Pup Raimo

Wruff ^.^ (Rye-mo) My pet life.

[dominantlife]

Updated Library For Kinksters

I completed some major changes to the Library For Kinksters. Here is the update…

Aftercare

Aftercare 101

Aftercare For Dominants

Coping With Emotional Subdrop

Dom Drop

How To Make A Sub Drop Kit

Online Aftercare

sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare

Subdrop and Aftercare

Subspace and Aftercare

Consent

Consent & BDSM

Guide to Consent

Doms, Daddies & Masters

7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom

12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive

25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles

30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman

45 Things A Girl Wants, But Won’t Ask For

50 Rules for Daddies

100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess

101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)

Alternative Names For “Daddy”

Alternative Domme Titles

Aspects Of Control

Asserting Ownership - Rules

Daddy Up!

Defining A Daddy Dom

Dominants Need Training Also

Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles

Help For New Doms

How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive

How To Be A Good Dominant

How to Find a Submissive

Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man

New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom

Observations On Doms By A Submissive

So you want to be a Dom?

So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her

Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know

The Dom Commandments

Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind

What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissive’s Perspective

What does the title Daddy mean?

What is a Daddy Dom?

What is a Daddy Dom Mentor?

What It Means To Be A Dominant

What Makes A Good Dominant

Littles, Subs & Slaves

6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant

7 Common Types of Submissives

10 Tips For Living With A Sadist

10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive

11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant

26 Baby Girl Jobs

50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy

A Bottom’s Responsibility

A Dominant’s Advice To His Submissive

A Man Who Knows You…

A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom

Acid Test For Subs

Ask A Million And One Questions

Attraction to DD/lg: A Little’s Perspective

Baby girl or little? A brief introduction

Care and feeding of Daddies

Characteristics Of A Good Daddy

Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner

Feminist Submissive

Finding Your Dominant

Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By

Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls

How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.

“How do I find Daddy?” A guide to help you safely find the Daddy you’re looking for.

How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?

How To Find A Dom

How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom

I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy

Novice Submissives

Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK

Signs Of A Fake ‘Dominant’

Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.

Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts

Submissive Pride

Submissive Traits - Intelligence

Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me

What is a Little?

When newbie subs, with asinine “doms,” need to run away.

Why I call him Daddy

Your Rights As A Submissive

Long Distance Relationships

10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship

Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship

How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work

Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope

Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans

The Long Distance D/s Relationship

Mental Health

BDSM practitioners ‘healthier and less neurotic’ than ‘vanilla’ peers

Body image & BDSM

How to Get Over Feeling Sad

Is BDSM normal?

Love your Vulva – a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!

Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship

Meditation And Mindfulness

On Cutting

Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories

Things to Do When You’re Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction

Tips for Recovering from Codependency

What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)

Why Do I Feel Unloveable?

Relationships

10 Habits of Happy Couples

10 Top Communication Mistakes

10 Types of Emotional Manipulators

12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget

50 Best Ways To Say “I Love You”

BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End

BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways

Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective

Communication Is Key

Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships

Daddy Doms and their little girls

Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More

Date Night In A Jar

DD/lg In Public

D/s and Domestication

Factors That Make A Relationship

Finding Love When You Least Expect It

Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests

How To Be Present In Your Relationships

How To Build A Healthy Relationship

How To Get What You Want In A Relationship

How To Know When You’ve Found “The One”

How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level

Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship

Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship

Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait

Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore

Searching for a D/s partner?

Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships

Stop Arguments Before They Start

The Rewards of a Submissive

Types Of Relationship Insecurity

Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship

What Is Real Love?

When He Doesn’t Call

Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better

Safety

Another life ruined because of the morality police

Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!

Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldn’t

Limits in BDSM

What is Emotional Abuse?

Self Improvement

10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life

10 Steps To Self Care

10 Ways To Be Happy

10 Truths To Live By

Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive

How to be Yourself

How To Deal With Your Enemies

How To Ignore Haters

How to Recognize a Toxic Friend

How to Stop Being a People Pleaser

Slut Shaming Explained

Tips for Healing a Broken Heart

What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?

Sex

50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women

Basics of Breath Play

D/s or Kinky Sex?

Fetishes Explained

How To Make A Girl Squirt

How To Tell Your Son About Sex

Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality

Sensual Biting

Sex: Myths & Stereotypes

Sex: Practical Details

Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control

So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women

Squirting Educational Video

Squirting Notes

Toys

Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs

BDSM on a budget

Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)

Training

10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs

30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten

40 Very Important DD/lg Facts

Age Play: A Short Guide

BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play

DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)

Etiquette in BDSM Part 1

Etiquette in BDSM Part 2

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind

Glossary of BDSM Terms

Guide To Blood Play

Guide To Bruising

Guide To Talking Dirty

Guide To Wax Play

How Do I Get Started In BDSM?

How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest

How To Make A Comfort Box

Introduction To BDSM

Newbie’s Guide To Vaginal Fisting

Punishments in BDSM Relationships

Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships

Some Thoughts On Rules

The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility

The Need For Rules and Discipline

Topping from the bottom

[nolongersilkbox]

In order to stop the culture of faking orgasms, we need to stop the culture of shaming others for their sexual experiences.

Can’t get your partner off on the first try? Cool. You can still be thoughtful and make them feel good.

Can get your partner off within 30 seconds? Awesome, good for you both, don’t let it get to your head.

Can make someone cum in less than 5, but for others, it’s a process that takes an hour? That’s alright, everyone’s different. 

Does it take you 30 minutes to cum? That’s okay, you’re not broken, you’re not a failure.

Does it take you 10 seconds to cum? That’s great, you’re not a slut, you’re not overly sensitive or dirty. 

Can’t cum without toys/vibrators? That’s awesome, that’s a valid part of sexual play!

Can only cum with loving, vanilla sex? That’s perfectly normal, and you will find lots of great partners to experience that with!

Can’t orgasm at all? THAT’S ALSO COOL. It’s not a bad thing, you can still enjoy sex TONNES just like others.

Orgasms are NOT the defining characteristic of your sexual prowess. They are great, they’re lovely when they happen, but for the love of science, stop bringing them up higher than they need to be. 

[princess-pupcake-deactivated201]

This is so so true.

[doeeyescurious-blog-deactivated]

Shoutout to Shy Puppies

Puppies who worry about looking silly during play

Puppies who still feel like having a petplay kink is weird and don’t like to tell their partners about their interest

Puppies who are too shy to make puppy sounds

Puppies who are intimidated by gear and play parties

Puppies who sometimes hold back out of embarrassment

Puppies who get in trouble because they hesitate to follow instructions when really they’re just timid

Puppies who have a hard time getting into pup space and staying there

Puppies who accidentally go into pup space at inconvenient times 

Puppies who feel like they are “too much”

You are so good. You are precious and adorable and loved. Take your time. Test the waters. It’s gonna be okay. Every pet is different, and some of us need a little extra training and love, and there’s nothing wrong with that. As long as you’re having fun, you’re doing it right!

[pupjester-deactivated20181204]

This!! 😍😍😍

[pup-moogle]

Relate to a lot of these 😂😅😳

[pupraimo]

Who’s a good boy? 😏

so much love for this puppy I can’t wag hard enough.

[lilbeauxpup]

❤️🐾🐶Pure Bred Cuddle Pup🐶🐾❤️ #pup #pupplay #gaypup #humanpup #gruffpup #MrSLeather #modelpup #photography #gayfetish #gaykink #fetish #kinkster #hood #fit #black #cuddlepup #cute #goodboy #WOOF

[tuggersdrool]

[cuddlespup-deactivated20181217]

Always good to reblog when I see it!

[puphennessy-deactivated20181217]

I want all you pups WITHOUT gear to know one thing,

YOU ARE STILL PART OF THE PUP COMMUNITY.

For a long time I didn’t have a pup hood, I didn’t have any gear (still don’t have a lot), but I still identified/identify as a pup. I have adult/human expenses that come BEFORE buying gear. I have to SURVIVE, before indulging on kink & fetish gear. Also I get it, gear can be pretty pricey for some of us, while others can afford new gear every other week.

1- It’s okay not to have the latest and greatest gear, pup hood, tails, sportswear, and whatever else.

2- Don’t feel discouraged by tumblr, twitter, instagram, youtube and wherever else pups are social and posting pictures/videos.

3- Gear does not make you any better or any worse.

4- Pup play is about getting letting go of the human side of you and going into a whole different head space. it should be about having fun.

5- There’s ALWAYS going to a group or individuals in a community that have their head stuck up their ass and think they somehow in some way, are better than everyone else. 

How much gear you own or don’t own shouldn’t discourage you.

You wanna be a pup? You be a pup hunty! <3 PUP PLAY IS FOR EVERYONE: Gay, Straight, Bisexual, Trans, Skinny, Chubby, Black, White, Rich, Poor, Man or Woman.

I understand, I feel you, I welcome you.

- PUP HENNESSY.

[kobythepup]

Can never leave you puppies unattended 😉

[pupraimo]

Pup cayde held in chastity by me for 10 days going on..? Such a good puppy.

[pupraimo]

My beautiful sexy pup Champ doing his part to clean the house like the good pup he is! 😘😍

[pupcayde]

Just hanging out at the 🏖️

[friendly-animals]

Follow me for more cute animals! (:

[illburymybone]

If only my teammates knew they were playing with a doggo. 🐶🎮

[pupjester-deactivated20181204]

Arf!! Yay for gamer pups

[pup-saber-blog]

The vices and virtues of a pup

Lust - Chastity A pup desires attention, has a lust for contact, and sometimes an insatiable craving for snuggles. However, some of the pups I have met are among the most chaste in existence.

Gluttony - Temperance Take a bag of cookies to a pack of pups, shout treats, and try to get out alive. I wouldn’t say pups have an excessive desire for treats, they simply like to overindulge given the opportunity. But place a treat on a pup’s muzzle, make it a trick, tell them to wait, and they show a temperance and self-control beyond human levels.

Greed - Charity Whenever you spot a pup’s blanket fort, you see its den. The place where a pup can hide its treasure. This is where a pup hoards its (stolen) treats, toys and undies, claiming all for its little kingdom. But lure a pup out, snuggle it, play with it, and it will share generously. And, if you’re lucky, it might even sacrifice a place in the fort, along with the hoard.

Sloth - Diligence Now be fair, what is better than a puppy nap? A pup has many friends, but Sloth has a special place. A nap for the entire day. This isn’t to say a pup is lazy as such, it merely has a smart time management scheme. Don’t waste energy when unnecessary. And, if you’re out of luck, a pup will wake up before you do and zealously be your alarm.

Wrath - Patience Ever invoked the wrath of a pup? No? Then you never tried to take away its treats. Though harmless, a pup’s growl can be… vexing. However, if you treat a pup right, and care for it, it will show you a harmony and forgiveness many could learn from.

Envy - Kindness Here’s a survival tip: if you find yourself with a pack of pups, don’t try to only give one of them attention. You’ll end up with a bunch of jealous pups all claiming even more attention. But let’s be fair, what is better than the love and trust without prejudice only a pup offers?

Pride - Humility It’s no secret that pups can be vain. They’ll do their best to show off their looks and what they can do, and on occasion are known to admire the mirror puppy. But if you manage to train your puppy well, and create that harmony, you’ll have its respect and it will do everything to make you happy.

[mxponysyn-deactivated20190620]

Basic friendly reminders about pet play in the BDSM community

It’s not inherently sexual

It does NOT involve bio-animals in any shape or form

It is NOT a form of beastiality or zoosexuality

The vast minority of those in the pet play community do it for humiliation purposes

There can be girl pups and boy kittens

Pony play has existed for a very long time, many photos dating back as far as the Victorian era and beforehand in history

It’s for legal adults only (as is the rest of the BDSM community, which is 18+ in most places in the world, AGE OF CONSENT IS A DIFFERENT CONCEPT!)

Stop “gear shaming” people. People forget that professional gear is expensive as shit (I’ve seen horse play hoods as expensive as $1200, puppy play hoods between $120-250, kitten play tails around $30-75, pony play hoofs around $125-200, etc.)

[pupraimo]

Selfie play day! #pupplay

[lilbeauxpup]

WOOF! 🐶❤🐾🐾