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Yes. Some autistic people can pay taxes, write poems, live an independent life, etc.
But some of us cant. Some of us, like me, cant live independently. Cant be without someone. Cant be a member of society without extreme accommodation and help.
I need help in everyday life. I have a caregiver for gods sake. I need help in everyday life and will never be independent. It’s frustrating to constantly get comments about how autistic people can live independently. Cause some of us cant, and that needs to be talked about. I get sores from not showering enough. I get sores from my wheelchair. I have cavities from not brushing my teeth enough.
Life with higher support needs shouldn’t be something that is ignored and not talked about. My caregiver helps me live life as independently as possible. Independence looks different for everyone. Our caregivers are an extension of ourselves. Our caregivers are important and should be recognized. Stop throwing us under the bus for your “salvation”
We are all at risk, and throwing higher support needs people under the bus will not benefit you. You’re ruining years of advocacy by your words and videos.
Daily reminders that there is:
Older age regressors/caregivers
Caregivers that are only interested in caring for older kiddos
Some regressors only regress a few years
Older regressors can regress to their 20s/similar "older" ages and are still valid
There are fat age regressors
There are tall age regressors
There are short/petite caregivers
There are POC age regressors
There are POC caregivers
There are disabled age regressors
There are disabled caregivers
You don't need gear to regress and be valid
You don't need to baby talk to be valid
You don't have to act any different to be valid
You don't need trauma to age regress
You don't need to regress often to identify as a regressor (same for caregivers!!)
You can enjoy being both a caregiver and a regressor! Sometimes, you can do it both at once, by being an older sibby!
You don't have to tell anyone about your regression to be valid
You don't have to hide your regression (in a safe situation) and be ashamed of it!
You can regress to different ages
Some regressors are regressed 24/7
Some caregivers want to care for their kiddo 24/7
Some caregivers don't want to or can't care for their little 24/7
What are some reminders that you need or think other people might want to hear? I've been thinking a lot about belonging in a community, and I know that the agere community is really really lovely, but sometimes there are important reminders, yk? I wanna keep this space safe and open for any (nice) people to join because it was this community being safe and open that made me feel loved and accepted when I wasn't by other people. I love this community so so much <3
We need food for energy, after all!
tenna is one of those dads that use jedi mind tricks
baby who's notices little things and gets easily anxious, which leads to spiraling and scary thoughts
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mama who grounds her baby and reminds them that while their thoughts are real, they might not always be true. she calms them down and baby's heart settles softly . . 💭
Our Sweet Bunny
Pairing: WandaNat x Little!DM1!Fem!Reader
Summary: After a tiring week in college, you allow yourself to be taken care of by Wanda and Tasha.
CW: 18+, Age regression, Non-sexual age regression, caregiver & little dynamics, Pacifier use, Breastfeeding, nursing (non-sexual), reader has type 1 diabetes.
!English isn’t my first language!
Studying technology had never been something she wanted as a child, always dreaming of becoming a doctor or veterinarian, or even an actress during her teenage years. So, when she identified with the college a year after finishing high school, she was surprised to find that she actually liked it.
But she hated exam week. With so many codes to test and projects to submit, she often neglected her own well-being, and especially her little side. Wanda and Natasha frequently sent reminders for her to drink water and check her blood sugar, which was often low due to rushing her meals.
When Friday evening finally arrived, her head was pounding and her back begged for a soft mattress as she entered the house, which carried a gentle aroma of cake and soup. Oh, how she loved that smell of Wanda’s cooking.
Her soft, timid steps caught the couple’s attention in the kitchen, who stopped talking as soon as they saw her entering.
— Hey, little bunny. How was class today? — Wanda asked, already rising from the vintage wooden chair, approaching with that cozy look that made her melt. — You didn’t reply to our messages this afternoon. Did something happen?
She blinked quickly, her vision slightly blurred with tears at all the attention from her mommy. She felt so small and tired.
— Oh, no, sweetheart… don’t cry. — Wanda cooed, pulling her trembling, exhausted body into her arms, rocking her gently. — Your little head must be so confused and tired, isn’t it, little bunny?
They stayed like that for a few minutes, just long enough for her to calm down and feel that she was finally home, safe in her mommy’s arms.
— How about mama helps you with your bath while I prepare the room for a movie night, hmm? — Wanda murmured, looking at Natasha, who quietly observed from the table, her fingers holding the coffee cup.
Natasha was always present in a quieter way than Wanda; she was the link to turn to when throwing a tantrum or when she wanted to be protected from something or someone. Often during nightmares or bad thoughts, she would be gently cradled in Natasha’s strong arms while hearing her hum softly in Russian.
She nodded timidly, still feeling that lingering exhaustion even in the comfort of Wanda’s arms. The crying began to fade, replaced by a soft sigh, almost of relief. Natasha then stood, carefully placing the coffee cup on the table, and approached with a side smile, extending a hand for her to hold.
— Come on, little one, mama will help you. I promise it’ll be quick and fun, — said Natasha, with that firm yet gentle voice that always balanced discipline and comfort perfectly.
They walked together to the bedroom bathroom, her little hands gripping Natasha’s arm, feeling smaller with each step. The room was warm, fresh towels hung and soft, smelling faintly of lavender. Natasha started filling the bathtub with warm water, carefully adjusting the temperature.
— Look, little bunny, warm water for you to relax… — Natasha said, smiling as she guided her carefully into the bubble-filled tub.
Meanwhile, Wanda left the kitchen carrying a tray with soup and slices of soft cake, planning what they would do for “movie night.” She made sure everything was safe for her diabetes, carefully counting carbohydrates and insulin doses.
In the bathroom, she allowed herself to relax and surrender to her little side. The warmth of the water mixed with Natasha’s care, making the bath feel almost magical. Natasha gently washed her soft hair, softly humming what sounded like a Russian lullaby.
— Are you enjoying this, detka? — Natasha asked, carefully drying her face. — Mama and mommy are here just for you.
After the bath, Natasha wrapped her in a fluffy towel and carried her to the bedroom, where Wanda had already prepared the bed with extra pillows and a cozy blanket. She curled up among the sheets, babbling softly in deep relaxation, watching Natasha approach with fresh pajamas and the changing items.
— Let’s put on a nice warm pajama, little bunny? — Natasha asked after carefully adjusting the pull-up.
Once she was ready, Wanda placed the tray with small portions of warm soup and soft cake in her lap, carefully arranged so she could eat slowly.
— Here you go, little bunny. Mommy made this just for you, — Wanda said, sitting beside her on the bed. — Let’s go slowly, okay?
She began eating, savoring the familiar, comforting flavors she would miss during the busy exam week. The warm soup slid down her throat, relaxing her exhausted body. The soft cake melted in her mouth, and each bite seemed to calm her pounding head even more. The warmth of the food and the safe environment made her body feel heavier, and, without noticing, her eyes began closing for brief moments with each spoonful.
— Hey, little one… — Wanda murmured, noticing her sleepiness. — You haven’t nursed yet. We need to do that before bedtime, or you won’t have enough energy, okay?
Even with exhaustion pulling her toward sleep, Wanda held her in her arms, resting her head against her chest, carefully guiding the nipple to her slightly parted lips. The comforting sensation and sweet taste of milk made her eyes close completely, her tiny fingers clutching Wanda’s pajama strap with each suckle. The soft sucking sounds filled the room warmly.
— Here, detka. This will be more comfortable. — Natasha whispered softly so as not to disturb her, settling behind Wanda to support her body.
Soon, she fell asleep mid-nursing, completely relaxing in her mommy’s arms. Natasha, after a few minutes, quietly and attentively picked up the glucose meter, carefully checking her blood sugar while she slept.
— It’s okay, little one, everything’s under control, — she whispered to herself with a calm smile. — She’ll just need a small dose of insulin.
After confirming that her glucose was within the expected range, she gently administered the prepared insulin dose, ensuring she would remain safe through the night.
Wanda continued to cradle her softly, letting the rhythm of her breathing and the warmth of her arms guide her into deep sleep. Natasha, satisfied with the measurement and safe insulin administration, settled beside them, ready to intervene if necessary, knowing that in that moment, she was completely protected and cared for.