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I have my favourite T-shirt on top of the pile in my wardrobe...

It's my favourite because it has your precious tears on them...

It has the essence of your warmth and unsaid words.

And also coz, it has the moment wrapped up in my arms.

Ek hi toh Dil hai, kitni baar jitogi!

I cried my heart out on the 20th October, felt like some bonds had slipped away which I never had imagined would.

And then, I was desperately searching for sukoon. I was longing for a hug but didn't have my best friend around.

And look at the strange ways of God- I planned my visit to Old age Home, where I found sukoon in talking to these special people, where I found sukoon in seeking their blessings(always greedy for it), where I found sukoon making rangoli with them, where I found sukoon making them dance and dancing with them, where I found sukoon adding a smile on their face.

And I know, when I meet them again, they will remember me....And this sukoon was the best thing of 2022.. I hoped 2022 to be good in some other ways, but just when I thought, It had taken away a prized bond away, it reminded me of what sukoon was like..Don't chase bonds where they don't value you, because my friend-there are many people longing for someone to be with them..to love them...and to make them smile..and they are selfless people, who want nothing in return, but your time, and your love. ❤️

Hell Yeah! Priorities do change.

There was a time, when I was easily available to a person.

That person never realized my value then and took my presence or existence for granted.

Never prioritized me ever and did things as per their convenience.

And now, when it's been months, that I have walked out and set others as my priorities, and she is no where in the vicinity of the time that I can give.

Then people have a problem.

Clearly, u are getting what u gave. You didn't mend your ways at the right time, so now it's a lesson I learnt the hard way, over the decades of bond-that I should walk away and prioritze those who prioritized me.

My teachers at my boarding school would often tell us that we need to utilize every minute wisely and focus on achievements.

Then in college, my professors and seniors would tell me to focus on networking with the right kind of people. People from whom u get to learn and choose a constructive path.

All of it makes sense today.

I have spent most of my free time over meaningless friendships and bonds that I felt would always last forever, but growing up always gives us a reality check.

I have realized that people will come and go, but your career and your growth is what u have in hand that u can take control of.

I have literally been working hard and collaborating with people and networking with them to channelize my growth and learn about different domains and gain expertise in it.

I am now more focused towards being a self made woman and achieving things with my hardwork and now invest my time also in the right kind of people from whom I can get to learn.

Who says- u find the best of friends only in school? 🤔

NIHARIKA, writing ds note to let you & everyone out dre know, fat I truly am blessed.

Bonds & priorities don't change despite being married & u have aced every bond so beautifully.

Married from past 5 yrs & topping ur PhD despite it & at d same time u hav managed to prioritize ur friends.

We hav literally traveled together, done late night studies together,been competitors to each other yet hav helped each other during studies to put d best foot forward.

I am amazed how beautifully u manage to pull off evthn so perfectly.

If someone needs to know what friendship is & how to prioritize ur best of friends despite having d load of multiple roles in life,dey shud learn from u.

Today, like any other day-I was on an evening walk to the gym and then I noticed a Food truck on the route which was new in that lane. It was offering "Free Chai" to all women on the occasion of Raksha Bandhan and that was a sweet gesture I came across even though it was a marketing strategy.

Honestly, it made me smile..I walked a few steps back towards the food truck and saw a girl and 2 guys inside. Curiously, I ask them how much was a cup of Chai for. They said- It was free today. It further said-yet! And they answered it as Rs 10/-a cup.

They offered me one, to which I said, I was heading to the gym so on my way back, I would love to.

At 8pm, on my way back home, I made sure to buy dairy milk chocolate of Rs 10/- each for the 3 of them.

Went straight to the food truck and offered it to the girl and asked her for a cup of Chai.

Made sure to let her know that it was a kind gesture from my end to them on Rakhsha Bandhan for this free cup of Chai and that it was a good marketing strategy.

Since, this had made my day today, I made sure to make them have a great day too.

And that, there are customers and people who will motivate you and help you grow.

I engaged myself in some fruitful conversations with them-asked them, what they had done, where they had worked earlier, their cost of investment and how they came up with this food truck idea as it had become very common.

And they were a young lot having done MBA from decent institutes.

So, when u come across such youngsters or anything that makes your day, make sure that u make theirs as well.

Kindness goes a long way!

Be it any kind of relationship-

1) Make friends only if u have time for them.

2) Make a boyfriend only if u have time for him.

3) Marry only when u think, u can balance both work and family.

Every Relationship needs to be prioritized and needs your valuable time.

If you can't give them your time, then don't be in it. Nothing comes easily- even the best of bonds have nurtured because you have invested your time in it.

People think that just cz I have studied in a boarding school, I am not attached to my family.

This is one of the biggest myths around that people have for those who have had a boarding life experience.

•Boarding life, makes you appreciate both family and friends. It teaches you the art of networking.

• It builds your personality and gives u exposure to abundance of things at a young age.

• Helps you cherish and respect different cultures and customs.

• Makes you live your school life and bond like friends with your fav. teachers.

• Makes you rise above the orthodox mentality and age old customs and have an open perspective.

Yes! U make my heart smile...

Yes! U make me happy from within...

Yes! My eyes twinkle, whenever I see you.

And Yes! you definitely make me feel special.

It would b a lie to say, that I don't miss you..

It would b a lie to say, that I don't look for you-in those passages where we had our conversations.

I miss you when I see people playing T.T and Badminton,

I miss you whenever I walk inside the same building everyday...

I have never felt safe and protected ever under anyone,

As much as I do, with you around me.

I know you are beside me to make things easier for me,

But, I would never ask you for any favour.

But all I ask is- It's time you come back.

#ComeBackPlease..#YouKnowIT ..#IwontSayIT

(So , read it...😜)

Pros and Cons.of Govt.Sector vs. Private Sector

Pvt: Cons:

1) No to less Job Security

2) No to less Stability

3) No to less Work life Balance

4) No to less Perks and Allowance

5) Politics at higher levels

6) Demanding work hours lead to bad health

7) Lesser saving for the retirement.

PROS:

1) No Stagnation. You are free to switch.

2) Have enhanced skill sets at par the industry.

3) Huge increments ( atleast 10% above)

4) Performance based promotions and increments

5) Free to switch if the environment gets toxic.

6) Metro life (if one has time to live it 😜)

7) Good communication skills and personality

(I know it's a personal choice, bt this is the generalized data)

Will disclose the name of the company next week:

•Strong & Experienced Management 👍

•Strong results from past 5 years👍

•Debt negligible👍

•Promoters holding and confidence 👍

•Huge demand of its products and Capex story👍

•Strong and diversified clients 👍

• Incentives by the govt.to promote the sector👍

• Corporate governance issues Nil 👍

Kuch kami si hai, Aye Zindagi-kuch kami si hai.

Chal rahi hu rishto ko sambhalkar,

Lekin phir bhi aankhon main Nami si hai;

Dil kyu hai udaas logo ki bheed main bhi,

Zindagi main jaise, kuch kami si hai.

Khushi ke lamhe chali thi sanjone,

Lekin gamm hi gamm mile,

Unke saath rehkar bhi jaise,

Hum andar se Khali se rahe.

Kuch kami si hai, Aye Zindagi-kuch kami si hai.

Yesterday, a conversation took place between me and my office colleagues/frnz :

Bharti/Nirmata- You have changed so much. U need to come back to your all rounder attitude.

Me- And what will that get me, being one at office. Face more politics, people will envy more, and I will be targeted.

Bharti/Nirmata- Forget what people did. Know that we are also your friends.

Me: Office main frnz nhi hote, colleagues hote sab. (My blatant reply, shocked them but they knew the truth, deep down).

Bharti/Nirmata: Pata hai, terebaare main kuch logo ka perception hai, that u are arrogant.

Me- Who are these people? Do I care...

Even I have alot of perceptions about many. So, do they care?

Just one statement for u all- This is how I am, Take it or Leave it.

Plus, I am not here to bootlick people or wear wear fake smile amd say a hi or a hello.

Those who are close to me, know it and for the rest I don't even care at my workplace.

Tere Jaisa yaar kahan,

Kahan aisa yaarana,

Yaad kregi duniya,

Tera Mera afsaana.

Meri jeet, teri jeet;

Meri haar, teri haar,

Sunn le, mere yaar...

Mera gamm, Tera gamm;

Meri jaan, teri jaan,

Aisa apna pyaar....

Jaan pe bhi khelege;

Tere liye le lege,

Sabse dushmani....

Ye dosti, Hum nhi todege;

Todege Damm agar,

Tera saath na chodege...❤

My DSP friend once called me to get insight about the technical parameters considered while constructing an electric poke and stringing of the HT and LT wires.

I asked him-what was the matter?

He said- He was dealing with a case which was of 2018, where some kids died because the electric pole fell. After knowing about the entire case, I realized my department was at fault and that the family of these kids had to get compensation.

We were here standing for what was right to help the people.

I told him that it's the fault of our company and that the material of the same has been compromised while erecting it. They cannot get back the lives of the people, but he should write a letter to our dept.asking for answer and catch hold of the person responsible behind this.

As govt.officers we are meant to serve and give people the voice that is suppressed. But, there are many who take their share and cut and compromise on the quality of the material and people loose their life cz of it.

Honestly, such people need to be blacklisted from being able to apply for tenders anywhere and should be punished for the loss of life.

A study conducted by Frankl in his Vienna clinic found that among both patients and personnel, around 80% believed that human beings needed a reason for living and around 60% felt they had someone or something in their lives worth dying for.

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