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Grief left unsaid is the worst kind of suffering. All the things I will never be able to tell you have taken precedence in a corner of my mind I cannot find myself abandoning. Im transported back to a moment in the past where I knew how you felt, where I could’ve empathised with you but now in the future I sit with all the things I could’ve said to you bubbling on the tip of my tongue.
Would it have been better to have never known you at all? It feels as if I will never let you go, as if that moment of time in which the both of us existed in tandem, is all I will ever be.
I am an amalgamation of all of my grief, in which I cannot find it within me to let you go with the pullings of time.
Gaze this way sometimes, I'm not going Ruh.
You don't need ask, you never have to demand, let this idiot live in the waves of your hope.
It's not need in the needy way, but quiet wish to stay, a choice made by heart, that will remain the same in everyway and everyday.
It's okay, not all meant to stay, it's okay that you learn how to stay. I will stay even when world becomes astray. Because it's you that is yearned by my soul, you are my home.
I was born for greatness.
I was born for sacrifice.
As they say: to win some, you lose some.
So I have become a stranger in my own home.
And I will give more of myself. For my family. For the blood that comes after me.
ferrusly
“Think lightly of yourself and deeply of the world.”
— Miyamoto Musashi
irish stout, chinese marlboros and laura palmer. in the middle of Goddamn nowhere away from everyone
There are three breeds of cat:
Chonk
Goblin
Yeah that looks like a cat
Subcategories of breeds:
Floof
Naked
Normal
This is my favorite post
girl shocked to discover that inaction can have consequences too
I love a person who studies me. Pays attention to every detail and really takes their time learning me.
quality time or a conversation w/ the right person can heal so much shit.
Aggressiveness is not confidence + why we get it confused
We confuse aggressiveness with authority & confidence. We confuse volume with value. Just because someone is loud doesn’t mean they’re confident.Just because someone dominates a room doesn’t mean they’re secure
Actually, aggressiveness typically masks insecurity, fear of being ignored & even a lack of emotional regulation
It looks like strength because it carries so much “presence” but it’s rooted in survival mode, not self assurance. People who act aggressively often feel threatened and the louder they get, the more likely they’re trying to protect an inner fragility
Confidence doesn’t need to shout, interrupt, or take up space forcefully. A confidence person knows their value and doesn’t need to prove it. Think of it as a person living a certain life, they are used to it and see it as normal, so they don’t have to throw it in peoples faces to prove a point or validate themselves
They can say “no” without guilt. Walk away without drama. Speak up without needing to crush others
So based on ancient times, the loudest most dominant person typically became the leader, a lot of survival conditioning influenced this pattern
Also the amygdala (your brain’s threat detector) reacts more to loud, forceful behavior interpreting it as power or control, even when it’s not. Our brains mirror those we observe especially people with strong, energetic expressions. Loudness grabs attention definitely, but attention doesn’t equal respect
Socially, we’re trained to associate dominance with leadership. This makes us praise loud, aggressive people as “confident” even when they lack real emotional maturity. Ironically the best leaders have been proven to lead from the back, after all, a leader builds others up
So the next time someone’s being loud, bossy, or aggressive ask yourself if they are secure or are they just scared? Is their nervous system just haywire? If what they’re saying has so much validity why do they have to be aggressive and force others to listen. Because confidence whispers, while insecurity shouts
This should help give a new perspective for those of you who get anxious around or feel intimidated by aggressive people 🤍
never forget the universal rule of the order of things: People Will Not Read It
signs at stores? émail? menu ?? instruction ? post online ? caption with andswer to question ? group hand outs ??? street sign ??? no. The Written Word Is The Enemy
#The number of compliments i have gotten for reading a thing
The ability to occasionally Read A Thing will make you a hero in your workplace, especially if it is for example an error message that tells you what you need to do differently, or instructions on unjamming a printer.
how dare you say we put jam in the printer
Ok reblogging this again because story time.
I work in tech, and much of what I do is support sales reps within the company by resolving errors with the software they use.
There is one sales rep who, every single time I send her a message or email with extremely specific instructions that will resolve her issue, does something completely different from what I tell her. Every time. Without fail. It is so glaringly obvious that she has never read even a single word that I have written to her.
So one day, she sends me a message that says little more than "(software) is broken, help"
So I do my standard song and dance of asking her what she's trying to accomplish, and what specifically is stopping her from doing that. And eventually, after much unnecessary back and forth, she tells me there's an error message. I ask her to send me a screenshot of the error message. She does.
The error message basically says, "these two required fields are blank. To resolve this, please fill in these two specific fields, and then click save."
So I take a few deep breaths.
Then I lie to her.
I message her back, saying "hey yeah, for some reason it's not loading that screenshot on my end. Could you type out the full text of the error message for me?"
She does.
I ask her if she still needs help.
She does not respond.
"Do not grieve for knowledge that is beyond your reach. Grieve for the knowledge that you possess but do not act on it."
Imam Al-Ajuri rahimahullah "Ahlyak al-Ulama"