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18+ only | 30s, genderqueer AFAB | former kink blog, real misogynists ruin everything

[fillmypussy1]

[rap3cow-deactivated20250204]

Cows are so happy when showing off our udders for our abusers!!

[brainless-cxnt]

This page will no longer be active since the election of Trump. This has radicalized me to a point where I feel this page no longer aligns with my values. It’s time to de-center men and stand for the minorities and those who are at risk. Even in my kinks, I can no longer play with the idea of the patriarch or cnc, etc. it’s too real now. It’s ruined. From the bottom of my heart, fuck you if you support or voted for Trump. I hope you get everything you deserve and the heaviness of your choices weighs on your soul for the rest of your life.

[tsfj]

Pretty similar to how I'm feeling too. Republicans and fascists ruin fucking everything. Men are the fucking worst.

[punchmisogynistsandincels]

YESS I AGREE WITH YOUR POST REGARDING THE ELCTION

Non- Binary person here idc what the real misogynistic men think women trans and non binary are equal to men in the real world yes in the kink world maybe but not in the real world

And to all the real misogynistic men out there FUCK you. I will cry of JOY when you die so instead of stay on anonymous get off of it if your going to even try to pretend you right.

A-fucking-men. Keep being your amazing, beautiful nonbinary self and enjoy whatever fantasies you want because they are FOR YOU.

[punchmisogynistsandincels]

I think if you really want to make a safe space for these kinks then you should let doms join too. First of all, not everyone is a 100% dom or sub and it sucks having to pick between them. It sucks being a trans dom having no safe spaces because people think doms don't need them. That doesn't mean opening it to cis men, it means allowing women, queer and trans people who dom in these kinks to also have a space to share their fantasies. I don't understand the hardline of not allowing doms into the space, because again not everyone is just a dom or just a sub. It's your space but this is my two cents as a trans person interested in these kinks both as a dom and a sub, who often feels excluded and like I have to be submissive in order to be acceptable to people in this space.

Thank you for the feedback! I will think more about this. I completely believe that there should be safe spaces for trans/queer doms, I just don't know that that is the space I personally am going to create. I am really interested in a space that is centered around submissive fantasies (including by people who switch IRL), not just kink or D/s generally. I'm unaware of any such espace at this time, and I'm gauging interest in that. As yet, nothing at all has been created and might not be.

Of course I encourage other people to create spaces that they want to see, too! I may even be interested in other spaces that include trans/queer dominants and would love to know if/where those exist.

[punchmisogynistsandincels]

Server/Space for Subs

I was reflecting on how sad I am that there isn't currently a space for non-cis man subs into gender play (female submission, lesbian/queer "fixing," forced detransition for trans men, etc.) to share erotic fantasies that aren't hijacked by the misogynistic men who can't tell reality from kink.

I made a kink post some time ago about making a group chat like this. Is there serious interest? To be clear, it would ONLY be for women, nonbinary, and transgender (both trans women and trans men) submissives/bottoms into male domination KINKS. No cis men, no dominants, no real life misogyny/homophobia/transphobia.

Y'all write such amazing fantasies and I've enjoyed writing mine for you, I'm just trying to think of a way we can still do that for US that doesn't invite the absolute shit we encounter on here.

I'm thinking Discord would be a good option but open to alternatives! Perhaps there could be threads for text roleplay, longer form stories, etc.

If you think you'd be interested, drop me a DM? Just gauging interest in a safe way to engage with rougher kinks that doesn't center the same people who are putting our lives at risk.

[punchmisogynistsandincels]

thank you for your words❤ those are dark times indeed, and you give a bit a light in all this despite all (we see the true sad face of some lonely men around here)

We are stronger together. It's really hard now, but in the coming weeks, months, and years, please try to also find joy. Joy is resistance.

[punchmisogynistsandincels]

Hey, so I just wanna say that your anger is justified and what has happened is horrible.

Just know you did not do anything wrong for wanting to just have some filthy and kinky fantasies and for running this blog.

I know you’re angry and there is very clearly people to blame like the misogynists that voted to trump. But one of those people is not yourself. Please remember that.

Thank you so much for this! I wish our reality were such that I felt comfortable engaging in this kind of kink on Tumblr. I sincerely enjoy writing erotica and I've loved getting messages and notes from women, queer folks, and trans folks that my writing helped scratch fun itches for them.

I know that the people my anger is directed toward will find any excuse to continue engaging in their beliefs and practices, no matter what I do or don't do, but for myself and my conscience, it's at this time that I draw the line at providing sexual material for those people to enjoy. Nor do I judge any submissive/bottom person for continuing to share their fantasies in this space. We DO deserve fun, sexy fantasies, and I have always, always considered my blog more for those people than for cishet men.

[punchmisogynistsandincels]

Thank you for your words. I am not even living in the U.S., but I am so devastated ... I hope that there is some silver lining eventually. I am just completely hopeless.

I wish you all the best! ♥️

Thank you for this. We will continue fighting, just like we did before. Those of us with more power need to stand up for those with less. We will make our future what it should be.

[punchmisogynistsandincels]

You'll be back to worshipping men in a few weeks fuckhole! Now go hump your brains out on a pillow!

I've in fact never worshipped men, I have two feminist partners and all the amazing sex I could ever want, which I bet is more than you can say. Stay mad!

[punchmisogynistsandincels]

I beat my dick so hard to your Fuck You, Misogynists post. Can’t wait to die in my cum stained underwear!

Haha, I'm sure you thought this was clever. Keep fapping, little boy. I can't wait for you to die either!

[punchmisogynistsandincels]

Fuck You, Misogynists

Given today's U.S. election results, I can no longer conscience maintaining a kink blog with (fake) misogynist content.

I've previously been ethically uncomfortable about maintaining this blog as I know at least some (hopefully small) percentage of users who engage with this blog truly do believe in misogyny and male superiority, but I justified it as a fun sexy thing for MYSELF and for other women, nonbinary, and trans people who DESERVE to have fun, filthy fantasies.

Now women and other gender minorities are once again in a fight for our lives and not a single goddamn misogynist man deserves to get off on my erotic writing.

In my real life, I am a lawyer and an activist. I have power, I have money, and I am coming for you fucks. I will burn you. I will use every resource at my disposal to strip everything from you and leave you weak, groveling, and dying alone in your cum-stained underwear.

Know that if you've ever messaged me with the serious implication that you are superior to me or other women/gender minorities, I have laughed. I've looked at your lonely, pathetic, poorly-written feeds, cringed at your sins against grammar, and laughed at your braindead delusions.

For non-misogynist men: If you continue engaging in this kink space, please do it responsibly. Please make it known that you do not actually endorse misogyny in any form. In your real lives, donate to women and minority-led causes. Treat your partners with respect. Learn how to engage in dominance/submission play consensually. There are classes, meetups, and kink spaces where you can learn how to engage with dark kinks without being part of the problem.

For women, nonbinary, and trans people: I love you. You are beautiful, smart, and courageous. Your blogs are infinitely more sexy, interesting, and creative than the "real" misogyny blogs. Lean on each other. Know your worth. Don't feed the delusions of pathetic, lonely losers who couldn't dominate their way out of a wet paper bag. If you engage in kink in real life, find supportive feminist kink spaces. You do not have to settle for anything less than your wildest fantasies.

Signing off <3