[pumpkinspicelexatte]

anyway fuck tumblr. I’m done enjoy, your toxic bullshit  oh and remember that

skate-butch is a fucking rapist who came into a situation where she knew I was being abused and had a three way with me and my abuser. Despite obvious power dynamics and the fact i was being given my exs anti psych meds.

not that you’ll care, this entire community just would rather sweep shit under the rug than actually deal with the abusers.

[pumpkinspicelexatte]

If you can’t do positivity without overarching blanket statements , especially ones that are kinda dehumanizing? Then i don’t know what to tell you

[pumpkinspicelexatte]

also why are we treating me like I’m cis?

[pumpkinspicelexatte]

oh I get it. I should shut up and be a good rape victim because idealization of an entire group of people is more important

[pumpkinspicelexatte]

actually no my rapists and abusers don’t deserve to feel good about themselves no matter what their gender identity is

[pumpkinspicelexatte]

Imagine kinda yelling at a rape and abuse victim because they have a problem with a group of people who the majority of their abusers identity with being all classified as good and pure

[pumpkinspicelexatte]

I don’t know about you, but if I was treated as if I was good and pure and could do no wrong, I’d feel pretty dehumanized.

[pumpkinspicelexatte]

hey did you also know by any chance that I’m fucking trans too??????????

[pumpkinspicelexatte]

just because I’m amab nb it doesn’t mean that I don’t get affected by transmisogyny and all of the bs opinions of trans people just cause I don’t identify in the gender binary....

[pumpkinspicelexatte]

hey did you also know by any chance that I’m fucking trans too??????????

[gueroboyfriend-deactivated20180]

u ever have on mutuals whos so deep in another fandom that u know absolutely zero about and they make posts that look like they speaking another language or some shit

[gueroboyfriend-deactivated20180]

[pumpkinspicelexatte]

basically all my social media is right now is me whining that i probably need to wait a few days at least before i start editing my first draft xD

[raychjackson]

Stop all that “you attract what you are ready for” shit. Sometimes life is just terrible. It’s not always my fault.

[clinicallydepressedpug]

“Life never gives you more than you can handle.” Yes, it does.

“People are placed in your life to teach you a valuable lesson that helps your soul on its way to enlightenment.” No, there are a just a lot of people who feel empowered when they act like assholes. We live in that kind of society.

“You keep finding yourself in the same situation because you haven’t discovered the message the universe is trying to send to you yet.”  Sometimes unpleasant things are stuck on repeat, because you have a mental or physical condition, and it is a symptom. Symptoms are like that.

“The truth always hurts.” No, it doesn’t, and what hurts often isn’t the truth, but is instead someone’s biased opinion. 

[raychjackson]

I really appreciate this comment. Thank you thank you thank you.

[sagittities]

This is what I need to hear. I blamed myself for so long for the abuse I endured and for attracting the people that hurt me.

[drst]

OK “the truth hurts” is a maxim that needs to die. It teaches us that “truth=pain” so when someone tells us something hurtful, we assume it must be true. Conversely, when someone says something nice to us, it must be a lie because truth hurts, right?

I can’t begin to calculate how many people have suffered because they assume someone who hurts them must be telling them the truth

[demonius-darkblade]

Does anyone know where America’s pervasive myth that “people on food stamps waste them on ridiculous luxury foods” comes from? Now that this bullshit is going to cause major change in the system, I think it’s important for us to find out.

Related: why do people always list “steaks” among foolish things poor people buy? It’s not really particularly expensive, like, at all

[fortidogi]

Yeah, and its not like theyre less expensive when you buy them with food stamps either. And its good protein and nutrition for someone who doesnt get that often- better than McDs or something. Whys it bad for someone whos poor to get good meat?

[lord-kitschener]

Because poor people are supposed to be punished for the being poor (which is seen as a sign of moral failure and inferiority) by being forced to be miserable in every way possible, including being stuck eating shitty, unhealthy food. Any kind of pleasure, even if it’s cheap or practical, is bad, because it undermines the goal of punishing poor people and making them utterly miserable, which is how they’re learn to magically stop being immoral and poor.

[laurenmaybvrry]

Down Side of Me // CHVRCHES

[evanspetres-deactivated20201015]

So last night I came across this beauty

[kinkytwist95]

This deserves to be reblogged. If you agree keep it going 💜✌🏾

[hardonahoe]

This dude is a pantywaist and any bitch who cosigns it phony as hell. Be a better person surround yourself with better people and fuck the bullshit. Men and women stay divided against each other because of rhetoric like this.

[lesbiananimeism]

Why do guys that run female inferiority kink blogs feel the need to comment on any post involving women’s social issues

[pumpkinspicelexatte]

[blkdaria]

Y'all please be very clear with your intentions with people. Don’t expect them to just know. Make sure they understand completely what the situation is and if you notice you’re on different pages, point it out. Don’t let it just continue like that