what the hip-hop hell is this?!

[princessyotsu]

19 she/her — femme — pillow princess

a diary-type sideblog to cast out sapphic thoughts, nothing i say here is representative of the whole person i am. friendly dm's are okay ♡

fuck ai fuck ice free palestine swag city!!

[bigdumbbutchdog]

I want to be a femme’s chew toy

[princessyotsu]

princess wants a fucking break from it all

[user1619261919]

𐔌ㅤ stand up for your right baby

[princessyotsu]

oven roasting my butch in bed cuz i run so goddamn hot

[cuttyflaps]

happy pride month. as soon as i figure out how to draw crocodile none of you are safe

[thepinkernet]

namie amuro (安室奈美恵) for woofin' magazine (march 2007)

[happycoolchick]

[princessyotsu]

what i crave is a butchfemme relationship electric like rocky and rihanna

[ivyyconvergence]

gyaru blog

[butch-ramblings]

i want ur wisdom. do u have any perspective on the femme identity? im just thinking like…. what makes me a femme with no butch….? u can ignore this if it’s stupid ik ur a butch but i also saw that ur with a beautiful femme (yay!) so i was just curious

It’s definitely NOT stupid…

I don’t think being femme requires a butch counterpart in order to exist. A lot of lesbian history talks about butch/femme as a relational dynamic, but femme has also grown into its own identity, culture, aesthetic, and way of moving through the world.

For some people, being femme is about presentation. For others, it’s about how they experience their gender, their lesbian identity, their relationships, or their connection to femininity. Two femmes can date each other. A femme can be single. A femme can be attracted to butches, other femmes, masc people, or no one at all. None of that automatically makes them less femme.

Sometimes I think the question ‘what makes me a femme with no butch?’ assumes that femme is only meaningful in contrast to masculinity. But many femmes describe their femininity as something they actively create and inhabit for themselves, not merely a response to a butch partner. The identity can be relational, but it doesn’t have to be dependent.

So maybe the question isn’t ‘where is the butch that makes me femme?’ but ‘what does femme mean to me when nobody else is defining it?’ The answer might be in your style, your values, your desires, your relationship with femininity, or your place within lesbian culture. And it might be different from someone else’s answer.

[ooo111oo]

[princessyotsu]

𓈒∘☁︎ neck kisses…

[luguuuu]

[rocknrollromanticism]

stars like you don't belong on the ground, my lady

[ooo111oo]

[elviradyke]

tying a butch’s wrists together with my thong. send post.