Iâve been following along with this blog for a while now but I havenât said anything until now. I used to be a Ted fan and followed along with what was going on in the fandom until recently. I followed the three girls who were blocked and that is how I found this blog. I donât want to get cause any new drama but I do want to play devil's advocate here because I think there are things worth mentioning.
I agree with this blog that blookitty is no longer worth bringing up because she was obvious about the things she did that were a problem and the screenshots you have shared prove that. She had main character syndrome and did a lot of things that made a lot of people uncomfortable.
Lactea is someone I thought was a talented artist who did a good job drawing Tedâs characters and other characters. I never bought artwork from her but I could appreciate her talent. I donât know the full story behind her connection to Ted but I do know he did follow her and liked and commented on her art on Instagram sometimes. From what I saw at the time, it did seem like he did like her artwork and found it flattering. I do think the screenshots from this blog show that there was more going on than anyone else may have thought or noticed. I donât know though because I never participated much in the fandom before I left.
My reason for playing devil's advocate comes from dragan. I know this might not be what anyone wants to hear but I think she ended up being taken advantage of and was more or less in the wrong place at the wrong time if that makes sense. I was in the fandom before she came along but I followed her when she started posting her gifs. I thought she seemed nice and just wanted to be friends with other people in the fandom but I think she was taken in my blookitty and lactea because she was new and didnât know all of the things they had been doing before she came along. I think she saw them as fans who could be friends and let them take advantage of her. I could be wrong because maybe she did do something none of us know about but from what I saw when I was following all three of them, she seemed like she only wanted to share her gifs and her fan fiction and whatever stories she picked up at cons with other fans and be friends with them. I didnât see her as someone who was manipulating other fans like the other two did.
There are fans who meet celebrities more than one time. I donât think what dragan was doing at cons by meeting Ted multiple times was anything different. I never went to a con and only have her posts to go by but it did seem like she didnât go to cons only for Ted. I do think maybe she did let herself get swayed by lactea and blookitty and did go to see Ted at cons more than other fans do because of them. If fans are supposed to get stuff signed to meet a celebrity at their table then that could also explain why she has so many autographs and a wall of them. I donât know and could be wrong and Iâm not trying to defend her but seeing the screenshots you have shared about blookitty and lactea and comparing them to the screenshots you have about dragan seems like they were the problem and used her because of her ability to travel to cons and meet Ted multiple times. I canât remember ever seeing a post dragan made that came across as manipulative. I do remember hearing that blookitty would tell other fans what gifts to bring Ted or where he was seen at events and try to dictate to other fans but I never saw any of that from dragan. I donât think she ever asked anyone to contact Ted on her behalf which seems to be something both blookitty and lactea have done. Iâm not saying she couldnât have done that but based on everything I have seen in the past, it doesnât seem like dragan was the manipulative one and the other two were using her and manipulating her and she didnât see it or want to believe it.
The screenshot that shows the self insert artwork she had done is something a lot of fans do. I donât think her self insert artwork is as big of a problem as it's being made out to be. None of it is really inappropriate. The priest artwork is suggestive but I have seen a lot worse in other fandoms and lactea used to draw a lot worse for herself and others. Iâm not saying its not weird to have a lot of artwork of different characters an actor has played but it is common in a lot of fandoms.
The screenshots of the meltdown to me seem like sadness and hurt and lashing out because of that rather than an actual meltdown. They show sarcasm and self deprecation but that looks like a defense mechanism to me. I understand feeling hurt and taken advantage of can cause anger and saying things in the moment but I personally donât see this as an actual meltdown. Which brings me to my next point about the horror movie posts and the axe throwing post.
A lot of horror movies have themes of revenge. That seems to be the point of horror movies. Revenge for something. Posting about horror movies or liking movies that do have a revenge theme doesn't seem like a big deal. There are worse things on Tumblr that I have seen. The timing of her posts was around Halloween and could have just been her trying to do something different to move away from anything to do with Ted. I think trying to claim those posts had more meaning or some sort of violent rhetoric is a bit of a stretch. I followed dragan for almost two years and never saw any indication that she was a violent person even when she was posting about horror movies Ted was in. The axe throwing post could have just been a throwaway comment while in a bad mood. I do remember seeing dragan talking about having an ex husband who was abusive before and her mom being a bad person so while the timing of the post could be tied back to Ted, it could also be talking about someone else. There is a rage room in the city where I live and I know people who use it for stress relief rather than violence. I would assume an axe throwing place is similar. There is also no proof that I could find that dragan has ever gone to the axe place and only posted about it one time. A lot of media also likes to portray people throwing darts at other peopleâs faces on a dartboard for different reasons in movies and tv shows and no one seems to find that violent.
What Iâm trying to say is that while none of us know why those three girls were blocked and maybe they did do something that deserved it, there could also be a defense for dragan based on the posts Iâve seen on her blog in the past and only the few screenshots that are linked. I could be wrong and I admit that Iâm not trying to defend every single thing she has done but from my perspective it does seem like she was manipulated rather than the one doing the manipulating. She was new to the fandom and was taken advantage of by the other two and maybe that made her feel like she had friends and ignored their problem behavior.
Iâm not an expert in behavior or fandom politics but I do think that from what I have seen in the screenshots and the posts on this blog and what I have seen on the blogs of the other three girls that dragan was the least likely to have done something terrible. I do think it's possible her friendship with the other two could have been part of it.
I also think that trying to reach out to her and talk to her like a real person with real feelings instead of treating her like a villain in a story we donât have all the facts for might help. I could be wrong but if sheâs given a chance to tell her story without being harassed or treated like a criminal, it might make her more willing to share what happened if she knows anything. I could say the same about blookitty and lactea but it seems like blookitty has moved on and probably wonât talk about anything related to Ted and lactea seems unwilling as well. Dragan might not tell us anything either but I think she might be the most likely to say something if she doesnât feel like her words will be turned into some villain origin story. I always thought she was nice and think she deserves a chance to be heard even though I don't know if she'll tell us anything or if she's even still active on Tumblr.
Hi anon,
Iâm going to treat this like this is a serious anon but I know a lot of people might be tempted to quickly answer that this is DraganWHorror herself writing. I can definitely sense that you feel she got an unfair shakedown and youâre concerned for her so Iâm going to explain the parts of the blog you likely missed and that I havenât had time to add to the master list.
*I understand concerns, but please understand: Jasmine knows what she did is wrong and she is still choosing to continue to do it. Same for the others.*
First of all, itâs important to know that there are hundreds of screenshots Iâve been sent of proof that all three of these women have engaged in heinous behavior. The reason they arenât posted is the same reason that this blog is the first one in the fandom to call them out. Fans are afraid of these girls. Theyâre afraid of being targeted, of being doxxed and of having them send their fake accounts and friends after them. If you donât believe me, several of them have expressed that anonymously on this blog. So there are things I donât share, including things that were made publicly available, that compromise the safety of other people. So I can only ask that you go based on the things that I CAN share. You donât have to consider this as proof of anything, all I ask is that you keep in mind that there is a whole lot more than what has been shared on this blog and Iâm trying to illustrate the scope of it safely.
Second: several things youâre pointing out were brought up as part of establishing a pattern of behavior or as receipts for things that were said prior. Getting self inserts arenât necessarily weird on their own- but when you consider how many of them she commissioned of herself kissing or hanging on all of his characters (not just one) and take it with the context that he blocked her account (on which she posted a number of those) itâs an important thing to document. Especially since she deleted all of the proof on tumblr. Dragan is better at trying to cover her tracks than the others, but her tracks were still there. She canât just erase them and act like her inappropriate behavior never happened. And a lot of posts were made to illustrate that saying âTed blocked her for no reasonâ was more than a little bit of a stretch. They were establishing that she had a long history of doing things in a publicly visible way that illustrated a fixation- and more importantly I posted them because after things went south at Chicago Days of the Dead she deleted all of that proof (before I even called her out for it)
I waited quite a while to lay out what DraganWHorror had done as well as the lies she told for several reason. One being that exposing all of her lies could put a minor at risk and one being concerns for her mental health.
To address your concerns: The reason nobody reaches out to them one on one is because people already DID that. Lactea and Dragan both told lies and conflicting stories. That is largely how this blog got its following, because they very publicly lied and were caught in those lies. Thatâs also why they deleted all proof of that very rapidly. Those screenshots of her meltdown for instance, were receipts proving that not only did she seem to feel like Ted being polite meant something more than it did, but that rather than accepting that her behavior may have made him uncomfortable (which is the healthy thing to do) she immediately stated to speculate on an outside force being to blame to justify her behavior. Both of those things are major red flags, regardless of whether or not they come from a place of hurt. They show that she felt entitled to his time and his kindness but then took that kindness as proof that she was special. And when faced with consequences of her own actions she didnât even consider she may have done something wrong that made someone uncomfortable, she created a conspiracy theory to explain his discomfort.
Receipts for the Meltdown
Thar conspiracy theory was something she repeated multiple times as she was suddenly focusing her horror movie reviews on films that Ted had done, his brother had done or films with revenge themes. And right in the middle of it she mentions how she would love to throw an ax at a picture of someoneâs face. Again, when you consider this was happening at the same time, she was posting pictures of the outfits she would wear to Chicago, how much weight she lost, her new blonde hair (despite repeatedly insulting blondes prior to discovering Tedâs girlfriend was a blonde), her copying the public social media posts of his girlfriend, (I wonât be posting anything that can lead any fans to her, sorry. They deserve to be happy and unbothered and these girls have been stalking them enough. So I understand if you want to take that with a grain of salt), her making a fanfiction where Laura leaves max and shows up at Travisâs door only to find him with a âslightly older blondeâ and then killing herself shortly after Ted mentions having a girlfriend, her making a public post about using her connections to help her friends get what they want since she wonât ever get it (and then suddenly volunteering at more conventions despite only ever volunteering at Steel City Con before then but only after she hung around a convention bar and presented herself as Steel City Convention staff to Tedâs agent to get privileged information), and her meltdown posts about an evil entity controlling him and indicating it may be âsomeone close to himââŚ. That all paints a very important picture you have to look at in context.
Im going to take a moment here to say the single most important thing about this: nobody gets to decide whether behavior makes Ted or any other actor uncomfortable except the actor themselves.
It doesnât matter if you think itâs normal, if I think itâs normal, if someone did make her do it, if the fan thinks itâs normal or didnât mean it the way it was taken. What matters is that whatever he saw of her behavior, it was enough to make him feel uncomfortable enough that he blocked her and that should always have been respected.
The fact is that when you look at her behaviors, they match up with textbook parasocial obsession and erotomania. And that she knows that and thatâs why sheâs deleting the evidence. Reposting those screenshots is documentation of -what- she is deleting because she knows it makes it clear that sheâs obsessed. Itâs equally important to not only show that she did those things but that she felt she had done enough wrong with them that she needed to hide them. And quite frankly, I have to post the receipts because I donât want a single person to sit here and watch me claim âshe had a wall of Tedâ and just take my word for it. I want them to have proof that she not only has it but has posted it publicly. So those ânormal fan thingsâ might be normal if she hadnât behaved the way that she did. But all of them together, combined with the fact that the actor blocked her and doesnât seem to want her around in person, is a very important context to understand the story and how she manipulated people.
Screenshots of her Self Inserts and Wall of Ted
Early on I was asked how to spot a manipulator and this is what I said.
Now youâre concerned she fell under the influence of BlooKitty and Lacteaway. I totally understand that concern and at first I thought the same thing. She behaved inappropriately prior to being blocked, but I definitely factored in that they were a big influence on her. However we have to remember that Dragan is a 41 year old woman and can absolutely make decisions for herself. This isnât a case where she showed up with bourbon to a convention because Blookitty told her to, she went on to cross boundaries, make the actor uncomfortable and manipulate other fans in the exact same way that you are worried she may have been manipulated.
Hereâs some proof since you didnât see it. She was also regularly spotted on other peopleâs posts about Ted correcting them, guiding them on what to do, informing them of what conventions heâd be at and when, and presenting herself as an authority on Ted information.
Which may have been fine except that the information she gave them and the way she mislead them hurt these other fans. The most obvious instance of this being one of the fans she went to the Chicago Days of the Dead convention with. This fan was excited to go to the event for months and posted a couple nice photos and then deleted them all, hid her blog and vanished for a long time. Whatever may have happened thatâs -not- normal fan behavior.
Just a reminder: if you know which fan this is please donât mention it. Leave her alone. It was pretty clear to everyone that she was manipulated and didnât have a great time and she deserves her privacy. Thatâs exactly why I donât mention this more often.
Quickly regarding the other conventions sheâs goes to:
Here she is admitting she is seeking out conventions that Ted is going to.
I do agree with you. Her friendship with the other two is a big part of it. However her behavior on its own was harmful even without their influence, it continued to be so even after she seemingly fell out with BlooKitty and the fact that she went out and deleted all of the posts demonstrates that she already knew that and tried to hide it. And even then: sheâs still responsible for her own actions.
What makes her so manipulative and what has caused other anons to say they worry she may be more dangerous than the other girls, largely boils down to the fact that once it was clear they werenât wanted around⌠at least the other two stopped. Lacteaway may still post Travis drawings or art from his brothers films, but so far she hasnât tried to be involved with anyone else in his circle. Or tried to spin it that she was welcome. Dragan didnât stop. ďżź
Yeah, she was going to conventions and volunteering at a convention prior to meeting Ted, but a lot of people noticed that she didnât switch her focus to being an assistant at the table or volunteering at other horror conventions until after she gained what she felt with special access through talking to his agent in Michigan. After that Michigan convention she made a long blog post about using her connections to help her friends get what they want. And sure that could be their influence- but even now after itâs been made clear that they are unwelcome she is still trying to work and establish herself at conventions that Ted could be going to. Sheâs trying to work with his friends and assert how welcome she is there. And thatâs her choice to not take no for an answer and it feels deliberate and VERY manipulative to a lot of people. Imagine how it would feel if you were Ted and you went to a convention and your table assistant was a woman you blocked and who was unwelcome at your table at a previous convention?
Sheâs also manipulative because she has targeted new fans and lied to them. Sheâs harmed them for her gain, not Blooâs and not Lacteas. Every single step of the way, she shows that her only concern is what she wants. She didnât need to lose weight or dye her hair blonde for Bloo or Lactea. (I could almost believe it was for herself if she hadnât posted multiple times talking about how much she hates blondes and then never brought up again after she dyed her hair). Even if sheâs hurt; when good people are hurt they are also concerned for whether the other person is hurt or not. They care if they hurt someone else. She has never shown she cared about anything but protecting her own narrative. And sheâs been caught in ridiculous lies while attempting to do it.
Chicago: Days of the Dead summary/Why people donât talk to her one-on-one:
Regarding why people donât talk to her one-on-one. Here is a summary (in chronological order) of what she did leading up to and after Chicago Days of the Dead. Prior to this I mentioned that one of the biggest signs of a manipulator is deleting evidence online and controlling information (such as asking people to message you privately for your side of the story or to come off anonymous to do it. Despite fans having already mentioned on this blog they were afraid to come off anonymous). If you were innocent, you wouldnât need to delete or hide things and you would say it and prove it publicly. You wouldnât lie and control information by only saying it privately or screening whichever DMs you wanted to answer.
- was blocked by Ted along with Lacteaway and Blookitty (not sure if anyone else was blocked)
-Lacteaway decided to confront him in Manchester over it. Made a post that indicated he was visibly distressed at seeing her. Making this very clear to everyone that Ted himself had blocked people and it was intentional. (This is when I created this blog to call them out)
- broadcast for months that she was going to Chicago Days of the Dead, and had almost planned on going to a Las Vegas one as well that Ted was booked at. Even playing outfits and photos she intended for Ted to sign. (Multiple fans expressed concerns here)
- maintained her persona of being the tumblr and IG ted expert guiding fans on the fandom, correcting them and advising them
- broadcast she intended to go with another fan who was clearly very excited about going.
- posted photos sightseeing around Chicago on her Public (at the time) IG.
- the con starts and suddenly she goes radio silent. IG is still public. This is strange because she almost always posted regular updates while she was at a convention and had been updating registry to show off the Chicago sights and the days leading up to the trip.
- the other fan she was with posted some happy convention posts but then deleted them.
- my blog is flooded with anonymous messages. Clearly fans are watching.
- on the final day of the convention she made her IG private.
- made a post claiming she had absolutely nothing to hide but set her asks so they no longer allowed anyone anonymous and started rapidly deleting posts in her tumblr.
- One person did:
âAnd for the record, I never posted on Tumblr about going to Chicago, so someone knowing I was there is a bit suspicious. Unless they were lurking or spying on my Instagram page, of course, which is private.â
1. Her IG was public up until halfway through the weekend so everyone saw it
2. She did post about it on tumblr in multiple places. Here is an example.
- she answered this fan publicly but switched to DMs to give them specific information and the fan felt it was very strange.
- These lies were so obvious that my inbox was flooded within minutes of people saying that that it was never private until that weekend and mentioning that she was mass deleting posting on her page.
- she turned messages off on her tumblr and quietly continued deleting old posts.
- weeks later she posted photos of her âconvention haulâ (typically she posts these while the convention is still happening or immediately after) and it contained two photos signed, hurriedly by Ted. No photos with Ted (she always had pro and table selfies with him at every other convention). And neither of the photos were the one she posted previously that she had intended for him to sign.
- multiple anons pointed out how strange this all was given her usual behavior and bragging. And how obvious the lies were. And why would an innocent person who is nothing but nice and who would never violate his boundaries need to lie and delete things?
- then someone came forward who has been at the convention and mentioned that they had seen that she was clearly not welcome at Tedâs table that weekend.
- after this she was called out by anons or obsessively reposting things with his brother in it and that switching her attention to his brother or people in his circle was alarming. (Relevant because his brother had just been announced alongside him at another convention)
- she started reposting more things that were not Ted related and claiming to just be a horror fan. Also bragging about her follower count and continuing to lie.
- then resumed bragging about conventions she works and volunteers at. Always mentioning how the celebrities trusted her and loved her and wanted her around.
- posted bragging about how excited she was a month in advance of a convention to be working with a specific actress (note: conventions donât give you assignments in advance typically unless you ask for specific people so this is sus)
- turns out the actress was Tedâs co-worker Dana and she posted a long thing bragging about how wonderful Dana is and how she got to spend the whole weekend beside her and how Dana claimed she wanted her to assist at all future conventions.
- my inbox blew up with people concerned that she was targeting people in Tedâs life to stay close to him and asking what could be done. I advised to let Tedâs reps handle it
- someone named âJackâ who claimed to be a convention volunteer at a number of the events she went to and seemed to have knowledge anout Chicago (and Iâve looked into it. He is not someone Iâve spoken with and I have no reason to believe that he knows of this blog and made claims) made a Facebook and Instagram account specifically with photos of her with Dana on it, calling her out for using her âconvention volunteer statusâ to try to gain access to people in Ted Circle after behaving inappropriately and Chicago. He claimed that âthere was an incident at Tedâs table, and she refused to take no for an answer.â So this seems to be further proof that there was an incident in Chicago that is being hidden. It sounds like she was told no and would accept that.
I believe that sums up what we know so far. And Iâll be editing this to add links to some relevant threads.
There is importance in recognizing that yea, surrounding herself with other people who were lying and self-interested probably didnât help. People like that flock together in an echo chamber in fandoms, especially after others start to call them out. However a 41 year old woman should know better and has to be held accountable for her own actions. Especially when her lying and obfuscating is clearly showing that she knows she did wrong while she aggressively tries to play the victim to maintain friends.
The lesson here is: manipulators are nice and thatâs how they get away with manipulation. Otherwise theyâd just be assholes and those are easier to spot. Hopefully people who were taken in by all of this learn to spot the warning signs in advance. I hope that helps to explain why her behavior canât be explained away by the influence of other people, anon. Iâm not here to demand people beleive me, you can make up your own mind. However to date she still not apologized or taken accountability or even acknowledged her behavior could have been harmful in any way. Neither have the others. Thatâs all the proof that I need that they are not remorseful in the slightest.
I really hope that anyone reading this walks away with the understanding that this isnât an innocent person who doesnât know that what theyâre doing is wrong. This is someone who is demonstrating that they not only know that what theyâre doing is wrong, but that theyâve tried to hide it so that they can maintain the illusion that theyâre just an innocent victim. And they arenât sorry about it, they arenât taking responsibility and theyâre still doing it- theyâre just trying to be less obvious about it and are hoping we donât notice so they can keep doing it.
Iâm making an effort to organize all the important links so that anyone who is new can catch up without having to scroll the whole blog. If there are any other posts Iâve made that you feel need to be linked here, let me know and Iâll add them.
đąindicates posts that contain screenshots of their own words.
BlooKitty
đąLACTEAWAY and BLOOKITTY summary
What happened to get them blocked by Ted Raimi. If anyone is wondering why I donât bring BlooKitty up much, it isnât because what she did wasnât bad. Itâs that she told on herself so blatantly that I havenât had to revisit it after this post.
Lacteaway
Lacteaway Medical Crisis Fraud
(screenshots and detailed explanation documenting Lacteawayâs false claims around her momâs surgery in an effort to raise money to fly to another country to confront the actor who blocked her)
đąPART 1
đąPART 2
đąPART 3
DraganWHorror
How to Spot a Manipulator
How to spot someone who is manipulating the facts and hiding their obsession when they otherwise see really nice
đąScreenshots of Meltdown after Being Blocked by Ted
Hereâs is the documentation of her inappropriate meltdown after being blocked including suggestions that there was a conspiracy and someone forced him to do this.
đąScreenshots of IG posts focused on Revenge after being Blocked
After deciding that there must be a conspiracy and that was why Ted blocked all of them, she started doing film reviews for the first time on her IG with some posts very focused on revenge. And a post mentioning sheâd like to throw an axe at âsomeoneâsâ face.
đąScreenshots of Various Self-Insert Fanart and her âwall of Tedâ
Further documentation of her general obsession with Ted.
Related Problematic Accounts/Post
đąScreenshots of Carnie promoting the Conspiracy
Here are screenshots of a-carnie-and-a-cop, frequent visitor of these girls pages and generally problematic person, harassing others and Ted with the delusional idea that an evil entity made him unfollow people who behaved inappropriately. This delusion is how the girls justified confronting Ted to multiple parties after he drew a boundary.
Alicestrange
Alice is a âfanâ across multiple fandoms who is known for making multiple fake accounts and data mining discord servers. She seeks out personal information and addresses of actors and fans alike so if you spot her in your fandom, beware. Most fans held back on coming forward because Alice associated with Tedâs three primary stalkers and they feared being Doxxed.
Physics teaches us that if a moving object is getting hot, there must be friction. Which means the wheel/tire is grinding up against something.
Basically anyone, especially a mechanic, is going to be able to figure this out.
Here are some possible explanations:
1. Your brake caliper is possibly seized or slipping. Lazy mechanics will replace the brake pads but itâs likely the caliper itself that is the problem.
If this is the case, the mechanic (who has presumably seen a brake system before) would notice that even when the brakes are not applied, the brake sticks to the wheel as if it is applied. So itâs pretty hard to miss. They need to replace the piston or slide pins.
2) you could have a collapsed brake hose. This would cause an issue where the brake remained engaged, even when your foot was not on the brake pedal. Which, again, would be pretty easy to notice. Externally the hose would look fine- but presumably they would see that it was not disengaging and would not give you back the car claiming it was fixed.
3. Parking brake could be stuck or misaligned. Also pretty easy to see.
Iâm so glad your mom has been able to afford hundreds of dollars in car repairs. Especially given you have to help her with her work because sheâs unable to do it after her confusing and conveniently timed surgery that definitely wasnât totally made up.
I do find it a bit hard to believe that multiple mechanics would try to fix this and give it back to you as if they had resolved the issue without testing the car, refunding your money or giving you any useful information on what they had fixed that you could share. Usually they tell you what youâre paying for when you exchange money for goods and services.
The above potential sources are the most likely scenario and thereâs not very many things that would cause your rear wheel to smoke.
Good luck with todayâs exaggerated or entirely made up crisis.
Also if you mom had such as serious surgery on her spine and was at risk of losing mobility in his legs or use of her legs at all⌠she shouldnât be driving already. Let alone working.
Yet a stranger on the internet told you exactly what it was despite being half a world away and not seeing the car. Sure.
Let me explain why itâs obvious she is lying.
If the handbrake was stuck in a way that they could fix without taking it to a new mechanic that meant BOTH REAR WHEELS would be smoking. Otherwise a repair to fix the one side would be necessary. And as mentioned (and as sheâs trying to hide here to look like she isnât lying) a mechanic would have noticed a handbrake sticking while running the tires. Itâs one of the first things any mechanic checks while looking into something like that?
Donât believe me? I called three of them and described the problem. They all suggested the handbrake first. Youâll notice she gave no details on how it was fixed or how it was stuck? Once against just vague enough nobody would question it.
Estonia is not a third world country and no longer a part of the Soviet Union. They are technologically advanced. Multiple mechanics didnât âmissâ the fact that one back wheel wasnât properly turning.
This is like saying a dentist didnât notice a gaping hole in your front tooth, still charged you, and multiple subsequent dentists missed it too.
In conclusion: this little girl is a pathological liar and she does it for sympathy and almost always with some claim about how expensive the thing is (without actually giving a number on how much it costs) and usually, not long after sheâs posted a new piece sheâs hoping youâll commission her on or when someone calls her out. Sheâs always hoping the guilt and pulling at your emotions will get you to purchase her art or ignore the fact that someone is pointing out obvious lies.
This artist scams the community into giving her sympathy and buying her art. Sheâs used obvious medical fraud to do so in the past (as Iâve been detailing). Think twice before commissioning her and please consider other, more ethical artists.
Thank you for joining me on this experiment to prove my point and please stay safe.
This will be a long series of posts containing receipts related to Lacteaway so stay with me if thatâs what youâre looking for.
This will be several parts long and I will post links as I get each part up.
Iâve mentioned that Lacteaway had seemingly manufactured a medical crisis to drive up commissions and donations in the past. She did this multiple times over the years, however the primary example I have brought up to demonstrate this is that she lied about her mother having a serious medical condition and needing surgery that could only be given out of country. Then, after constant complaints relating to this and sympathy stories about having to pay for funerals for other people and her own dental pain- she suddenly had enough to fly to Manchester and confront an actor after he blocked her. Thus overstepping his very clear boundary.
Lacteaway deleted all evidence of this very quickly once it was called out that none of this made sense so receipts are hard to come by. Luckily, I have almost all of them. I have put off making this post primarily because Iâve been busy and there is just SO MUCH. I am likely missing a few as well and had to dig all of this up and organize it, so forgive me on being late with this.
With all the lying and obfuscating going around, I prefer to show you guys the receipts than to just tell you a recap of things that happened. Especially since these girls all started deleting their posts once they were called into question. So I think itâs important to have all of those available screenshots in one place especially in the event that they resurface or try to repeat these behaviors in the future.
I will provide some context and commentary pointing out anachronisms or discussing websites that refute her claims. If you donât want to read all of that, you can skip over it. However, I am, including all of this for the sake of being able to demonstrate to you why it doesnât make sense. I will not only show you where her own posts contradict her words, but Iâll be sharing some information with you relating to spinal surgery consultation and other related things. So expect some sass.ďżź
To be clear: many of you are wonderful people who got taken for a ride by a manipulative person who wanted to pull attention away from the fact that her inappropriate behavior got her blocked and maybe raise some money in the process. I donât blame any of you who may have fallen for this. So please donât take the tone of this post as making fun of anyone who just wanted to make sure that someone was okay. My commentary and context on this is purely to illustrate how she formed these lies and where you can tell that they were lies in case you ever run across something like this in the future.
Manipulative people like to give you vague information in short bursts, hoping that you wonât compare it to previous information they have given to see the inconsistencies. They hit you with sob stories and posts about how emotionally distraught they are and making things sound dire without any real timeline or concrete amount of money that they need. This is how she did it. And yes, she did this in the past as well to drive up her commissions when business was low or to try to make people feel guilty.
Sheâs still doing it now, but hoping that you donât notice how somehow itâs her momâs fault that she has to have a job that pays considerably less per hour than she makes on commissions.
Ted came back to IG on August 4th 2025 after a long time away. 3 fans had meltdowns on social media about being suddenly blocked. (DraganWHorror, Blookitty and Lacteaway). In previous blogs Iâve mentioned their inappropriate behavior that may have lead to this and documented it with additional receipts).
These are from August 5th after she was silent August 4th. This is the order they were posted in.
I want to draw your attention to the last two images. In which mom is having âmassive health issuesâ that âarenât intenseâ. And then in the hashtags she says âshe is close to losing her legsâ âher spine is giving up on herâ âneeds a surgery in another countryâ and âwe do not perform such surgeries hereâ.
Estonia has solidary health insurance system. Solidarity in health insurance means that someone's health insurance payments or contribution
European Health Insurance Card: Medical contacts and costs in Estonia
Fact check: Given her history of medical and dental issues for both herself and her mother (she had done a lot of posts to increase her commissions to cover dental work) here is some additional info on insurance in her country. 95% of Estonians have coverage through the state and obtaining affordable insurance if youâre not eligible is fairly easy. That insurance covers a significant portion of all medical and dental needs.
Surely more than enough to cover her physical and dental woes.
As for the claim that they âdonât do such surgeries hereâ she doesnât quite say what the surgery is thatâs needed or indicate that she even knows. She seems to âknowâ that her mom is close to âlosing her legsâ and that it may cost hundreds of euros. But if she says they donât do âsuch surgeriesâ there and has a ballpark estimate and knowledge that they would need to go to another country to do it, they must already know all the details?
The aim of the Centre of Spinal Surgery is to ensure high-quality treatment for patients with diseases of the spine. We are the only centre
Either way it sounds like a spinal surgery so⌠good thing they have a center specializing in exactly that in her city. That would mean she was covered by their very good National Health insurance (like her dental problems and ulcers must be)
Anyways, on to August 6th.
Hereâs the big post most people saw and that got shared on tumblr and Instagram.
The estimated costs has gone from âhundredsâ of euros to 1k+.
NOTE: there is no indication that they have spoken to a medical professional recently let alone in the last day that would indicate a reason why the cost has gone up. So presumably these expenses were known to them prior to this, and at the very least could have been factored in to the cost the day before. Youâll see why this is important in Part 2.
So mom went to an an undisclosed country ârecentlyâ and had to go to the ER. This doesnât sound like it just happened this day or even this week. It seems like this is something that has been going on for a little while but has just not been brought up until the day after sheâs blocked by an actor she had admitted to behaving inappropriately with.
There is no time frame given for this trip but obviously she had to pay for it and insurance didnât cover it. Clearly the trip wasnât to the US or it would financially impossible.
The ER showed âher spine has a tumor that is slowly breaking itâ, her âspinal cord is on the verge of collapsingâ. She can just wake up âand lose her legsâ. Safe to say that her statement that it was ânothing intenseâ is seeming more and more confusing by the moment. That sounds pretty intense. Super weird that she didnât need to fundraise for this uninsured ER visit in another country her mom just happened to be visiting (did she walk there? I assume she paid to travel somehow)
This girl overshares every personal thought and detail of her families life. Especially if it costs her money or gets her sympathy. It was just a little strange to me that if her mom went on some trip and found out she may shatter her spinal column over night that this is the first we are hearing about it? Clearly, sheâs had time to get back home and see doctors there if she knows they canât do this surgery.
In addition if she knows how long her rehabilitation may take than it sounds like sheâs already had her surgical consultation. That is where you get your treatment plan and rehabilitation estimates as well as the estimated costs incurred if any. Which would make sense because the surgery sounds like an emergency. But if itâs an emergency, why did she travel home, how long has it been since they discovered this and why is it suddenly a big deal right now? She sure did make it sound like this was an emergency but everything else shes said seems to indicate there was no rush until RIGHT NOW despite knowing about this for a while. So is it an emergency or isnât it?
Also: rehabilitation for having a tumor removed from your spine takes between one week and one year depending on the severity of the surgery. If the tumor is in a position where it may shatter your spine and you lose your legs overnight that seems like it would be on the serious side as far as surgeries go, especially if the spinal clinic in her city canât do it. So a 2 week estimate is wild.
Among all her retweets and posts about her commission process, she finally seems to address the source of her distress in a roundabout way.
(For those that havenât see the posts from the other girls, the people who were blocked started to speculate that there was a conspiracy and some âevil entityâ that forced the actor to block them. So sheâs saying she doesnât think itâs that.)
However she claims sheâs already raised 2k. Double what she estimated the day before.
But ⌠the consultation with the surgeon is tomorrow? So what information have they gotten and who did they talk to in the last 24-48 hours that explains the sudden increase in the amount sheâs hoping to fundraise? Why not wait 24 hours to give the final total?
Isnât this surgery in another country? Maybe theyâre doing this (consultation for risky spinal surgery) over zoom? Iâve actually had a consultation for a minor spinal surgery before. For even a minor surgery, the doctors want to see you in person but maybe this is a special exception that defies all known medical procedures.
NOTE: For anyone who has been lucky enough to not have surgery itâs important to mentioned that the consultation for surgery is where they review your imaging, examine you, come up with and inform you of your treatment plan. This is 100% where you find out if you will need to be in rehabilitation and for how long. Not at any time before then- this is the appointment. If the consultation is too far out from your surgery (for some reason), there will be another appointment even closer to the surgery date depending on what they are operating on. A situation that could change at any moment means the consult will be as close to the date as possible. The length of your surgery as well as recovery time depends on what is going on in your body at that time. If you have a metastatic tumor for instance or an unstable bone tumor, the situation can change drastically in a very short amount of time and even then, there could be complications during the surgery itself that they canât account for. So there is no world in which they give you an estimated rehabilitation time or amount prior to a consult.
Your surgical team are the only people who can give you an estimate on this because they are the ones that are performing the actions that will place you in rehab. No one else can estimate your costs or recovery time or consult on your treatment plan- especially not before your consult. Not to mention that a surgery like this would likely require lots of additional testing in the days immediately before the surgery. Yet somehow they knew before getting their surgery consultation how long she may need to be in rehab for. (See previous post) They also felt confident enough to make several climbing estimates on how much this surgery (that isnât even scheduled) would cost and to ask for specific amounts to cover it.
And I cannot stress this enough: if you know that the specialists in your own country canât do the surgery- you must have already known exactly what the surgery would be. So what exactly was the surgery consult for? That must have already happened if you know it canât be done in your country.
August 8th 2025
âŚâŚ. UhâŚ..
âShe needs to buy and use a bunch of medications and injectionsâ. Well that sounds professional. Is that what they wrote on the prescription? Can you just go to a chemist/pharmacy in Estonia and pick up random INJECTIONS to use on yourself?
WaitâŚ..
âTURNED OUT THE TUMOR ALSO POPPED INSIDE AND FLOODED THE IN-BETWEENS OF HER SPINE , WHICH CAUSED INFLAMMATIONâ
According to the National Cancer Institute:
tumor
(TOO-mer)
An abnormal mass of tissue that forms when cells grow and divide more than they should or do not die when they should. Tumors may be benign (not cancer) or malignant (cancer). Benign tumors may grow large but do not spread into, or invade, nearby tissues or other parts of the body. Malignant tumors can spread into, or invade, nearby tissues. They can also spread to other parts of the body through the blood and lymph systems. Also called neoplasm.
Tumors are growths of cells, not sacks of fluid. They donât just âpopâ and âflood your spineâ. A tumor is a very specific thing. This tumor is so serious that one wrong move while sleeping could âshatterâ her spinal column. So how could something dense enough to shatter part of your body just pop? Why didnât they just pop it sooner? Surely healthcare in Estonia could have deduced that this was the easiest solution.
Is this your doctor?
I feel like this is your doctor.
Letâs address this part next: Her leg is losing mobility and thatâs the priority.
Why is her leg losing mobility? You claimed the threat to her mobility/legs was the tumor that could shatter her spine.
Good news: the tumor that was the source of that threat has âpoppedâ at some point in the recent past. So why is her leg losing mobility in a way thatâs irreversible if the only thing left is inflammation.
1) now that the tumor is gone the surgery can happen in your home country, in the spinal surgery center in your city, and be covered by your amazing medical insurance. Since the tumor itself is what made this surgery risky in the first place, you wonât need even a fraction of that 2k you supposedly raised. This changes the entire nature of the procedures needed, so clearly you can just go to your local specialists.
2) if sheâs losing mobility why didnât you notice that yesterday and how did this doctor in another country that is assessing her over a tele-health meeting notice that sheâs losing mobility in her leg. That is something that you find out at an in-person exam through a series of tests.
For anyone who hasnât received a consult for spinal surgery due to chronic pain and inflammation let me give you some additional knowledge: they treat that with injections of steroids into your spinal canal. Theyâre very uncomfortable. They may also give you oral steroids but even the US doesnât give you massive amounts of pain killers and itâs only in extreme circumstances they even consider a surgery.
These injections or nerve blocks last for around a couple of months give or take and then you have to get another one. I have pictures of the needle in my spine from my treatment. Itâs fairly easy. You walk out of the doctors office on your own power. Itâs no big deal. Inflammation alone does not pose a risk to your mobility.
If that isnât enough to provide you with relief, you go for a consultation for spinal surgery. The surgery is to fuse the damaged vertebra together so they no longer shift and impinge your nerves. Itâs very painful and your body never gets back to where it was before the surgery. So this is only for extreme cases. ďżź
Thatâs what happens when you have inflammation based issues with your spinal canal. If her bone was weakened by a tumor theyâd still want to do a biopsy of the area and likely would need to find a way to stabilize the bone so there was no treat to her spinal column. That would have also been an emergency surgery given the severity sheâs described so far. Also a tumor in the bone would not pop for obvious reasons.
ALSO: The injections used to treat inflammation in the spinal canal mustâve done in a medical facility. They are done using a fluoroscope (a moving X-ray basically) and you just remain awake and you are not given any local anesthetic. Why? Because, as it turns out, you need to be able to feel if they are stabbing you somewhere theyâre not supposed to be when theyâre rooting around in your spine with a giant needle.
They are not things you can get over the counter. They are not things you can administer yourself. This is a medical procedure. One that a doctor from another country could not possibly be directing his patient to administer to themselves. Itâs not a prescription itâs a complex series of medical instruments and a very precise procedure and if it isnât done right you could be paralyzed. And it doesnât take a week to do it either.
Anyways then a week of medical treatment is needed (is this the random medications and injections or is this in addition to them?). And then she will send her off for a whole 12 days for âa bunch of different thingsâ including laser treatment. (This sounds like a less fun version of Space Camp)
It all sounds very technical, you wouldnât understand.
I donât even know where to start with this. This post was made the same day. I feel like your dad or brother can take care of your dog and even if they canât it wouldnât âtriple the staying expenseâ. Your dog doesnât need his own room and your mom presumably would be in the hospital. So this just seems like a very strange sympathy grab post that also doesnât make sense? A way to test the waters to see if people will offer or send more money? Itâs preying on kind hearted fans.
And has anyone else noticed that it was a plot point that weâd find out exactly how much it was going to cost with this consultation but that still hasnât been clarified? I imagine it has gone down since the tumor is gone. There is no explanation for why this surgery needs to happen in another country now that the circumstances have drastically changed and there is no amount given for an estimated cost?
August 12th 2025 (the next series of updates)
1k short of what? There was never an exact amount given that you needed? âI know I said I needed at least 1kâ âŚ. Yes but then you said you had raised over 2kâŚ.. and then never told us the actual total? So do you need more than the 2k? How much more? This could have been clarified if you actually delivered a total amount needed for this fictitious sci-fi surgery on your momâs miraculously popping spine tumor.
Why is this needed at all considering the tumor has apparently popped so thereâs no real reason why you canât have this done in your local spinal surgery clinic that is covered by your countrywide health care. Itâs almost like you manufactured an entire reason to leave the area covered by that health insurance, contradicted your own story and then never gave people a total amount you were working towards or a way to track how much had been donated? All conveniently happening the day after the actor you were obsessed with blocked you.
Weird.
PART 3 COMING SOON
pattern notes⌠@quietobserver39 - Tumblr Blog | Tumgag
amandla
yousharknotpass
stormborns
blakekathryn
ellievsbear
vaporwave
gracieabrams