I’ve been following along with this blog for a while now but I haven’t said anything until now. I used to be a Ted fan and followed along with what was going on in the fandom until recently. I followed the three girls who were blocked and that is how I found this blog. I don’t want to get cause any new drama but I do want to play devil's advocate here because I think there are things worth mentioning.
I agree with this blog that blookitty is no longer worth bringing up because she was obvious about the things she did that were a problem and the screenshots you have shared prove that. She had main character syndrome and did a lot of things that made a lot of people uncomfortable.
Lactea is someone I thought was a talented artist who did a good job drawing Ted’s characters and other characters. I never bought artwork from her but I could appreciate her talent. I don’t know the full story behind her connection to Ted but I do know he did follow her and liked and commented on her art on Instagram sometimes. From what I saw at the time, it did seem like he did like her artwork and found it flattering. I do think the screenshots from this blog show that there was more going on than anyone else may have thought or noticed. I don’t know though because I never participated much in the fandom before I left.
My reason for playing devil's advocate comes from dragan. I know this might not be what anyone wants to hear but I think she ended up being taken advantage of and was more or less in the wrong place at the wrong time if that makes sense. I was in the fandom before she came along but I followed her when she started posting her gifs. I thought she seemed nice and just wanted to be friends with other people in the fandom but I think she was taken in my blookitty and lactea because she was new and didn’t know all of the things they had been doing before she came along. I think she saw them as fans who could be friends and let them take advantage of her. I could be wrong because maybe she did do something none of us know about but from what I saw when I was following all three of them, she seemed like she only wanted to share her gifs and her fan fiction and whatever stories she picked up at cons with other fans and be friends with them. I didn’t see her as someone who was manipulating other fans like the other two did.
There are fans who meet celebrities more than one time. I don’t think what dragan was doing at cons by meeting Ted multiple times was anything different. I never went to a con and only have her posts to go by but it did seem like she didn’t go to cons only for Ted. I do think maybe she did let herself get swayed by lactea and blookitty and did go to see Ted at cons more than other fans do because of them. If fans are supposed to get stuff signed to meet a celebrity at their table then that could also explain why she has so many autographs and a wall of them. I don’t know and could be wrong and I’m not trying to defend her but seeing the screenshots you have shared about blookitty and lactea and comparing them to the screenshots you have about dragan seems like they were the problem and used her because of her ability to travel to cons and meet Ted multiple times. I can’t remember ever seeing a post dragan made that came across as manipulative. I do remember hearing that blookitty would tell other fans what gifts to bring Ted or where he was seen at events and try to dictate to other fans but I never saw any of that from dragan. I don’t think she ever asked anyone to contact Ted on her behalf which seems to be something both blookitty and lactea have done. I’m not saying she couldn’t have done that but based on everything I have seen in the past, it doesn’t seem like dragan was the manipulative one and the other two were using her and manipulating her and she didn’t see it or want to believe it.
The screenshot that shows the self insert artwork she had done is something a lot of fans do. I don’t think her self insert artwork is as big of a problem as it's being made out to be. None of it is really inappropriate. The priest artwork is suggestive but I have seen a lot worse in other fandoms and lactea used to draw a lot worse for herself and others. I’m not saying its not weird to have a lot of artwork of different characters an actor has played but it is common in a lot of fandoms.
The screenshots of the meltdown to me seem like sadness and hurt and lashing out because of that rather than an actual meltdown. They show sarcasm and self deprecation but that looks like a defense mechanism to me. I understand feeling hurt and taken advantage of can cause anger and saying things in the moment but I personally don’t see this as an actual meltdown. Which brings me to my next point about the horror movie posts and the axe throwing post.
A lot of horror movies have themes of revenge. That seems to be the point of horror movies. Revenge for something. Posting about horror movies or liking movies that do have a revenge theme doesn't seem like a big deal. There are worse things on Tumblr that I have seen. The timing of her posts was around Halloween and could have just been her trying to do something different to move away from anything to do with Ted. I think trying to claim those posts had more meaning or some sort of violent rhetoric is a bit of a stretch. I followed dragan for almost two years and never saw any indication that she was a violent person even when she was posting about horror movies Ted was in. The axe throwing post could have just been a throwaway comment while in a bad mood. I do remember seeing dragan talking about having an ex husband who was abusive before and her mom being a bad person so while the timing of the post could be tied back to Ted, it could also be talking about someone else. There is a rage room in the city where I live and I know people who use it for stress relief rather than violence. I would assume an axe throwing place is similar. There is also no proof that I could find that dragan has ever gone to the axe place and only posted about it one time. A lot of media also likes to portray people throwing darts at other people’s faces on a dartboard for different reasons in movies and tv shows and no one seems to find that violent.
What I’m trying to say is that while none of us know why those three girls were blocked and maybe they did do something that deserved it, there could also be a defense for dragan based on the posts I’ve seen on her blog in the past and only the few screenshots that are linked. I could be wrong and I admit that I’m not trying to defend every single thing she has done but from my perspective it does seem like she was manipulated rather than the one doing the manipulating. She was new to the fandom and was taken advantage of by the other two and maybe that made her feel like she had friends and ignored their problem behavior.
I’m not an expert in behavior or fandom politics but I do think that from what I have seen in the screenshots and the posts on this blog and what I have seen on the blogs of the other three girls that dragan was the least likely to have done something terrible. I do think it's possible her friendship with the other two could have been part of it.
I also think that trying to reach out to her and talk to her like a real person with real feelings instead of treating her like a villain in a story we don’t have all the facts for might help. I could be wrong but if she’s given a chance to tell her story without being harassed or treated like a criminal, it might make her more willing to share what happened if she knows anything. I could say the same about blookitty and lactea but it seems like blookitty has moved on and probably won’t talk about anything related to Ted and lactea seems unwilling as well. Dragan might not tell us anything either but I think she might be the most likely to say something if she doesn’t feel like her words will be turned into some villain origin story. I always thought she was nice and think she deserves a chance to be heard even though I don't know if she'll tell us anything or if she's even still active on Tumblr.
Hi anon,
I’m going to treat this like this is a serious anon but I know a lot of people might be tempted to quickly answer that this is DraganWHorror herself writing. I can definitely sense that you feel she got an unfair shakedown and you’re concerned for her so I’m going to explain the parts of the blog you likely missed and that I haven’t had time to add to the master list.
*I understand concerns, but please understand: Jasmine knows what she did is wrong and she is still choosing to continue to do it. Same for the others.*
First of all, it’s important to know that there are hundreds of screenshots I’ve been sent of proof that all three of these women have engaged in heinous behavior. The reason they aren’t posted is the same reason that this blog is the first one in the fandom to call them out. Fans are afraid of these girls. They’re afraid of being targeted, of being doxxed and of having them send their fake accounts and friends after them. If you don’t believe me, several of them have expressed that anonymously on this blog. So there are things I don’t share, including things that were made publicly available, that compromise the safety of other people. So I can only ask that you go based on the things that I CAN share. You don’t have to consider this as proof of anything, all I ask is that you keep in mind that there is a whole lot more than what has been shared on this blog and I’m trying to illustrate the scope of it safely.
Second: several things you’re pointing out were brought up as part of establishing a pattern of behavior or as receipts for things that were said prior. Getting self inserts aren’t necessarily weird on their own- but when you consider how many of them she commissioned of herself kissing or hanging on all of his characters (not just one) and take it with the context that he blocked her account (on which she posted a number of those) it’s an important thing to document. Especially since she deleted all of the proof on tumblr. Dragan is better at trying to cover her tracks than the others, but her tracks were still there. She can’t just erase them and act like her inappropriate behavior never happened. And a lot of posts were made to illustrate that saying “Ted blocked her for no reason” was more than a little bit of a stretch. They were establishing that she had a long history of doing things in a publicly visible way that illustrated a fixation- and more importantly I posted them because after things went south at Chicago Days of the Dead she deleted all of that proof (before I even called her out for it)
I waited quite a while to lay out what DraganWHorror had done as well as the lies she told for several reason. One being that exposing all of her lies could put a minor at risk and one being concerns for her mental health.
To address your concerns: The reason nobody reaches out to them one on one is because people already DID that. Lactea and Dragan both told lies and conflicting stories. That is largely how this blog got its following, because they very publicly lied and were caught in those lies. That’s also why they deleted all proof of that very rapidly. Those screenshots of her meltdown for instance, were receipts proving that not only did she seem to feel like Ted being polite meant something more than it did, but that rather than accepting that her behavior may have made him uncomfortable (which is the healthy thing to do) she immediately stated to speculate on an outside force being to blame to justify her behavior. Both of those things are major red flags, regardless of whether or not they come from a place of hurt. They show that she felt entitled to his time and his kindness but then took that kindness as proof that she was special. And when faced with consequences of her own actions she didn’t even consider she may have done something wrong that made someone uncomfortable, she created a conspiracy theory to explain his discomfort.
Receipts for the Meltdown
Thar conspiracy theory was something she repeated multiple times as she was suddenly focusing her horror movie reviews on films that Ted had done, his brother had done or films with revenge themes. And right in the middle of it she mentions how she would love to throw an ax at a picture of someone’s face. Again, when you consider this was happening at the same time, she was posting pictures of the outfits she would wear to Chicago, how much weight she lost, her new blonde hair (despite repeatedly insulting blondes prior to discovering Ted’s girlfriend was a blonde), her copying the public social media posts of his girlfriend, (I won’t be posting anything that can lead any fans to her, sorry. They deserve to be happy and unbothered and these girls have been stalking them enough. So I understand if you want to take that with a grain of salt), her making a fanfiction where Laura leaves max and shows up at Travis’s door only to find him with a ‘slightly older blonde’ and then killing herself shortly after Ted mentions having a girlfriend, her making a public post about using her connections to help her friends get what they want since she won’t ever get it (and then suddenly volunteering at more conventions despite only ever volunteering at Steel City Con before then but only after she hung around a convention bar and presented herself as Steel City Convention staff to Ted’s agent to get privileged information), and her meltdown posts about an evil entity controlling him and indicating it may be “someone close to him”…. That all paints a very important picture you have to look at in context.
Im going to take a moment here to say the single most important thing about this: nobody gets to decide whether behavior makes Ted or any other actor uncomfortable except the actor themselves.
It doesn’t matter if you think it’s normal, if I think it’s normal, if someone did make her do it, if the fan thinks it’s normal or didn’t mean it the way it was taken. What matters is that whatever he saw of her behavior, it was enough to make him feel uncomfortable enough that he blocked her and that should always have been respected.
The fact is that when you look at her behaviors, they match up with textbook parasocial obsession and erotomania. And that she knows that and that’s why she’s deleting the evidence. Reposting those screenshots is documentation of -what- she is deleting because she knows it makes it clear that she’s obsessed. It’s equally important to not only show that she did those things but that she felt she had done enough wrong with them that she needed to hide them. And quite frankly, I have to post the receipts because I don’t want a single person to sit here and watch me claim “she had a wall of Ted” and just take my word for it. I want them to have proof that she not only has it but has posted it publicly. So those “normal fan things” might be normal if she hadn’t behaved the way that she did. But all of them together, combined with the fact that the actor blocked her and doesn’t seem to want her around in person, is a very important context to understand the story and how she manipulated people.
Screenshots of her Self Inserts and Wall of Ted
Early on I was asked how to spot a manipulator and this is what I said.
Now you’re concerned she fell under the influence of BlooKitty and Lacteaway. I totally understand that concern and at first I thought the same thing. She behaved inappropriately prior to being blocked, but I definitely factored in that they were a big influence on her. However we have to remember that Dragan is a 41 year old woman and can absolutely make decisions for herself. This isn’t a case where she showed up with bourbon to a convention because Blookitty told her to, she went on to cross boundaries, make the actor uncomfortable and manipulate other fans in the exact same way that you are worried she may have been manipulated.
Here’s some proof since you didn’t see it. She was also regularly spotted on other people’s posts about Ted correcting them, guiding them on what to do, informing them of what conventions he’d be at and when, and presenting herself as an authority on Ted information.
Which may have been fine except that the information she gave them and the way she mislead them hurt these other fans. The most obvious instance of this being one of the fans she went to the Chicago Days of the Dead convention with. This fan was excited to go to the event for months and posted a couple nice photos and then deleted them all, hid her blog and vanished for a long time. Whatever may have happened that’s -not- normal fan behavior.
Just a reminder: if you know which fan this is please don’t mention it. Leave her alone. It was pretty clear to everyone that she was manipulated and didn’t have a great time and she deserves her privacy. That’s exactly why I don’t mention this more often.
Quickly regarding the other conventions she’s goes to:
Here she is admitting she is seeking out conventions that Ted is going to.
I do agree with you. Her friendship with the other two is a big part of it. However her behavior on its own was harmful even without their influence, it continued to be so even after she seemingly fell out with BlooKitty and the fact that she went out and deleted all of the posts demonstrates that she already knew that and tried to hide it. And even then: she’s still responsible for her own actions.
What makes her so manipulative and what has caused other anons to say they worry she may be more dangerous than the other girls, largely boils down to the fact that once it was clear they weren’t wanted around… at least the other two stopped. Lacteaway may still post Travis drawings or art from his brothers films, but so far she hasn’t tried to be involved with anyone else in his circle. Or tried to spin it that she was welcome. Dragan didn’t stop. 
Yeah, she was going to conventions and volunteering at a convention prior to meeting Ted, but a lot of people noticed that she didn’t switch her focus to being an assistant at the table or volunteering at other horror conventions until after she gained what she felt with special access through talking to his agent in Michigan. After that Michigan convention she made a long blog post about using her connections to help her friends get what they want. And sure that could be their influence- but even now after it’s been made clear that they are unwelcome she is still trying to work and establish herself at conventions that Ted could be going to. She’s trying to work with his friends and assert how welcome she is there. And that’s her choice to not take no for an answer and it feels deliberate and VERY manipulative to a lot of people. Imagine how it would feel if you were Ted and you went to a convention and your table assistant was a woman you blocked and who was unwelcome at your table at a previous convention?
She’s also manipulative because she has targeted new fans and lied to them. She’s harmed them for her gain, not Bloo’s and not Lacteas. Every single step of the way, she shows that her only concern is what she wants. She didn’t need to lose weight or dye her hair blonde for Bloo or Lactea. (I could almost believe it was for herself if she hadn’t posted multiple times talking about how much she hates blondes and then never brought up again after she dyed her hair). Even if she’s hurt; when good people are hurt they are also concerned for whether the other person is hurt or not. They care if they hurt someone else. She has never shown she cared about anything but protecting her own narrative. And she’s been caught in ridiculous lies while attempting to do it.
Chicago: Days of the Dead summary/Why people don’t talk to her one-on-one:
Regarding why people don’t talk to her one-on-one. Here is a summary (in chronological order) of what she did leading up to and after Chicago Days of the Dead. Prior to this I mentioned that one of the biggest signs of a manipulator is deleting evidence online and controlling information (such as asking people to message you privately for your side of the story or to come off anonymous to do it. Despite fans having already mentioned on this blog they were afraid to come off anonymous). If you were innocent, you wouldn’t need to delete or hide things and you would say it and prove it publicly. You wouldn’t lie and control information by only saying it privately or screening whichever DMs you wanted to answer.
- was blocked by Ted along with Lacteaway and Blookitty (not sure if anyone else was blocked)
-Lacteaway decided to confront him in Manchester over it. Made a post that indicated he was visibly distressed at seeing her. Making this very clear to everyone that Ted himself had blocked people and it was intentional. (This is when I created this blog to call them out)
- broadcast for months that she was going to Chicago Days of the Dead, and had almost planned on going to a Las Vegas one as well that Ted was booked at. Even playing outfits and photos she intended for Ted to sign. (Multiple fans expressed concerns here)
- maintained her persona of being the tumblr and IG ted expert guiding fans on the fandom, correcting them and advising them
- broadcast she intended to go with another fan who was clearly very excited about going.
- posted photos sightseeing around Chicago on her Public (at the time) IG.
- the con starts and suddenly she goes radio silent. IG is still public. This is strange because she almost always posted regular updates while she was at a convention and had been updating registry to show off the Chicago sights and the days leading up to the trip.
- the other fan she was with posted some happy convention posts but then deleted them.
- my blog is flooded with anonymous messages. Clearly fans are watching.
- on the final day of the convention she made her IG private.
- made a post claiming she had absolutely nothing to hide but set her asks so they no longer allowed anyone anonymous and started rapidly deleting posts in her tumblr.
- One person did:
“And for the record, I never posted on Tumblr about going to Chicago, so someone knowing I was there is a bit suspicious. Unless they were lurking or spying on my Instagram page, of course, which is private.”
1. Her IG was public up until halfway through the weekend so everyone saw it
2. She did post about it on tumblr in multiple places. Here is an example.
- she answered this fan publicly but switched to DMs to give them specific information and the fan felt it was very strange.
- These lies were so obvious that my inbox was flooded within minutes of people saying that that it was never private until that weekend and mentioning that she was mass deleting posting on her page.
- she turned messages off on her tumblr and quietly continued deleting old posts.
- weeks later she posted photos of her “convention haul” (typically she posts these while the convention is still happening or immediately after) and it contained two photos signed, hurriedly by Ted. No photos with Ted (she always had pro and table selfies with him at every other convention). And neither of the photos were the one she posted previously that she had intended for him to sign.
- multiple anons pointed out how strange this all was given her usual behavior and bragging. And how obvious the lies were. And why would an innocent person who is nothing but nice and who would never violate his boundaries need to lie and delete things?
- then someone came forward who has been at the convention and mentioned that they had seen that she was clearly not welcome at Ted’s table that weekend.
- after this she was called out by anons or obsessively reposting things with his brother in it and that switching her attention to his brother or people in his circle was alarming. (Relevant because his brother had just been announced alongside him at another convention)
- she started reposting more things that were not Ted related and claiming to just be a horror fan. Also bragging about her follower count and continuing to lie.
- then resumed bragging about conventions she works and volunteers at. Always mentioning how the celebrities trusted her and loved her and wanted her around.
- posted bragging about how excited she was a month in advance of a convention to be working with a specific actress (note: conventions don’t give you assignments in advance typically unless you ask for specific people so this is sus)
- turns out the actress was Ted’s co-worker Dana and she posted a long thing bragging about how wonderful Dana is and how she got to spend the whole weekend beside her and how Dana claimed she wanted her to assist at all future conventions.
- my inbox blew up with people concerned that she was targeting people in Ted’s life to stay close to him and asking what could be done. I advised to let Ted’s reps handle it
- someone named ‘Jack’ who claimed to be a convention volunteer at a number of the events she went to and seemed to have knowledge anout Chicago (and I’ve looked into it. He is not someone I’ve spoken with and I have no reason to believe that he knows of this blog and made claims) made a Facebook and Instagram account specifically with photos of her with Dana on it, calling her out for using her ‘convention volunteer status’ to try to gain access to people in Ted Circle after behaving inappropriately and Chicago. He claimed that “there was an incident at Ted’s table, and she refused to take no for an answer.” So this seems to be further proof that there was an incident in Chicago that is being hidden. It sounds like she was told no and would accept that.
I believe that sums up what we know so far. And I’ll be editing this to add links to some relevant threads.
There is importance in recognizing that yea, surrounding herself with other people who were lying and self-interested probably didn’t help. People like that flock together in an echo chamber in fandoms, especially after others start to call them out. However a 41 year old woman should know better and has to be held accountable for her own actions. Especially when her lying and obfuscating is clearly showing that she knows she did wrong while she aggressively tries to play the victim to maintain friends.
The lesson here is: manipulators are nice and that’s how they get away with manipulation. Otherwise they’d just be assholes and those are easier to spot. Hopefully people who were taken in by all of this learn to spot the warning signs in advance. I hope that helps to explain why her behavior can’t be explained away by the influence of other people, anon. I’m not here to demand people beleive me, you can make up your own mind. However to date she still not apologized or taken accountability or even acknowledged her behavior could have been harmful in any way. Neither have the others. That’s all the proof that I need that they are not remorseful in the slightest.
I really hope that anyone reading this walks away with the understanding that this isn’t an innocent person who doesn’t know that what they’re doing is wrong. This is someone who is demonstrating that they not only know that what they’re doing is wrong, but that they’ve tried to hide it so that they can maintain the illusion that they’re just an innocent victim. And they aren’t sorry about it, they aren’t taking responsibility and they’re still doing it- they’re just trying to be less obvious about it and are hoping we don’t notice so they can keep doing it.
I’m making an effort to organize all the important links so that anyone who is new can catch up without having to scroll the whole blog. If there are any other posts I’ve made that you feel need to be linked here, let me know and I’ll add them.
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📱indicates posts that contain screenshots of their own words.
BlooKitty
📱LACTEAWAY and BLOOKITTY summary
What happened to get them blocked by Ted Raimi. If anyone is wondering why I don’t bring BlooKitty up much, it isn’t because what she did wasn’t bad. It’s that she told on herself so blatantly that I haven’t had to revisit it after this post.
Lacteaway
Lacteaway Medical Crisis Fraud
(screenshots and detailed explanation documenting Lacteaway’s false claims around her mom’s surgery in an effort to raise money to fly to another country to confront the actor who blocked her)
📱PART 1
📱PART 2
📱PART 3
DraganWHorror
How to Spot a Manipulator
How to spot someone who is manipulating the facts and hiding their obsession when they otherwise see really nice
📱Screenshots of Meltdown after Being Blocked by Ted
Here’s is the documentation of her inappropriate meltdown after being blocked including suggestions that there was a conspiracy and someone forced him to do this.
📱Screenshots of IG posts focused on Revenge after being Blocked
After deciding that there must be a conspiracy and that was why Ted blocked all of them, she started doing film reviews for the first time on her IG with some posts very focused on revenge. And a post mentioning she’d like to throw an axe at ‘someone’s’ face.
📱Screenshots of Various Self-Insert Fanart and her “wall of Ted”
Further documentation of her general obsession with Ted.
Related Problematic Accounts/Post
📱Screenshots of Carnie promoting the Conspiracy
Here are screenshots of a-carnie-and-a-cop, frequent visitor of these girls pages and generally problematic person, harassing others and Ted with the delusional idea that an evil entity made him unfollow people who behaved inappropriately. This delusion is how the girls justified confronting Ted to multiple parties after he drew a boundary.
Alicestrange
Alice is a “fan” across multiple fandoms who is known for making multiple fake accounts and data mining discord servers. She seeks out personal information and addresses of actors and fans alike so if you spot her in your fandom, beware. Most fans held back on coming forward because Alice associated with Ted’s three primary stalkers and they feared being Doxxed.
Physics teaches us that if a moving object is getting hot, there must be friction. Which means the wheel/tire is grinding up against something.
Basically anyone, especially a mechanic, is going to be able to figure this out.
Here are some possible explanations:
1. Your brake caliper is possibly seized or slipping. Lazy mechanics will replace the brake pads but it’s likely the caliper itself that is the problem.
If this is the case, the mechanic (who has presumably seen a brake system before) would notice that even when the brakes are not applied, the brake sticks to the wheel as if it is applied. So it’s pretty hard to miss. They need to replace the piston or slide pins.
2) you could have a collapsed brake hose. This would cause an issue where the brake remained engaged, even when your foot was not on the brake pedal. Which, again, would be pretty easy to notice. Externally the hose would look fine- but presumably they would see that it was not disengaging and would not give you back the car claiming it was fixed.
3. Parking brake could be stuck or misaligned. Also pretty easy to see.
I’m so glad your mom has been able to afford hundreds of dollars in car repairs. Especially given you have to help her with her work because she’s unable to do it after her confusing and conveniently timed surgery that definitely wasn’t totally made up.
I do find it a bit hard to believe that multiple mechanics would try to fix this and give it back to you as if they had resolved the issue without testing the car, refunding your money or giving you any useful information on what they had fixed that you could share. Usually they tell you what you’re paying for when you exchange money for goods and services.
The above potential sources are the most likely scenario and there’s not very many things that would cause your rear wheel to smoke.
Good luck with today’s exaggerated or entirely made up crisis.
Also if you mom had such as serious surgery on her spine and was at risk of losing mobility in his legs or use of her legs at all… she shouldn’t be driving already. Let alone working.
Yet a stranger on the internet told you exactly what it was despite being half a world away and not seeing the car. Sure.
Let me explain why it’s obvious she is lying.
If the handbrake was stuck in a way that they could fix without taking it to a new mechanic that meant BOTH REAR WHEELS would be smoking. Otherwise a repair to fix the one side would be necessary. And as mentioned (and as she’s trying to hide here to look like she isn’t lying) a mechanic would have noticed a handbrake sticking while running the tires. It’s one of the first things any mechanic checks while looking into something like that?
Don’t believe me? I called three of them and described the problem. They all suggested the handbrake first. You’ll notice she gave no details on how it was fixed or how it was stuck? Once against just vague enough nobody would question it.
Estonia is not a third world country and no longer a part of the Soviet Union. They are technologically advanced. Multiple mechanics didn’t “miss” the fact that one back wheel wasn’t properly turning.
This is like saying a dentist didn’t notice a gaping hole in your front tooth, still charged you, and multiple subsequent dentists missed it too.
In conclusion: this little girl is a pathological liar and she does it for sympathy and almost always with some claim about how expensive the thing is (without actually giving a number on how much it costs) and usually, not long after she’s posted a new piece she’s hoping you’ll commission her on or when someone calls her out. She’s always hoping the guilt and pulling at your emotions will get you to purchase her art or ignore the fact that someone is pointing out obvious lies.
This artist scams the community into giving her sympathy and buying her art. She’s used obvious medical fraud to do so in the past (as I’ve been detailing). Think twice before commissioning her and please consider other, more ethical artists.
Thank you for joining me on this experiment to prove my point and please stay safe.
This will be a long series of posts containing receipts related to Lacteaway so stay with me if that’s what you’re looking for.
This will be several parts long and I will post links as I get each part up.
I’ve mentioned that Lacteaway had seemingly manufactured a medical crisis to drive up commissions and donations in the past. She did this multiple times over the years, however the primary example I have brought up to demonstrate this is that she lied about her mother having a serious medical condition and needing surgery that could only be given out of country. Then, after constant complaints relating to this and sympathy stories about having to pay for funerals for other people and her own dental pain- she suddenly had enough to fly to Manchester and confront an actor after he blocked her. Thus overstepping his very clear boundary.
Lacteaway deleted all evidence of this very quickly once it was called out that none of this made sense so receipts are hard to come by. Luckily, I have almost all of them. I have put off making this post primarily because I’ve been busy and there is just SO MUCH. I am likely missing a few as well and had to dig all of this up and organize it, so forgive me on being late with this.
With all the lying and obfuscating going around, I prefer to show you guys the receipts than to just tell you a recap of things that happened. Especially since these girls all started deleting their posts once they were called into question. So I think it’s important to have all of those available screenshots in one place especially in the event that they resurface or try to repeat these behaviors in the future.
I will provide some context and commentary pointing out anachronisms or discussing websites that refute her claims. If you don’t want to read all of that, you can skip over it. However, I am, including all of this for the sake of being able to demonstrate to you why it doesn’t make sense. I will not only show you where her own posts contradict her words, but I’ll be sharing some information with you relating to spinal surgery consultation and other related things. So expect some sass.
To be clear: many of you are wonderful people who got taken for a ride by a manipulative person who wanted to pull attention away from the fact that her inappropriate behavior got her blocked and maybe raise some money in the process. I don’t blame any of you who may have fallen for this. So please don’t take the tone of this post as making fun of anyone who just wanted to make sure that someone was okay. My commentary and context on this is purely to illustrate how she formed these lies and where you can tell that they were lies in case you ever run across something like this in the future.
Manipulative people like to give you vague information in short bursts, hoping that you won’t compare it to previous information they have given to see the inconsistencies. They hit you with sob stories and posts about how emotionally distraught they are and making things sound dire without any real timeline or concrete amount of money that they need. This is how she did it. And yes, she did this in the past as well to drive up her commissions when business was low or to try to make people feel guilty.
She’s still doing it now, but hoping that you don’t notice how somehow it’s her mom’s fault that she has to have a job that pays considerably less per hour than she makes on commissions.
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Ted came back to IG on August 4th 2025 after a long time away. 3 fans had meltdowns on social media about being suddenly blocked. (DraganWHorror, Blookitty and Lacteaway). In previous blogs I’ve mentioned their inappropriate behavior that may have lead to this and documented it with additional receipts).
These are from August 5th after she was silent August 4th. This is the order they were posted in.
I want to draw your attention to the last two images. In which mom is having “massive health issues” that “aren’t intense”. And then in the hashtags she says “she is close to losing her legs” “her spine is giving up on her” “needs a surgery in another country” and “we do not perform such surgeries here”.
Estonia has solidary health insurance system. Solidarity in health insurance means that someone's health insurance payments or contribution
European Health Insurance Card: Medical contacts and costs in Estonia
Fact check: Given her history of medical and dental issues for both herself and her mother (she had done a lot of posts to increase her commissions to cover dental work) here is some additional info on insurance in her country. 95% of Estonians have coverage through the state and obtaining affordable insurance if you’re not eligible is fairly easy. That insurance covers a significant portion of all medical and dental needs.
Surely more than enough to cover her physical and dental woes.
As for the claim that they “don’t do such surgeries here” she doesn’t quite say what the surgery is that’s needed or indicate that she even knows. She seems to “know” that her mom is close to “losing her legs” and that it may cost hundreds of euros. But if she says they don’t do “such surgeries” there and has a ballpark estimate and knowledge that they would need to go to another country to do it, they must already know all the details?
The aim of the Centre of Spinal Surgery is to ensure high-quality treatment for patients with diseases of the spine. We are the only centre
Either way it sounds like a spinal surgery so… good thing they have a center specializing in exactly that in her city. That would mean she was covered by their very good National Health insurance (like her dental problems and ulcers must be)
Anyways, on to August 6th.
Here’s the big post most people saw and that got shared on tumblr and Instagram.
The estimated costs has gone from “hundreds” of euros to 1k+.
NOTE: there is no indication that they have spoken to a medical professional recently let alone in the last day that would indicate a reason why the cost has gone up. So presumably these expenses were known to them prior to this, and at the very least could have been factored in to the cost the day before. You’ll see why this is important in Part 2.
So mom went to an an undisclosed country “recently” and had to go to the ER. This doesn’t sound like it just happened this day or even this week. It seems like this is something that has been going on for a little while but has just not been brought up until the day after she’s blocked by an actor she had admitted to behaving inappropriately with.
There is no time frame given for this trip but obviously she had to pay for it and insurance didn’t cover it. Clearly the trip wasn’t to the US or it would financially impossible.
The ER showed “her spine has a tumor that is slowly breaking it”, her “spinal cord is on the verge of collapsing”. She can just wake up “and lose her legs”. Safe to say that her statement that it was “nothing intense” is seeming more and more confusing by the moment. That sounds pretty intense. Super weird that she didn’t need to fundraise for this uninsured ER visit in another country her mom just happened to be visiting (did she walk there? I assume she paid to travel somehow)
This girl overshares every personal thought and detail of her families life. Especially if it costs her money or gets her sympathy. It was just a little strange to me that if her mom went on some trip and found out she may shatter her spinal column over night that this is the first we are hearing about it? Clearly, she’s had time to get back home and see doctors there if she knows they can’t do this surgery.
In addition if she knows how long her rehabilitation may take than it sounds like she’s already had her surgical consultation. That is where you get your treatment plan and rehabilitation estimates as well as the estimated costs incurred if any. Which would make sense because the surgery sounds like an emergency. But if it’s an emergency, why did she travel home, how long has it been since they discovered this and why is it suddenly a big deal right now? She sure did make it sound like this was an emergency but everything else shes said seems to indicate there was no rush until RIGHT NOW despite knowing about this for a while. So is it an emergency or isn’t it?
Also: rehabilitation for having a tumor removed from your spine takes between one week and one year depending on the severity of the surgery. If the tumor is in a position where it may shatter your spine and you lose your legs overnight that seems like it would be on the serious side as far as surgeries go, especially if the spinal clinic in her city can’t do it. So a 2 week estimate is wild.
Among all her retweets and posts about her commission process, she finally seems to address the source of her distress in a roundabout way.
(For those that haven’t see the posts from the other girls, the people who were blocked started to speculate that there was a conspiracy and some “evil entity” that forced the actor to block them. So she’s saying she doesn’t think it’s that.)
However she claims she’s already raised 2k. Double what she estimated the day before.
But … the consultation with the surgeon is tomorrow? So what information have they gotten and who did they talk to in the last 24-48 hours that explains the sudden increase in the amount she’s hoping to fundraise? Why not wait 24 hours to give the final total?
Isn’t this surgery in another country? Maybe they’re doing this (consultation for risky spinal surgery) over zoom? I’ve actually had a consultation for a minor spinal surgery before. For even a minor surgery, the doctors want to see you in person but maybe this is a special exception that defies all known medical procedures.
NOTE: For anyone who has been lucky enough to not have surgery it’s important to mentioned that the consultation for surgery is where they review your imaging, examine you, come up with and inform you of your treatment plan. This is 100% where you find out if you will need to be in rehabilitation and for how long. Not at any time before then- this is the appointment. If the consultation is too far out from your surgery (for some reason), there will be another appointment even closer to the surgery date depending on what they are operating on. A situation that could change at any moment means the consult will be as close to the date as possible. The length of your surgery as well as recovery time depends on what is going on in your body at that time. If you have a metastatic tumor for instance or an unstable bone tumor, the situation can change drastically in a very short amount of time and even then, there could be complications during the surgery itself that they can’t account for. So there is no world in which they give you an estimated rehabilitation time or amount prior to a consult.
Your surgical team are the only people who can give you an estimate on this because they are the ones that are performing the actions that will place you in rehab. No one else can estimate your costs or recovery time or consult on your treatment plan- especially not before your consult. Not to mention that a surgery like this would likely require lots of additional testing in the days immediately before the surgery. Yet somehow they knew before getting their surgery consultation how long she may need to be in rehab for. (See previous post) They also felt confident enough to make several climbing estimates on how much this surgery (that isn’t even scheduled) would cost and to ask for specific amounts to cover it.
And I cannot stress this enough: if you know that the specialists in your own country can’t do the surgery- you must have already known exactly what the surgery would be. So what exactly was the surgery consult for? That must have already happened if you know it can’t be done in your country.
August 8th 2025
……. Uh…..
“She needs to buy and use a bunch of medications and injections”. Well that sounds professional. Is that what they wrote on the prescription? Can you just go to a chemist/pharmacy in Estonia and pick up random INJECTIONS to use on yourself?
Wait…..
“TURNED OUT THE TUMOR ALSO POPPED INSIDE AND FLOODED THE IN-BETWEENS OF HER SPINE , WHICH CAUSED INFLAMMATION”
According to the National Cancer Institute:
tumor
(TOO-mer)
An abnormal mass of tissue that forms when cells grow and divide more than they should or do not die when they should. Tumors may be benign (not cancer) or malignant (cancer). Benign tumors may grow large but do not spread into, or invade, nearby tissues or other parts of the body. Malignant tumors can spread into, or invade, nearby tissues. They can also spread to other parts of the body through the blood and lymph systems. Also called neoplasm.
Tumors are growths of cells, not sacks of fluid. They don’t just “pop” and “flood your spine”. A tumor is a very specific thing. This tumor is so serious that one wrong move while sleeping could “shatter” her spinal column. So how could something dense enough to shatter part of your body just pop? Why didn’t they just pop it sooner? Surely healthcare in Estonia could have deduced that this was the easiest solution.
Is this your doctor?
I feel like this is your doctor.
Let’s address this part next: Her leg is losing mobility and that’s the priority.
Why is her leg losing mobility? You claimed the threat to her mobility/legs was the tumor that could shatter her spine.
Good news: the tumor that was the source of that threat has ‘popped’ at some point in the recent past. So why is her leg losing mobility in a way that’s irreversible if the only thing left is inflammation.
1) now that the tumor is gone the surgery can happen in your home country, in the spinal surgery center in your city, and be covered by your amazing medical insurance. Since the tumor itself is what made this surgery risky in the first place, you won’t need even a fraction of that 2k you supposedly raised. This changes the entire nature of the procedures needed, so clearly you can just go to your local specialists.
2) if she’s losing mobility why didn’t you notice that yesterday and how did this doctor in another country that is assessing her over a tele-health meeting notice that she’s losing mobility in her leg. That is something that you find out at an in-person exam through a series of tests.
For anyone who hasn’t received a consult for spinal surgery due to chronic pain and inflammation let me give you some additional knowledge: they treat that with injections of steroids into your spinal canal. They’re very uncomfortable. They may also give you oral steroids but even the US doesn’t give you massive amounts of pain killers and it’s only in extreme circumstances they even consider a surgery.
These injections or nerve blocks last for around a couple of months give or take and then you have to get another one. I have pictures of the needle in my spine from my treatment. It’s fairly easy. You walk out of the doctors office on your own power. It’s no big deal. Inflammation alone does not pose a risk to your mobility.
If that isn’t enough to provide you with relief, you go for a consultation for spinal surgery. The surgery is to fuse the damaged vertebra together so they no longer shift and impinge your nerves. It’s very painful and your body never gets back to where it was before the surgery. So this is only for extreme cases. 
That’s what happens when you have inflammation based issues with your spinal canal. If her bone was weakened by a tumor they’d still want to do a biopsy of the area and likely would need to find a way to stabilize the bone so there was no treat to her spinal column. That would have also been an emergency surgery given the severity she’s described so far. Also a tumor in the bone would not pop for obvious reasons.
ALSO: The injections used to treat inflammation in the spinal canal must’ve done in a medical facility. They are done using a fluoroscope (a moving X-ray basically) and you just remain awake and you are not given any local anesthetic. Why? Because, as it turns out, you need to be able to feel if they are stabbing you somewhere they’re not supposed to be when they’re rooting around in your spine with a giant needle.
They are not things you can get over the counter. They are not things you can administer yourself. This is a medical procedure. One that a doctor from another country could not possibly be directing his patient to administer to themselves. It’s not a prescription it’s a complex series of medical instruments and a very precise procedure and if it isn’t done right you could be paralyzed. And it doesn’t take a week to do it either.
Anyways then a week of medical treatment is needed (is this the random medications and injections or is this in addition to them?). And then she will send her off for a whole 12 days for “a bunch of different things” including laser treatment. (This sounds like a less fun version of Space Camp)
It all sounds very technical, you wouldn’t understand.
I don’t even know where to start with this. This post was made the same day. I feel like your dad or brother can take care of your dog and even if they can’t it wouldn’t “triple the staying expense”. Your dog doesn’t need his own room and your mom presumably would be in the hospital. So this just seems like a very strange sympathy grab post that also doesn’t make sense? A way to test the waters to see if people will offer or send more money? It’s preying on kind hearted fans.
And has anyone else noticed that it was a plot point that we’d find out exactly how much it was going to cost with this consultation but that still hasn’t been clarified? I imagine it has gone down since the tumor is gone. There is no explanation for why this surgery needs to happen in another country now that the circumstances have drastically changed and there is no amount given for an estimated cost?
August 12th 2025 (the next series of updates)
1k short of what? There was never an exact amount given that you needed? “I know I said I needed at least 1k” …. Yes but then you said you had raised over 2k….. and then never told us the actual total? So do you need more than the 2k? How much more? This could have been clarified if you actually delivered a total amount needed for this fictitious sci-fi surgery on your mom’s miraculously popping spine tumor.
Why is this needed at all considering the tumor has apparently popped so there’s no real reason why you can’t have this done in your local spinal surgery clinic that is covered by your countrywide health care. It’s almost like you manufactured an entire reason to leave the area covered by that health insurance, contradicted your own story and then never gave people a total amount you were working towards or a way to track how much had been donated? All conveniently happening the day after the actor you were obsessed with blocked you.
@a-carnie-and-a-cop Age-shaming is a weak look.He looks great and has real presence.And his partner is clearly a win for him,not a drain.Maybe spend less time hating and more time fixing your own life.
@a-carnie-and-a-cop Age-shaming is a weak look.He looks great and has real presence.And his partner is clearly a win for him,not a drain.Maybe spend less time hating and more time fixing your own life.
@a-carnie-and-a-cop Age-shaming is a weak look.He looks great and has real presence.And his partner is clearly a win for him,not a drain.Maybe spend less time hating and more time fixing your own life.
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