Can someone help me with my sexuality please I’m confused
So like I don’t know what label to use or if I’m really part of the lgbtqia community so I know I am physically/sexually attracted to men, women, and any other genders like o get turned on by any gender and I find them all attractive however I have only ever had romantic feelings and crushes on men and never have toward women or any other gender I’m 18 btw but I am not opposed to dating and/or having feelings for women or any other gender like if one day i have those feelings then I have those feelings but also I’m 18 like if I can have romantic feelings for women then wouldn’t I have already experienced them ? Also if BIG IF I ever get married I really do see it being a man but I am not opposed to marrying a woman or any other gender especially cause I don’t even want to get married like I know comp het is a thing but I really don’t think I have that because I don’t want to ever get married and I never want to have children and the whole white picket fence life with the husband and kids is atrocious to me I hate it and I never want that. At the same time I don’t believe I have internalized homophobia I have never in my entire life ever been homophobic there is no homophobic bone in my body I know there is absolutely nothing wrong with being in the lgbtqia community. My family isn’t an issue at all they don’t care about who I get with there’s no fear of “disappointing” them they don’t give a shit and I live in a pretty liberal area so my safety isn’t an issue either. But still i dont know if this counts as being bisexual and it feels wrong for me to say I’m lgbt when I’ve never faced discrimination and if I never have romantic feelings and don’t date a woman then I won’t be exposed to homophobic remarks or anything like that so how can I say I’m lgbt when I’ll still have all the straight privilege and I know there’s women who don’t like being used to experiment or just for hookups but like I know I want to have sex with women but again if it’s always gonna be just sex is it fair for me to say I’m part of the lgbt community and I’ve always said I was an ally I’m a big one always have been activism is my thing it’s what I’m dedicating my life to And it feels like such a fat L if I’m not oh never mind I’m not an ally cause then I feel like it’ll reinforce The Whole you have to be part of the lgbt community to care and straight cis gender people should care just as much they should be constantly advocating for the lgbt community and like i dont know i dont know I’m confused and I don’t want to label myself as something and have it be problematic or insensitive
