Just be easy

From CT. Got a taste of NY for a few years. I'm fond of many things and all I'm trying to do is stay true to myself while still figuring out who I am. I've realized that most of the time the answers are rather simple. Here is where I show what I like, what I'd like to do, or whatever I think is funny. Do enjoy. Ciao!

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It's officially been a month. A month since my heart was torn into a thousand pieces. A month since my future with someone I loved was burned to smithereens. A month since I had my very last kiss with the man I thought I would be kissing for all of eternity. It's amazing what can happen in a month. My heart is still saddened by what happened, but I focus on the good and hold dear those sweet memories I had with him. It hasn't been enough time to really feel whole, to feel complete again, but I know I will. I see this as a whole learning process. A time to evolve. From one strong woman to the next. These situations shall only make me stronger because I don't have time to be weak. I don't have time to waste. I have decided that today is the very first day of the rest of my life. No longer will I look at the past and weep. No longer shall I dwell on an absent future with him. No longer shall I torture myself with contradicting thoughts. If I look to the past, it's to learn from them. If I think of an absent future with him, it's to remind myself that there are better futures out there. I shall remind myself that I am important, I am strong, and I will be successful. I won't let this get in the way of my happiness. I control how happy I want to be. Not you. Not him. Not her. No one. I see waking up in the morning as a blessing because that means I have another day to conquer. Another day to show people who I am, who I can be. And that person is amazing. I will greet life with open arms, a singing heart, and a giggling soul. Life is not good nor bad, it's only what you make of it. And today, I have decided that I will make my life worth something. My life will be worth writing for.

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Unconditional

I want to be with someone who loves me at my best AND my worst. I want to be with someone who challenges me to become a better person. Someone who is able to give me sunshine on a cloudy day. I never want to be with someone who brings me down, who points out my flaws instead of trying to accept them, or makes me feel less than great. I understand no one is perfect and I have a duty to provide the same to you, but it always takes two. Two to fight and two to make something work. That is why it is called a relationship. Relationships require WORK and if one person is not wiling to give in the effort, that relationship will never last.

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Do you ever feel so happy that you think nothing can bring you down then two minutes later you want to lie in your bed and never get out because you’re so sad…

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Me right now

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Can we just take a moment and ...

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rebellion has never been so cute 

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One in three women report being a victim of domestic violence (30%). 

One in five women report being a victim of sexual assault (20%).

60% of Americans, 15 years or older, know a victim of domestic violence or sexual assault.

Among the 70% of women who have experienced domestic violence and told somebody about it, more than half (58%) said that nobody helped them.

No more bystanding. No more ignorance. No more excuses.

No more.

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Good Vibes HERE

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Happiness by Liz Piper (me)

I think we are all guilty of this, especially when we are sad. We focus so much on what we could have had or what we’ve lost, that we forget about who we do have. We forget about the ones that have been there for us through the entire ordeal. It’s as if you want to bathe in the dark shadows of yesterday instead of seeking for the promises of tomorrow. I know it’s an easier said than done task, but it’s not impossible. Whenever you feel like playing a song that reminds you of your sad times, or picking your brain at what went wrong, or wanting to cry, take a breath and remind yourself of the good in your life. It’s there for a reason. Use it as motivation to keep pushing forward to the great reward that’s at the end of the tunnel. It’s a constant reminder that where there is bad, there is also more good. I can’t tell you what to do. Heck, I can’t even tell myself what to do, but I’ve learned that the only person that can make you happy is you. You choose to be sad. You choose to be happy. Of course we have our sad moments, but the length of time being sad is all up to you. No one can take away your happiness, at least permanently. Focus on who you have in your life and what good has come from it. But most importantly, focus on you.

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four examples of deap sea bioluminescence in a sea worm and three comb jellies (ctenophores), known 1-4 as: tomopteris; mnemiopsis leidyi; beroe forskalii; lampocteis cruentiventer. from the IMAX documentary ‘into the deep’

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Kevin Smith on the his ideal film rating board from This Film is Not Yet Rated

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Made a pie for mother fuckin' PI DAY!!

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Because I'm feeling narcissistic today.

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My newest tattoo! Done by Ernesto Nave @ Lost Art Gallery in Watertown, CT