just a dude yelling into the void

20, pagan, trans guy, he/him please!

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An underappreciated little joy of life is the fun facts on the side of U-Haul trailers. Yes little trailer, tell me your niche facts, I am an eager student

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Dude I NEED a community of people who are obsessed with storms. I mean OBSESSED. I need to talk to people who know how to read radars and people who don't. I need people who talk about hurricanes and tornadoes and thunderstorms and are just FASCINATED by it all. PLEASE where are my people

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Is it just me or is tumblr's algorithm really aggressive? I like one post with a comic panel, and suddenly that's my entire page no matter what I do. And I don't want to say I'm "not interested" bc I do enjoy this art, but it's just. I still want variety, yk?

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*lin manuel miranda voice* only twenty but my joints are older

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Today I knelt down and it took a couple tries to get back up because of how much my knee hurt. I'm only twenty, why does my body feel like it belongs in a sarcophagus

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Hey so if a trans person tells you they go by he/him or she/her, and you only refer to them by they/them pronouns because "it's easier", that's still misgendering btw

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"we are all made of stardust" um actually I'm made of spite and rage

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WHY WHY WHY AM I GETTING SO MUCH PORN AND THIRST TRAP PICTURES ON MY FEED TUMBLR PLEASE STFU

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"Pretty Is" by Lyfe Jennings. I'm serious. Go listen to it.

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Saying yes after being guilted and begged for sex isn't consent btw

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If I may make a suggestion to young trans men: stay alive.

Look, I can't make you any kind of promises. All I know is that now over a decade later, there are moments when I look in the mirror or when I laugh with my friends or when she kisses me and all I can think is "thank every god the belt gave way when I was 19."

Not everything is better. Sometimes it feels like things are just as hard, but in different ways. But everything is different. And most days, that really is enough.

Stay alive. Just to see, if nothing else.

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Religion is so weird because why can literally 3/4 of the people in my town wear necklaces with crosses on them but if I wear anything with a pentacle on it, I get stared at and hear comments

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My mom says she's an ally and will get real pissed if you say otherwise, but I've literally been out as trans for like five years and she hasn't once used my chosen name, or referred to me as her son, or as a brother to my sibling. My mother says she supports me but never corrects my family when they misgender and deadname me, and gets angry with me when I do. My mom says she accepts me, but I haven't felt it. I'm so tired.

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My tumblr fyp is absolutely CONVINCED I must be a lesbian who loves Bridgerton but I'm the gayest trans guy you'll ever meet and my best guess as to what Bridgerton is is just a lot of horny guys and gals in like a Victorian setting.

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Shoutout to everyone who was sexually assaulted/abused and can't get away from the perpetrator yet. Whether it's a coworker, a relative, a friend of a friend, a teacher, or someone else, I'm one of you, and I see you. The mental toll is no joke, but it will not be like this forever. You have more power than you think.

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I love acne scars and surgery scars. I love stretch marks. I love glasses and tooth gaps and crooked noses and big noses. I love freckles and vitiligo and dimples and rolls and smile lines and eyebrow creases and crow's feet. I love big lips and thin lips and puffy eyes and chubby cheeks. I love hair that never cooperates and cellulite and hip dips. I love tummy pooches and big bellies and wide hips and big thighs and calves and arms. I love our bodies, we are so human and such lovely sculptures, all of us. We are maps and mosaics and I will forever deny the propaganda that tries to convince us to hate that about ourselves. We are all so beautiful and rare.

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YOU DON'T NEED TO BE A SKINNY WHITE TWINK TO BE ATTRACTIVE AS A TRANS GUY. BE FAT. BE CHUBBY. HAVE SCARS AND STRETCH MARKS AND SPOTS AND CYSTS AND DRY SKIN AND DANDRUFF AND ECZEMA. HAVE MOHAWKS AND LOCS AND AFROS AND CURLS AND PIN-STRAIGHT HAIR. BE A POC. GET DARKER IN THE SUMMER. WEAR FEMININE CLOTHES, WEAR MASCULINE CLOTHES, WEAR A MIX OF EVERYTHING. GET SURGERIES, DON'T GET SURGERIES, GET HORMONES, DON'T GET HORMONES, MEDICALLY TRANSITION OR CHOOSE NOT TO OR CHOOSE TO ONLY DO CERTAIN PARTS OF IT BUT NOT OTHERS. USE WHATEVER PRONOUNS YOU WANT. HE, SHE, THEY, XEY, ZIR, OTHER NEOPRONOUNS, WHO CARES! BE WHOEVER THE FUCK YOU WANT TO BE, HOWEVER THE FUCK YOU WANT TO DO SO, BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT TRANSITIONING IS SUPPOSED TO BE. DO NOT LET YOURSELF BE CONTAINED IN ANOTHER MOULD RIGHT AFTER YOU JUST BROKE OUT OF THE LAST ONE.

#And please STOP trying to contain your trans siblings

#we should never be enforcing imaginary rules on each other

#part of community is helping each other stand tall

#SO STAND TALL

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Just wanted to add that I fucking love seeing my trans siblings (and the allies ofc <3) reblogging this and supporting each other! Hell yes, go all of you!!! Become a bear!!! Or don't, it's up to you!!! And that's the beauty of it!!! Trans joy for all!!! I love you all so so much!!!!!!