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mdni 21 | normalize girlpervert thoughts🗣️

[ace-trainer-alice]

Ok so like a few years ago, I got really into giving good compliments as a sadism thing. If your observational skills are good enough and you're half decent at writing and delivery, you can cause someone to shed tears, to struggle to even parse what you're saying and repeat it back over and over, and force them to engage with differences between negative aspects of their identity and reality. Most people just aren't very good at giving compliments, so a lot of people have a really low tolerance for it. I mean in large part I just really like making cute girls cry. But also this is probably not what you mean by having a praise kink?

[flutterbvnny]

i need the kind of catharsis that comes from getting hit a lot then sobbing in the lap of the person who did the hitting

[misscaptor]

I like the idea of chaining you to a radiator, maybe because I find it kind of romantic? Its just so classic. The desperate, whimpering captive handcuffed to pipes that wont go anywhere, no matter how much you writhe.

The radiator has the added benefit of burning you a bit if you get too close and keeping you just a bit too warm. I think your hair being plastered against your forehead with sweat above your wild, angry eyes would make a really beautiful photo, don't you? It would make you look totally disheveled. Downright raunchy, if you ask me.

I don't have a radiator here, that's why you're chained to the support pillar most of the time. Basements have their benefits, and are nearly as classic as the radiator, but its just so cold. Like temperature wise, brr! glad I don't have to sleep down here, but also vibes wise I conceptualize myself as a warmer sort of kidnapper. Does that make sense? Do you think Im a warm kidnapper? Be honest.

[roughribo]

I feel like people completely miss that so-called "submissive training" is also training for the dom.

Like, your rule about how you should be addressed feels undermined if you overdo it with a punishment, instead of a casual verbal reminder.

Your rule about how much water to drink doesn't feel like care when you don't call out when they need to drink more.

Your rule about bedtime is meaningless if the bedtime itself isn't consistent.

Training for the sub is to learn how to perform an expectation for a dom, and the flipside for the dom, is learning how to perform authority and understanding what kind of authority your sub will respond to in which situations. Being an authority figure is less like being the boss and more like being a gardener.

Rules that you train your submissive to follow are not something that you 'set and forget;' no, rules are like gardenbeds. You must actively care for and tend to the rules that you and your sub plant. Weed out the rotten rules that don't work or tweak a rule that's struggling so that it can thrive. Have a healthy soil for your rules to take root and grow and blossom. You don't "just know" how to be a good gardener. If you don't tend to them, rules wilt. Like with anything else, you have to learn and practice authority.

You don't have to be domineering when you practice authority either. In fact, I'd say that most rule enforcement feels warm and cozy when you're doing it right, but that can be subjective depending on your D/s dynamic. You have to show that you care both about your sub and about your garden of rules and that you are the authority that they specifically crave to be cultivated by.

So, what kind of garden have you planted? What parts of your garden need weeded? What rules grow and thrive easily there? How are you going to cultivate your authority?

Our garden has a clematis (rule for what title to use for me), but we needed to put up a lattice for it to climb in order to give it the structure (a public-friendly title) it needed to thrive year-round. That rule doesn't need much tending to in our garden, just a good structure and healthy foundation and it can be easily maintained.

[ace-trainer-alice]

I do generally think 'hair pulling' falls under the same class of 'erotic sensory activity' as kissing where you can romanticize it as much as you want but at the end of the day it is about a response to certain sensory inputs and thus some people will like it and others won't.

Though, to me, hair pulling has the advantage of very much being a control thing, and I find anything that I can make about being in control to be hot by default. I mean, I also make kissing a control thing, and most things in general, but it's more direct with hair pulling.

[yourprettiestpet]

something something i wanna get spanked, edged, slapped, beat, bit, fucked, caned, overstimmed, absolutely wrecked in every way, so my physical state matches my emotional. and then receive lots of soft soothing touches and praises and cuddles and telling me how well i did and that everything's going to be okay now and it's alright to cry, kissing my tears away, petting my hair, every touch a reassurance that no matter how broken i may be, You'll always be there to help fix me.

[laurawful]

hey is it cool if I just. yeah, stop you from thinking for a bit? I just wanna see how glassy I can get your eyes looking. I might put my fingers in your mouth just to watch you drool around them. it's cool if I also grope you a bit right? you're not saying anything so I'm assuming you agree. good girl <3

[empress-lunae]

When you press a vibrating wand to a cock, and it doesn't just get hard and leaking, it starts twitching and it's slit is pulsing, opening and dripping. Especially when it's in a cage with bars that lets you see it clearly, but doesn't let them cum, and they are writing and begging because it feels like too much

[empress-lunae]

I love making subs come just from cockwarming. Having you sit on my strap, stuffed full, but not allowed to fuck yourself, just whining and begging and rubbing yourself against me, until you're so over the edg from being filled up with a big dildo, you lose control and come

[ace-trainer-alice]

I do actually kinda like the vague medicalization that the term 'oral fixation' implies. Yeah, no, it's a condition you have. It's not going to to away so you're just going to have to stick things in your mouth to suck on. In fact you should totally get anxious about it and spend a lot of time thinking about the feeling of having or not having things in your mouth. And at some point inevitably you're going to have to let "needs something in your mouth at all times" to just become part of your identity, that's what accepting yourself means for you, ok? Also don't worry drooling is perfectly normal. Also this is vaguely related to agere somehow? Unfortunately, a guy came up with the whole idea so my patience for it is limited.

[rainynympho]

thinking about being brought home and played with, disciplined, and edged into sub space until my brain is all loose and my holes are all drippy. not being able to control my thoughts and processing in the slightest but it’s okay because i have no reason to, my brain is always allowed to shut off with my owner. having them bend me over and reach down like they’re about to touch me again, only to spread me open and tape a cute sticker to my clit. “leaky girls, sloppy needy girls, don’t get to have their brains focused on anything else but what’s between your legs when we go out”. being dazed and confused by what that means until i’m yanked up by my collar and forced to leave the house with them in the disoriented state i was put in. overstimulated by being out in the noisy, scary world and turned into a whimpering mess because i cant help but rut against my owners leg in need and as desperate attempt to self soothe in the only way i can think of in that moment. my owner, aware of the scene i’ve caused, just apologizes to people staring as they walk past. “sorry, she’s only just been house trained, lots more to work on”.

[roughribo]

"Ah ah ah, down girl, stay." when she tries to move her face off of your bulge. Shushing her and sticking your thumb in her mouth when she tries to talk. Belting her nude body against your clothed leg when she shifts too much. She just needs to be still and quiet and be a pleasant face to rub your bulge on.

She works too hard all day, she deserves to come home and not think and to have the expectation to just be less and have that be more than enough. Controlling and overpowering her until the subspace sets in and then controlling and overpowering her even more.

No decisions, no responsibilities, no thoughts. Just having decisions made for her, forced relaxation, and enjoying the sensations you allow her to feel.

[simpin4mothussy]

Just like you have safe words/nonverbal actions to let your partner know to slow down or stop, y'all gotta incorporate predetermined provoking words/actions that let your partner know 'I want you to escalate the scene'.

For example, mine is spitting, if I spit, I just know I'm about to get my shit rocked. It's been scene changing for us, especially for cnc. It's a nice way to beg for more rough treatment without breaking the immersion. I can still fight back and struggle but I get him to choke me harder or slap me like I want.

[upallweek]

omg that's genius. it's like a taunt

[cthonicascendant]

«prev, you can't just leave this in the tags.»

[roughribo]

The "I don't want to think" to "quiet, you don't ever get to think" pipeline.

[another-hypno-toy]

um. yes, please?

[stillvathek]

He tapped the lips of her cunt with the head of his cock and she gasped, flinching, hips jerking but the rest of her held firmly in place.

"Tell me you're stupid. Tell me you're a dummy," he said.

"What?" She asked breathlessly, then shaking her head. "No. I'm not."

"Hmm. Alright."

He started a slow rhythm, just up and down, cock resting heavy on her slit. Her hips jerked again but she was going nowhere.

"Stop teasing!"

"Oh, I will. Just have to do one easy thing. Just need to say something. You're a dummy. You can say that, can't you?"

"Nnn-no! Ah - I'm a- ngh..."

"Don't have to mean it, just have to say it. That's easy. Come on."

"B-but it's... s'humilating... I..."

"It's easy. Two syllables. Even a dummy could say it. Come on. Just once."

She bit her lip. She hesitated. He stopped his rhythm and let the head of his cock just part her, just a little.

"I'm a dummy!"

It came out of her in a rush, in an exhale with her head thrown back.

"Good girl! See how easy that was? I think you should say it again."

He'd brought a hand around to thumb her clit, the head of his cock inside her now. She was panting. Whatever she'd felt about it being humiliating was melting by the second in the face of how much she needed the rest of him.

"I'm a dummy!" She said again.

Much easier that time. He'd started thrusting in, a little deeper each time but still not enough for her.

"Once more. I'll give you a little treat."

"I'm a dummy - ah!"

Once she'd finished he'd pushed right into her all the way, their bodies smacking together. She gasped, eyes wide, staring at nothing, and let out a groan as he started fucking her. Slow at first, but soon hard enough the bed was squeaking and anything even like a thought leaked out around his cock.

He lent down, grazed her ear with his teeth, and asked:

"Who's my dummy?"

"Me!"

No hesitation, nothing.

"Say it for me, I want to hear it."

"I'm your dummy! I'm your dummy! I'm dumb! Stupid! Oh God fuck yes brains leaking oh fuck."

"Good girl, that wasn't so hard, was it?"

"No no! So easy! Being a dummy is so easy! So gooood!"

He gave her a little kiss on the neck.

"Such a cute little dummy."

[dumb-trans-pigslut]

once someone manages to make you dumber, that knowledge is gone. more than gone. you'd have to learn it all again, and you aren't going to do that. at the end of the day, you're not really different from someone who never knew it in the first place. no one would know which it was unless you told them, and even if you did, they might not believe you. it's not just that you knew something and then forgot it. it's more like you never knew it in the first place. i just think it's funny that so much of you can disappear, just because someone thought you'd be cuter that way

[ace-trainer-alice]

At least 20% of the appeal of fingers in mouth is that pressing down on someone's tongue with a finger is just such a precise display of power. Pinning down your ability to speak with a single finger. You could fight back, trivially, but it's uncomfortable to do so. So you sit there, my finger pressed against your tongue, drooling slightly from the corners around my fingers, looking up at me. Watching me look down at you, seeing the naked desire in my gaze.