33 | long live the new flesh

🍄‍🟫 33, they/them 🍄‍🟫 AO3 🍄‍🟫 🔞 18+ only 🍄‍🟫

[quiet-admirer]

🖤 Hi I'm Sam, I'm a small fat 33-year-old queer fat admirer and fetishist into soft feedism & weight gain.

🖤 I'm married in a closed relationship but DMs are okay for non-kinky chat :)

🖤 I also write fanfiction and original stories over at kinkratonthestreets on AO3 (most stories locked for AO3 users only due to AI scraping concerns ☹️)

🖤 Fat liberation is an essential component to feedism and fat-related fetishes and is a frequent topic on here as well

Fave kinks that might pop up on here more often: soft dom feedee/sub feeder dynamics, chubby/fat to fatter weight gain kink, soft feedism, weight gain encouragement

🚫 No minors. Minors and blogs without your age or a link to a verified OF account in your bio or pinned post will be blocked.

🚫 ED blogs go away, I block and report 😘✌️

I abandoned my tagging system to be honest, but for my older posts, my most common tags are below ⬇️

(I usually remember to tag off-topic posts as "not the usual", liveblogging my writing process as "quiet-writing", and harder dom/sub or pain play topics as "not soft" if you want to blacklist those tags to hide the posts from your dash.)

[fatguarddog]

The romance... the eroticism... of a full, warm, fat belly

[plushefemme]

t hunger is so fucking fun and sexy i wish all hotties on t a very pleasant eat yourself massive and jerk off abt it forever

[fatyote]

It’s not a problem if I waddle over and smoke all your weed and drink all your booze and eat all your food, yeah?

I mean, I know you’ll like it when I pin you under my gut and belch long and hard in your face afterwards.

Cool. Same time tomorrow then. Be sure to restock.

[quiet-admirer]

Plans with family this weekend changed last minute and the thing we're doing will now have to involve a lot more walking plus renting equipment and I'm telling my family to ask what sizes they have and they're just like "it'll be fine, they'll have all sizes" like, please. we all have sight. please ask. I am the largest person coming by like 2 clothing sizes, please tell me you understand that I can't borrow shit from y'all either. Spatial awareness, I am begging 🙏

[skipperafterdark]

how it feels when all u wanna do is play w a big soft tummy but u have to do stupid things like Working or Cooking or Cleaning or Adult Life

[garden-hose-obesity]

If you identify as a feeder or encourager, I’m BEGGING you to operate with a realistic understanding of the human body.

There are a ton of different things I see said that make me roll my eyes, but here are a few that have stuck with me over the years:

“You should eat so much that you gain five pounds tonight”

Friend. That’s not how bodies work. The amount of weight you can actually gain in one day is different for everyone, but it’s pretty safe to use the rule of thumb: 1lb per day maximum. Weight gain is caused by consistent calorie surpluses, not so much by occasional overindulgence. If you want someone to grow, encourage them every day, not just once in a while when you’re horny.

This one isn’t a specific quote, but eating goals that are unclear or unrealistic. “Mmm, keep eating. Yup. Keep going.” Okay. To what end? “You’re going to eat three extra large pizzas” no, I’m not. “How about 5,000 calories for a light snack?” You’re out of your fucking mind. It sends such a clear message that you have no clue what you’re doing when you interact with feedees like this.

“I want you to eat so much that your belly button goes from an innie to an outie”

Nope. Not even close to a thing that happens. If it does, you probably have a hernia. Or you have some other condition that has caused fluid buildup.

“Wow, you’re almost 300lbs? You’re gonna need a scooter once you get there”

What? I’m less than 25lbs away from 300 and I walked MILES in downtown, hilly Seattle last weekend. There are literally 500lb gainers who are walking (waddling) around with relatively few troubles. Please understand that when a gain happens gradually, mobility is far less impacted than in extremely quick gains. Also, I’m six feet tall. I can seriously pass for an average build in public if I want to. Please work on understanding how weight works on people.

This isn’t to call out any specific person. It’s just so important that feedees feel seen, safe, and comfortable. Otherwise… we’re not having fun. And when you severely misestimate our capacity, mobility, or general human body operations, it’s concerning. It’s clear you don’t interact much with feedees, and it’s a huge red flag.

[garden-hose-obesity]

Relevant tags from @vampiricgut

[cuntylestat]

i desperately need a situation where i can use this clip

[stevita]

Soft feedism suggestion: cuddle your feedee and tell them about all the things you love about their body. Touch them where they like to be touched (if you’re not sure, ask!) and let them know how absolutely mesmerized they make you.

[lowpawly]

people foolishly dismiss desserts and treats as having no nutritional value when they actually are necessary for refilling your sanity stat. to prove my point please observe the emotional stability of the next person you meet who doesnt let themselves ever eat any form of dessert

[fatyote]

And baby, I’m a romantic 🤤

[gilescorey666]

I love when people are fat on purpose for pleasure it’s so cool

[fatyote]

Reminder that if you’re jacking it to trans folks, you better be fucking fighting for our rights and existence too.

Just parroting “Trans Rights” online isn’t enough, and never has been.

Happy Pride.

[vamptits]

it's just really apparent that people think it's okay to want pain but morally abhorrent to want to give it. sorry but the sadist gets to have fun too. it's actually pretty crucial to the process.

[bellypovs2]

Chairs buckling, bed frames groaning, the floorboards creaking underneath you... not to mention your belly slapping your thighs as you waddle about...

it's like you have your own built-in soundtrack 😉

[hedonists-den]

Maybe you should chain me up in the kitchen so that I can't do anything but cook and bake for you all day every day, fulfilling your every craving on demand until you triple in size.

I mean.... I'm doing fine. How about you?

[sillysoftie]

me spraying “extreme feeders” who have never done a single thing for a disabled person once in their life ever: