Pulling you through

We're here to help you. Our ask is always open. Our aim is to offer wisdom, kindness, and support. Please do not hesitate to contact us if you are in need of any of these three things. Namaste. Disclaimer: If you don't want your question posted, just let us know and we will reply privately :3

[pulling-you-through-blog]

hey it's me, the one who asked about if I should tell my friend if I liked her or not because I'm not sure if were too close or not :P well I told her how I felt, but she thinks of me as her Brother in a way and she didn't want to hurt me if she did anything wrong :( I'm a little sad of course but I only want what she wants, and if this is her choice then I'll be okay, Thanks for convincing me to tell her otherwise I would have never known the answer :) lots of thanks, from someone you may know

Hello again! I'm glad you came back and messaged me about how it went. I'm sorry that you didn't get the answer you were hoping for from her, but I think the way you've dealt with it is lovely, that as long as she is happy you are happy, that's very sweet of you. At least you know where you stand now and can move on and find somebody else. I wish you all the best in the future!

Also, who are you, if you don't mind my asking? :3

[pulling-you-through-blog]

Hey I've just looked at your blog and thought you guys could help me :) I Really like my friend but I'm not sure if were to close as friends, does being too close friends matter when there's feelings of love involved? :)

Hello lovely.

If you are as close as friends as you say, telling them you have feelings for them should not change things, even if the worst case scenario takes place and they don't feel the same. I personally think you should go for it, but then again, you know this person, I don't. You know what they are like and probably have a good idea of how they would take the news.

If they feel the same, being close friends certainly doesn't get in the way of things. If anything, it should make the love stronger.

I really hope everything goes as you wish, and feel free to let us know how it goes, I'd like to know :3

-Dru

xoxo

[favoritelittlelyrics]

Tegan & Sara, “Don’t Confess”

[foreverandalways-together]

The long and hard paths are the ones that lead us to the most beautiful views..

[irishsm-deactivated20141216]

Sometimes we all have to be remindedto keep going..

[pulling-you-through-blog]

I went out today too and it was really scary for me too, i get how you feel, thanks for doing it, it makes me feel better to know i'm not on my own with my worries (:

Where did you go? Do you feel better for it? It is hard facing up to things that terrify you, but in the long run, it is definitely worth it. Facing your fears is the only way to overcome them once and for all. I am proud of you for going out, and for doing the thing that scared you, I hope you are proud of yourself.

If you're ever having trouble going out, feel free to message me, and I will agree to go out at the same time and face my fear at the same time.

You're never alone, some people just hide it better than others. I think it's good that you're open about it, it helps raise awareness for all of the issues that don't get discussed.

Again, well done for doing it, you should feel great.

- Dru

<3

[pulling-you-through-blog]

I read Drus story and it was brave of you to put it out there, I wish i had your courage. Congratulations.

Thank you. I think I am now at a time in my life, after 5 long years, where I am able to talk about what happened. It still hurts, and I believe it always will, but I am learning how to manage the feelings I have, and I'm slowly, but surely, putting all of what happened behind me.

You are brave, too. I know that much is true.

<3

[pulling-you-through-blog]

I went for a walk this evening, which was a huge deal for me. I had a panic attack beforehand, but I didn't let it stop me. I feel much better for doing it, for pushing myself that little bit further, instead of taking the easy option and staying home.

Things can be hard, but nothing is impossible.

[iwaslostsoi]

[pulling-you-through-blog]

I hope you are all having a wonderful morning/afternoon/evening/night, you deserve it.

Smile for me!

- Dru.

<3

[aorarchived]

[loveistheworstkiller]

[recoveryisbeautiful]

[tfiostars-deactivated20141114]

[pulling-you-through-blog]

it was really brave of you to post your story on here dru, i never realised the full extent of what you've been through, and i truly admire you even more as a friend for doing that. and ignore the pathetic anon messages... you're doing a really good thing with this blog, don't let them stop you :) xx

Thank you, Natasha. This message means a lot :) I don't understand why people would think it's a bad thing to try and help people, but hey ho, we won't let them get to us :3

Thank you again, love.

P.s. I REALLY need to see you soon, you start college this week!! :(

<3

[staypozitive]

[pulling-you-through-blog]

I'm 17 and have never had a boyfriend because I'm a really bad communicator and awkward etc. I have liked someone for almost a year and I don't know how to get talking to him/ask him out or whatever because I feel i'm not good enough, any advice? x

Be confident, for starters. You are absolutely good enough, you're wonderful, never think otherwise!! Just go say hey, ask how he is, get to know him, become friends with him first, a lot of relationships start off as friendship!! Or go the complete other way and just go ask him if he wants to go out with you sometime, but whatever decision you make, confidence is key!

Good luck sweetie! :D

xx