch! Lunchables, sandwich cut in half/cute shapes, or bring a juice pouch!

- Accessorize! Find cute jewelry you like! Necklaces, rings, bracelets, chokers, and more! Hair bows, hair clips, or whatever you like! 

-Buy some Play-Packs! They’re on-the-go packets that contain a coloring book, a few crayons, and some stickers. They’re great for car rides!!! Walmart has them; Hello Kitty, Paw Patrol, SpongeBob, and more!

[dadddys-babyygirll]

🍼Little room item ideas! 🍼

Walls: - Glow in the dark stars - Fairy Lights - Wall stickers/decals - Shelves for your stuffies/colouring books/dips etc

Floor: - Foam interlocking playmats - Rug of your favourite colour - Ikea expedit for dips/changing products/colouring stuffs/pacis etc - Pillow fort/Blankey fort

Bed: - Canopy - Fairy lights (if you have a frame that allows you to wrap the lights around, like the ikea LEIRVICK for example (I have this bed frame and it’s so princessy) - Favourite blankeys and bed sheets - Favourite stuffies

Bedside Table: - Story Books - Favourite pacis - Nightlight (if you’re scared of the dark like me ;//_//;) - Tissues (incase you get weepy like I do often) - Favourite snacks! :3 (as long as they’re in packets or Tupperware with your favourite candy inside) - Caregivers top (this is a must for me because Daddy and I don’t live together just yet, but I don’t have a bedside table to I just keep his top on my bed :3 ) - Bottle (as long as you’re going to finish it if it’s something that has to be refrigerated, same goes for the snacks :3 ) - Hair ties and other cute accessories :3

[teaboot]

Humans are adorable.

Supporting evidence:

1. Humans say ‘ow’, even if they haven’t actually been hurt. It’s just a thing they say when they think they might have been hurt, but aren’t sure yet.

2. Humans collect shiny things and decorate their bodies and nests with them. The shinier the better, although each individual has a unique taste for style and colouring

3. Humans are not an aquatic or even amphibious species, but they flock to bodies of water simply to play in it. They can’t even hold their breath all that long; they just love to splash!

4. When night falls and the sky goes dark, humans become drowsy and begin to cocoon themselves in soft, fluffy bedding.

5. Some humans spend time in each other’s nests! Just for fun! It’s not their nest; they’re just visiting each other.

6. Some humans use pigments and dyes to make their bodies flashy and colourful! They even attach shiny dangly bits to their cartalidgous membranes!

7. Humans are very clever, and sometimes adopt creatures from other species into their family units. They don’t seem to notice the obvious differences, and often raise them alongside their own young!

8. If a human sees another creature in distress, they can commonly be observed trying to help! Even at their own risk, most humans are deeply compassionate creatures!

9. If a human hears a particularity catchy sound or tune, it will often mimic it, even to the point of annoying themselves!

10. Sneezes are entirely involuntary, and completely adorable. Especially when the human in question becomes frustrated

11. Humans love treats!!! Some more than others. Many humans will save these treats specifically for a later date when they are in need of comfort or reassurance. IE, pickles, pop tarts, Popsicles, etc

12. They’re learning to travel in space!!! They can’t get very far, but they’re trying!!! So far, they’ve made it to the end of their yard, and have found rocks

[baby-dino-girl]

I never thought of myself like this it made me happy, thank you

[mickeymouselouise]

This is my favorite.

[strxwbrryswishr]

Littles and Fruits & Vegetables.

🍒🍎🌶🍓🍉🥕🍊🍑🍍🌽🍌🍐🥝🥒🥑

Sometimes, an overzealous little one can get so caught up in chicken nuggets, mac n’ cheese, cookies, and other food that they enjoy most while in little space that they can forget about the importance of fruits and vegetables.

I find my biggest challenge with my little one is ensuring that she’s eating as well when she alone as she does when I’m with her. Fruits are a little easier, as they tend to require a little less prep and are nature’s candy. But, vegetables can be a great alternative to a little’s typical snack.

Here are some tasty fruit and veggie snacks that are easy to prep: • Baby carrots plain or dipped in ranch dressing • Celery sticks with ranch or peanut butter (or plain!) • Sliced cucumbers (my little one likes them plain as well as dipped in italian dressing) • Apple slices plain or with peanut butter • Cubed pineapple • Sliced mango • Bowl of sliced banana and sliced strawberries

If your little one is being particularly fussy with eating fruits or veggies alone, there are creative ways of compromising. Slicing up some fruit for a bowl of healthy cereal or oatmeal tends to work for a little’s sweet tooth. And if they’re craving something a little salty, natural corn chips with guacamole or a chunky vegetable salsa is a lower sodium option than potato chips and still sneaks some veggies in.

And for the littles reading this: I know eating fruits and veggies isn’t as fun as eating chips and cookies, but, part of being a caregiver is caring about your wellbeing. So, just remember that if your mommy, daddy, or caregiver is trying to feed you fruits and veggies, they’re doing it because they love you. 😊

[powered--buttercup]

I love your blog and I love how you stick up to people and how you are so great to your little!! So many star stickers for you, thank you for telling off ableists and gross kinksters who can't respect boundaries. I have ptsd too and I don't have anyone to fight for me like mimi does with you so getting told to grow a thicker skin and a lot of other bad things happens on a constant schedule almost it's gross and horrible. But anyway thank you *gives a star sticker*

Thank you ^_^ well I hope my block posts are able to help you

[powered--buttercup]

I don't understand, you're giving consent for all of public to view, reblog, and like your writings. If you have a problem with certain people enjoying your work, why would you post it on the public World Wide Web? I don't mean to be rude, I'm just confused because from my point of view you're being very harsh to some of the community, especially having your followers block people for speaking their mind and making a simple mistake? Anyway, have a nice day! Hope I didn't offend you!!

I'm not giving consent to all of public view. I specifically state who I don't consent to. Consent laws apply to the internet too. And there are tons of sites, not just tumblr, where people place restrictions on who can view/use their content. And If your referring to my blocklist posts? They don't have to block those people. I just know other people don't want their non-consent ignored, to be called horrible names, and to be sent rape/death threats. None of which, by the way, are ways of "speaking ones mind." Those are just ways of being a disgusting person.

[powered--buttercup]

I haven't been online lately cuz I've been at work. But man I have so much anon hate. And I just wanna say, anon, I'm really sorry your ego is so fragile. I hope you get some help. 😥

[powered--buttercup]

So will you block or report nsfw blogs even if they aren't cg/l kink oriented?

Block yes. I will generally report them if they are a minor or if they are a self proclaimed pedophile/reblog pictures of minors/etc