literally no need to have your assigned sex at birth listed in your carrd it means nothing and clinging to arbitrary transphobic and intersexist categories just shows everyone that you aren’t a safe person for trans and intersex people to be around. nobody needs to know what genitals a doctor decided you had when you were a baby unless the context is required when talking abt your upbringing or experiences based on your perceived gender but you’re talking about neither of those things.
there are also better ways to describe gendered experiences because ASAB means very little. many girls were AMAB. many people were AFAB and then later reassigned male and raised as boys due to being intersex. being AFAB doesn’t mean anything about the gender you were raised, your hormones, your reproductive anatomy, your “biological sex”, or your current gender unless you assume everyone is perisex. it literally does nothing but serve as a dogwhistle that you’re bioessentialist.
i sound harsh ik but i assume you just are in a space wheee its expected to list that sort of information and you are only 16 so i hope you stop talking to whoever convinced you ASAB matters enough that you should list it alongside your gender and pronouns and start talking to more intersex activists.
Say it with me people, YOU DONT GET TO DICTATE HOW A TRANSGENDER PERSON LISTS THEIR IDENTITYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
Literally tell me how does it effect you??? Give me a singular reason how MYYYYYY identity effects you
Being afab IS a part of our identity for multiple reasons, one being that our/my gender isn't as simple as man/boy/transman/ect AFAB is LITERALLYYYYYYYY part of my identity for my personal reasons
Fuck off you don't get to dictate how we list our identity, also why tf did you assume we listed it to advertise our genitals. That's fucking weird. Fuck off with that YOU'RE the one being weird, not everyone thinks about what I have in my pants when I say I'm afab you weirdo
We got assigned female. We grew up female. That will forever be a part of my identity
Once again, YOU DONT GET TO DICTATE HOW TRANSGENDER PEOPLE VIEW AND SHARE THEIR IDENTITY
*carrd is out of date btw we're 17, I have too much of a life to update it
hi :3 i’ve been thinking abt u recently and just wanted to check on how y’all have been doing!! (sorry if that sounds a bit strange, i used to talk to y’all through asks and ask how u were quite a bit but due to me switching blogs multiple times and some difficulties with our health ur blog kinda got lost to us and i’m rlly sorry abt that :( we used to be the chair system btw !!)
Hellooooo!!!!! We have been experiencing horrors(lite) and we've been too busy with them to be chronically online
Some things that's happened are;
>host change (new host is Aaron)
>he got a kinda????? Bf???? It's not offical but they're like one good day away from marriage or smth
>cut off an abuser
>multiple pregnancy scares
>got a mobility aid while simultaneously getting worse w/ our disability
>one of our 3 best friends tried to take advantage of said bf while he(and we) were piss drunk
>horrible public crashout on her
>she goes around to people we know changing the story so she's the victim
>home situation worse
>EVERYTHING IS HORRIBLE
>AAAAAAA
>bf is in another city W (basically) NO CONTACT for like a month.
>kill me now
The good thing is that we got amazing friends so that's pretty great, love u spermatogliftes 🫶
Not the last anon trying to guilt you& in the comments. Laugh out loud. People who have to announce they're departure from a tumblr blog are so odd to me.
Yea it's weird.
That person is someone we used to be kinda friends with so wish em the best even tho endos are WEIIIIIIRD for making a haha funny branch of the my childhood was so horrible I need to be other people disorder™
Blah blah don't witchhunt them or any endos, it's the internet we all have better things to do I HOPE.
Edit: that anon isn't an endo, I'm gonna go touch grass now
just so you're aware alters can't die. they can become dormant or integrate, but alter death is not a real active phenomenon. the grief the system feels can be similar, but it is absolutely not death. very very different things.
We are very very aware
It was a joke
Because haha funny Tumblr post
We did not think we had to clarify were not a dipshit believing alter death is real
