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blog for pro-rq and pro-transx NPD havers and allies! reblogs related posts and does relevant pride icon requests cisNPD flag by radqueer-bennett

[radicalnpdisms]

positivity movement time! heart hands.

welcome to radicalNPDisms! here I'll reblog pro-rq related NPD labels and flags, as well as make icon edits using them! also userboxes! I will also reblog NPD related positivity posts!

feel free to tag me in posts or DM me them so I can reblog them!

owner of this blog is cisNPD and supportive of transNPD as well as pro researched self-dx, as should go without saying here but just to be safe!

no real DNI, just anti-rqs and people who believe in PD abuse really.

about the owner:

hi, I'm celine/@sparklingmoonsugar! I'm usually 16. (transagefluid, chrono adult)

my pronouns are luna/nova/star/moon/she/it, if you want to refer to my entire system, it/its only!

[radicalnpdisms]

(psst, by the way... you, the transNPD reading this... you're looking great today!)

[radicalnpdisms]

having NPD makes me suuuuuuper hot so I understand why people would want to transition to be as hot as I am ;)

[radicalnpdisms]

Pw PDs stick together! This cisBPD user supports all my cisNPD and transNPD siblings!

hell fucking yeah!!!

I'm not aware of any cisBPD flags so I just used the NPD ones as a background element, I can make another one of these in the future with the main background being a BPD flag in the future!

[zombie-autopsy]

just thought id drop these here

these are the most common bpd flags that i see used

incase u wanted them :)

[radicalnpdisms]

tysm! are they both general BPD flags?

[zombie-autopsy]

yep!

[radicalnpdisms]

awesome, thanks! here's alt versions of the boxes!

[radicalnpdisms]

Pw PDs stick together! This cisBPD user supports all my cisNPD and transNPD siblings!

hell fucking yeah!!!

I'm not aware of any cisBPD flags so I just used the NPD ones as a background element, I can make another one of these in the future with the main background being a BPD flag in the future!

[zombie-autopsy]

just thought id drop these here

these are the most common bpd flags that i see used

incase u wanted them :)

[radicalnpdisms]

tysm! are they both general BPD flags?

[radicalnpdisms]

she apologized and explained herself a million times even tried to kill herself WHAT MORE DO YOU WANT

why do you take a NPD positivity blog as an attack?

I never sent any hate to marci. I never made my own post on the situation beyond posting NPD positivity. I literally sent her partner this anon. that was my only input on the situation. saying I'm glad she's okay and wishing her and her partner well.

yes, this blog was made in reaction to the entire situation. but it wasn't purely marci, it was others agreeing with her. it was pent up frustration because long before I ever found the RQ community, I tried to join trauma-vent tumblr only to see PD demonetization everywhere and constant usage of "narc abuse".

marci explaining herself does not change that I and other NPD havers were hurt by what she said. I'm allowed to create a space dedicated to positivity for us. You're acting like I won't let this go and yet you're the one bringing it up when it shouldn't have been.

all this blog is is separating my posts about NPD from my main blog. fuck off.

[radicalnpdisms]

transition tips for transNPDs, from a cisNPD

⚠️some of these may be harmful to the mind. transition with caution and awareness of how it can effect you.⚠️

research the types of narcissism. you may find a specific one you connect to more than the others. (overt and covert, a mix, whatever)

constant self-affirmations. lie to yourself enough, and you can make your mind think it's the truth. some affirmations can be;

I am better than the people around me.

I am attractive/hot/irresistible. (replace with any ego boosting comment)

I deserve this and don't care what others think.

Everyone is paying attention to what I do.

Everyone is looking up to me.

I need to be perfect for everyone.

practice perfectionism. don't share anything you make until you're sure it's the best you can do. maybe anything you do is always the best.

ask for compliments and validation. instruct friends to randomly compliment and praise you when you aren't expecting it.

save and screenshot positive asks and tags you get online, save them to an easily accessible folder (such as on your phone) and look through them whenever you're feeling down.

study and analyze details in your spoken and written language(s) and dialect(s) and how you can adjust your word and phrasing choices to be more appealing and charismatic to others.

find ways to lower your empathy if you're not already low-no empathy. understand the differences between empathy, sympathy, and compassion. find ways to ground yourself when you are experiencing empathy to try and shut it down.

ensure constant upkeep of the self. to make sure you do this, you can set alarms and make a schedule. if you can: work out even if its just jumping jacks or squats in your room, drink lots of water, wash your face and brush your teeth often, brush and style your hair, wear makeup to cover blemishes if you have the energy/spoons. do your best to appear "perfect" to outsiders.

[radicalnpdisms]

Pw PDs stick together! This cisBPD user supports all my cisNPD and transNPD siblings!

hell fucking yeah!!!

I'm not aware of any cisBPD flags so I just used the NPD ones as a background element, I can make another one of these in the future with the main background being a BPD flag in the future!

[radicalnpdisms]

cisNPD flag for folk who are also transgender!

transNPD flag for folk who are also transgender!

flags based on @radqueer-bennett's cisNPD and transNPD flags

feel free to recommend other flags and labels <3

[radqueer-bennett]

my flag is in your profie pic o(*°▽°*)o

[radicalnpdisms]

it is!!! ^_^

[radicalnpdisms]

cisNPD flag for folk who are also transgender!

transNPD flag for folk who are also transgender!

flags based on @radqueer-bennett's cisNPD and transNPD flags

feel free to recommend other flags and labels <3

[radqueer-bennett]

npd flags

cis npd and trans npd flag

@radicalnpdisms

[radqueer-bennett]

update : baby flags

[radqueer-bennett]

npd flags

cis npd and trans npd flag

@radicalnpdisms

[radicalnpdisms]

if anyone can link me to more NPD related rq stuff it would be very appreciated orz if not I might make some alt flags myself. (I don't remember who created the common NPD flag and if it would be okay to use it here? not sure, let me know what you think!)

[radqueer-bennett]

i might make some npd flags my self ! especial ly trans npd and cis npd

[radicalnpdisms]

I'd love to see that! please tag me if you do <3

[radicalnpdisms]

if anyone can link me to more NPD related rq stuff it would be very appreciated orz if not I might make some alt flags myself. (I don't remember who created the common NPD flag and if it would be okay to use it here? not sure, let me know what you think!)

[angelsmogaiheaven]

☆ -- narcislovic !!

☆ -- narcislovic is a mogai identity where one feels some part of their identity, either that be their gender, sexuality, romantic attraction, platonic attraction, etc, is affected or influenced by accepting their npd, loving themselves lots, npd acceptance, and learning to love their npd .

☆ -- flag for narcislovic :