My abusive mother is trying to institutionalize me & put me in a conservatorship. Please help me fund my escape plan across a few states.
This is a remake of my original post that lost traction as it gained over 4k notes, but I still need help. Things have gone to shit I need to get the fuck out of here as soon as possible. That means the moving fee will be much more, but if we can get enough I am going to go for it as soon as May (I have to give a 30-day notice to my current landlord before I can leave) or June instead of my original post's estimate.
My mother has sold her house and is bringing her pets to the new house, but she is leaving my cat behind with the new owners knowing that will upset me. She gave me a few options - move in with her and I can keep him in my room, I can let her leave him with strangers whom I don't know or know what they'll end up doing with him, or I can pay the pet deposit on my current apartment of 350 dollars to have him with me instead. I would like to have my cat back as I have been alone in this apartment since I moved, and I am so afraid of her giving him to strangers and something happening to him before I can take him with me when I can move.
Since she is moving she has also informed me today she is also giving me another choice - move in with her to keep rides or stay in my current apartment and not have rides to the grocery store + doctors. Insurance can help me with the issue of the appointments, but I need rides to the city next to me as the town I live in has no store with decent prices on food. Everything is priced to hell here - I used to ride with my mom to Costco or Walmart where I could get a lot out of my food stamps - those are out of my reach without a car. (We do not have public transportation here. It is a small town. We don't even get pizza delivery here unless it's from doordash the city next to us.) As stated in the original post I will be renting an apartment with my beloved, but they are 3 states away so this is not going to be cheap. I am getting my stuff professionally moved as I cannot make the trip myself as it would cost more, be worse on my body, things can happen with me being alone, it will not be insured, etc.
Again, I am so sorry for having to remake this post I am sure many of you are tired of seeing me pop up on here, but I want my cat back + this is getting very fucking bad so I need to get out of here soon as I can.
paypal: partange1 cashapp: par1demon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/37P45EQYVHZZT?ref_=wl_share <- This has cat, medical (I am disabled + get injured a lot), and packing supplies you can directly buy for me in case you can't donate through paypal or cashapp
I have secured a pet deposit & paid my landlord this morning so my baby can be returned to me and I can take him with me when I am able to move.
I do not have a litter box, litter, mat for the box, or food yet but I am working on it - I have some of those in my wishlist until I get enough to order them.
I am making the main goal now that we secured my cat's safety with me to now raise enough for the move because the movers are wanting more upfront because of the sudden rush. I am going to be paying almost 3k to get out of here with all my stuff (insured, everything is paid for included in price like gas etc for the 3 state drive).
Please keep sharing as this IS helping me. Thank you to those who helped me get my baby back. I am truly sorry for having to ask for help, but this woman is using whatever she can to control me so I have got to get out of here.
4/11/23: I am temporarily moving into my mother's new house so I can save 300 extra dollars a month (I move out of state to safety on July 6th) on the upcoming move as it is going to be fucking expensive.
I want to save up as much as I can as well to make it easier on my beloved who is helping me because of my money situation. I am still waiting for my landlord to give me back my deposit money as I will have to live with my mother for a few months before I can leave now. (I don't really have a choice + my current landlord is awful and doesn't give a shit about my safety and well-being.)
Thank you to those who have shared, donated, and gotten supplies for my kitty + packing - I will be taking my cat to the airport in July when it is time to board my plane. Feels like a circus right now running back and forth with our plans but things keep coming up (my mom moving (as she is my way of getting around currently as i don't have a car + i am disabled and have medical episodes so I cannot live alone anymore), surgery, sleep study, current landlord issues, scheduling, my mother magically being able to have my cat now that i can afford pet deposit)
4/14/23
I just had back surgery and will have it again in a few days to close up my back. I hate to ask for help with doordash too but I can't do much of anything in this state. I'd like to order some food to last me a few days. I can't bend down etc it is literally impossible for me to prepare food rn and I don't have anything that is grab and eat rn. I'd like to order a few pizzas to last me a week or so. ;;;
4/25/23
I have permanent implant surgery on the 4th - I have temporarily moved into my mother's new house to save money. Still, a few days in and I'm already having horrible suicidal thoughts and anxiety attacks. I was gone as I was moving, but it has been horrible as this is the abuser I am living with again.
5/5/23 I had the surgery. I am in a lot of pain. I have had to go up on my medicine because of my suicidal + self harm thoughts being in this house again with my mom. my abuser let my cat out of the house while i was asleep this morning. i am heartbroken. i am currently looking for him and am offering a cash reward for his safe return locally. please keep sharing as everything helps me esp with me not being able to walk bend twist etc for a few weeks now. I could use all the help I can get especially now that my beloved pet is missing that is keeping me stable in this house. again i am sorry i am going to be in a better situation in july when i can leave my abuser's clutches.
5/8/23 my cat is still gone. still hurting horribly from surgery. i dont get paid for another 3 weeks and i need to pay for my computer repair parts as well. i am almost about to hit fees on my bank for overdraft so if anybody can help me through this difficult time ;;;
5/25/23
pain is gone. my cat is gone. my abuser im living has a husband that has become another abuser to me. i need to get out of here. me and my beloved cannot find any openings for apartments that we can afford right now. i really want to be out of here by july. thank you to those who keep sharing this despite it being such a long-going post. i hate it. i hate having to do this still. i am not doing well, and i know ill be better in time when im out of here.
5/26/23
my phone is corrupted to add onto this. have to use funds to pay for repair tomorrow as i need my phone for doctors and appointments and emergencies so anything will help me ;;;;;
5/28/23
my phone is going to be shipped and i'll be without my actual phone number for half a month and that's :')))) my sister had to pay for a spare phone so i owe her 200 dollars so this is stressing me the fuck out. so sorry for those having to see this still.
