If you think asking for consent is unsexy, you are not only making safety much more difficult to achieve, you are missing out on some wildly hot concepts, such as:
- Making your flustered sub ask for what they want
- Making them ask for very clearly for what they want and then reminding them through their cries that this is what they asked for
- Asking if they need to stop so you can make them beg you not to stop
- Asking if they’re okay so you can turn it into pointing out how dumb and subby they’ve gotten
- Slowing down and telling them to show you how bad they want it
- Telling them if they want x, they better do a good job of y for you
And so many more!
