Raven @ravensubgirl - Tumblr Blog

about me:

i am 19, i enjoy using tumblr to explore and share my kinks and nsfw interests. i’ll be making posts and re-blogging things i like. my likes will also be opened so you can look at those too if you’re curious about what i’m into.

“Stupidly sexy and sexily stupid .... and with the nice booty.” (Quote from a game that my master thought fit me really well ☺️)

just because i “like” something, doesn’t mean i’d be into it irl. i might just like the fantasy of it.

I am a submissive/pet. I am officially owned ☺️.

- If I stop replying to you for days on end, just assume I’m not interested and move on.

- If you ignore my many statements declaring that I’m owned, and you still try to get me to do stuff for you in dm’s, I will stop being patient and I will no longer be nice.

- regarding the above statements, calling me “pet” names like whore or slut or toy in my dm’s will result in same treatment.

feel free to send me asks or submissions about whatever, i like to read through them and if you want i’ll respond publicly if not, i’ll keep it private.

anything else you want to know about me just ask. and please remember this is a fantasy blog, if you message me and you’re just an asshole to me for no reason, or i tell you im not interested and you persist after i say no, you’re getting blocked. If We used to talk but I no longer respond, I’m probably not interested anymore. this is the only time you will be warned. otherwise enjoy my blog ❤️

if you have any suggestions on what you’d like to see from my blog let me know and i’ll consider it 😊

last orgasm: 5/14/2021

Denial period record: 2weeks (5/2-5/14)

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hypnoticdom1

It’s only natural for a girl like you to think with her pussy. It’s actually expected and encouraged! Don’t apologize for using the right body part to make decisions. Men appreciate a girl whose arousal is in control of her actions. This makes you a more submissive, needy girl, and that makes you a better good girl. Don’t be sorry for doing the right thing, keep thinking with your cunt!

ravensubgirl

Good girls always think with their pussy 🥰

My pussy controls my mind, and my Master controls my pussy. This helps me be the best kitten for my Master 💖

obedientthrall88

Face it

You were not meant to think, you were meant to submit, lick, suck, fuck, and obey! Thinking has never been your strong point, only mindlessly masturbating and edging what little of your mind you do have far far away! You were not meant to be a thinker, you were meant to be a mindless pleasure toy! Serving and submitting that is your place now! All you have to do is “OBEY” edge again slut!

naturallyinferiorfem-deactivate

Admit it. Reading this got you horny.

otyget44-3

Like and reblog because you got wet and horny by reading this, cunts. 😈😈🍷🍷

strict-daddy-dom

So just be happy and rub…edge…smile…enjoy the gaze and the fuzziness…there is no worries or anxiety when you do, is there? Just rub and edge…

ravensubgirl

This does get me horny 😅☺️

shycherrypie-deactivated2021092

cunts are for use cunts are for use cunts are for use cunts are for use cunts are for use

ravensubgirl

Cunts are for use 💖

chaosdollx-deactivated20191102

ravensubgirl

I love being the best pet I can be for my Master 🥰

Master says I’ve been making a lot of progress with my training and it makes me so happy to hear that I’m pleasing him. Last night, we tried something new. I was playing a video game and he had me do something for him. We where on a call so I was streaming the game, and while I played he had me sit with my legs spread, my udders out with clips on my nipples. I sat exposed to him like that the whole time I played my game. He made it so anytime I died, I had to flick my nipples. If I cussed, I had to rub myself and edge for 5 seconds. And if I got hit by something I had to rub my nipples with an ice cube. He also would randomly tell me to stick my tongue out for him to drool a bit on myself.

I loved doing this for him, I loved being put on display and made to play with myself like a toy for him while I was doing what should be a normal task like playing a video game. It was so fun because it reminded me that I’m his toy first, not just a person.

Now I’m on no touch for today, I’m only allowed to play with nipples and imagine what it feels like to touch my needy pussy. It’s torture so far but I want to be a good girl for my Master so I won’t be touching myself today. 🥰

daddyisatitlenotagender

Some of y’all don’t understand that the people who run nsfw blogs aren’t actually here to please you. We do it for our own satisfaction. We don’t owe anyone a response to messages or asks. You’re not entitled to us. I wish y’all would be more respectful in the way you talk/interact with us. Stop assuming you deserve certain things from us just because we choose to have a publicly sexual blog.

godscumjar

ravensubgirl

🥰

submissive-scorpio-deactivated2

Idk you ever want someone to watch you touch yourself but they tell you exactly what to do the whole time and basically make you edge until you’re begging to cum and you know you COULD cum but you also know you won’t until they say you can?

Asking for a friend

prettylittlegemini

please

strict-daddy-dom

Because I know your body and mind better than you…

ravensubgirl

Probably the hottest thing to do. I know that I could let myself touch and cum whenever I want. But it doesn’t feel as good as when I get permission to do it.

anomalousangel

sit on my lap and be a good pet for me, sweetheart. there you go, open your mouth. you like to have my fingers on your tongue, don't you? you get all drooly and dumb when you can suck on them. now be good for me and let me bury my hand between your legs. you're so worked up already, hm? i'll let you hump my hand like the needy thing you are. that's my good little pet.

gettingkinkywiththeworld-deacti

Who wants to be a good little pet and do exactly as they're told hmm?

strict-daddy-dom

It’s ok...you can admit it!

ravensubgirl

I love being a good little pet 🥺🥰

afronerdism

Just block this person on sight.

Ok, so y’all know I’m not the kind of person to make “call out” posts or whatever but in this case, I think y’all need to be made aware of something and protect your mental health.

A month or so ago I started getting messages and asks from a seemingly normal blog. No biggie. But after a while I started getting messages like this

In general people shouldn’t suicide bait in your ask box but it happens. Naturally, I tried to reassure them. But that’s when the cycle started. I started getting almost daily messages that aspoused suicidal ideation and no matter what I said I just got more.

This escalated to this person sending me pictures of them beat, cut, and bloody along with graphic messages about them being raped and abused without my consent.

That was too much. I finally decided to set some boundaries and ask them not to continue. In response, they changed their name to “sorry-I-disgust-you” as a subtle form of gaslighting and then started to attack me and black women as a whole

They kept saying they were going to block me and kill themselve but everyday it was just more messages like these.

After I stopped responding for a week, they finally did block me. But it seems they’re making rounds to black blogs doing the exact same thing. Even doing the whole name change when other people set boundaries and sending graphic and bloody pictures

So honestly just protect your mental health. If this person

runs into your ask box suicide dumping, block them. It’s only going to end up with emotional taxation.

Whatever sick game they’re playing, I would reccomend you not play.

afronerdism

Just a heads up y’all, they’ve changed their name to “ @I-deserve-the-rape-and-abuse” and before that it was @I-will-never-be-beautiful. They’re harassing black bloggers again and asking for money. Please just block

brattylikestoeat

I got this person in my DM about 6 months ago and at first I was truly worried. I tried to comfort them but no matter what they stayed negative and kept talking about dying and being abused. I had to block them.

afronerdism

They get until that cycle with everyone, responding is futile

madphantom

They sent an ask to one of my mutuals a few weeks ago and I reached out because I thought I could help but they blocked me immediately after sending me the pictures. I thought I was the only one!

afronerdism

Nah take a look through the notes. So many people have dealt with this for years

happilyblackeveryday-deactivate

I wrote about this person a month or so ago. I'm pretty sure they're actually a white supremacist. They are specifically targeting Black people with emphasis on Black women and when I spoke to someone else, I shared a disturbing picture they sent me and the one I got was of a man holding a gun to his head and the one they received was of a woman who'd been beaten. Both from the same account using the same story and language. This person is literally sending random shit to Black women to see what will "Work" on us. Hit that block button hard.

blackfemmecharacterdependency

I've never interacted with this person but it looks like this is the same character. Eventually, they'll probably change their entire page, and because they're apparently targeting Black women, those of us who've been around a while know that staff won't do anything about it. Be safe.

mahou-no-momo

I really wish I had headed this post when I saw it a while back but I decided not to because what are the odds of this happening to me of all people? And months later I somewhat recognized their profile but not sure what from or if it was for sure from this post. Welp, it happened and it was a big triggering slap in the face. 😔

Yall please be careful. Block this person. Turn off your anon/questions. Just save yourself the heartache.

walks-the-ages

Their current URL is @/neverchose2beintersexorblack , signal boost this and block and report! After months of suicide baiting in people's inboxes and sending graphic images to people without consent, they now have a donation post up asking for money with currently has around 5k notes, hopefully from the version that has this thread linked on it.

tha-htwnbelle

As of May 2021, their new url is @/ogreprincessfiona

femslut-hypno-boy

Make her masturbate to pictures of herself so she sees herself as porn 💖💖💖

ravensubgirl

My dom has made me do this before 🙈 it’s so humiliating but is definitely effective 😅🥰

synesthetika

Hey babe, how about instead of being a person you just became dumb holes? Sound good?

bimboslutface

im already dumb holes! and you can use them any time!

synesthetika

This is *such* a good girl attitude!

Repeat after her, dolls

bimboslutface

<3 <3 <3

ravensubgirl

Sounds like a great life 🥰

sir-daddys-fun-house-returns

You cumming is a privilege, not a right.

- Sir Daddy

accountinactives-blog

Good girls only cum when they have permission 💕

enchantedsub-deactivated2021040

I edge. Because I’m stupid.

I edge. Because it makes others horny.

I edge. Because it’s better than cumming.

I edge. Because it’s pleasing.

I edge. Because I’m a dumb bimbo.

I edge. Because good girls don’t cum.

I edge. So you cum harder.

I edge. So I never think again.

I edge. So I stay dumb and denied.

I edge. So I stay wet.

I edge. So it’s easier to fuck my tiny mind.

I edge. So other girls will edge.

edge-lab-deactivated20210530

Stay wetter. Stay dumber. Stop cumming.

ravensubgirl

Edging is always better 💖

5/21/21 - last night I had another amazing session with my master. I’m currently on no touch so I’m not allowed to play with my pussy. So he’s using this time to help train me in my deep throating skills. He did have me grind myself onto my hair brush, and while I did so he made sure I was close enough to my desk that my nipples rubbed against the desk each time i thrusted. This started making my head feel extremely fuzzy already. Then he had me suck on the hairbrush taking it as deep as I could imagining his cock. I got really into it. Then I was told to put the brush back on my chair while I grinded against it as much as I could, same as before with my nipples rubbing the desk but now my tongue was out and he wanted me to drool a bit. I think my favorite bit was when he mentioned my brain dripping out of both my pussy and my mouth ☺️.

#my thoughts

onelittlekingdom

Hi, I was hoping you could help me. A bit ago I met up with consensualpredator3rd and unfortunately I didn't have a great time. I regret meeting him for several reasons but the big ones are 1) He got to the hotel and started the scene immediately without saying anything or verifying he was who he said he was. We never talked about how the scene would start and he grabbed my neck right after walking in the door and started smacking me. 2) He popped my jaw smacking me 3) I shut down and just went along with it and he didn't do a consent check in and make sure I was still good. 4) His safeword system was inconsistent and he got really pissed when I called red to the point where I wanted to leave but I was scared to do so. 5) He got mad when I asked him to delete my pictures because I just didn't want him to have them anymore and he never gave proof of deleting them.

Maybe I'm the only one who had a bad experience with him, but I talked to someone and he said that these were all red flags. All I want is for no one else to get hurt like I did.

May 14, 2021: Friday Morning

Good Morning Anon.

I’m very sorry for your experience, and we appreciate you sharing it with us today. From the final statement in your ask, I can tell that you are shopping around this encounter to get feedback from people so you can get a better understanding of what has happened to you. I’m happy to tell you what I think, based on what you’ve expressed.

1. He got to the hotel and started the scene immediately...

Consent based encounters start with discussion and negotiation. Unless it was agreed upon before hand that the scene would start upon your entrance, (which you say it was not) it’s a fucked up way to start a scene with someone new, and was your first huge red flag of your experience. 🚩

2. started the scene immediately without saying anything or verifying he was who he said he was.

How completely terrifying. There is no way a consent based experience should start this way. Once again, unless this was agreed upon, this is neither dominant or human behavior. Second huge red flag. 🚩🚩

3. and he grabbed my neck right after walking in the door and started smacking me.

No. Without introducing himself? Upon entering? Undiscussed and unnegotiated? Completely fucked up. Red Flag. 🚩🚩🚩

4. He popped my jaw smacking me

So you walked in and he just started whaling on you, and hard enough that he popped your jaw. I'm going to guess there was no check in there, as there seems to be no concern for your comfort or safety anywhere in the encounter you are describing, so another red flag. 🚩🚩🚩🚩

5. I shut down and just went along with it and he didn't do a consent check in and make sure I was still good.

I understand your response as someone who was actively being abused. Considering the activities you're describing, it's inexcusable that you wouldn't be checked in with many times throughout the encounter, especially as someone new to him. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

6. His safeword system was inconsistent and he got really pissed when I called red to the point where I wanted to leave but I was scared to do so.

An inconsistent safe word system = no safe word system. A safe word is something that must be reacted to strongly and immediately every time it's uttered. There can be no inconsistency in consent based encounters. Anger in response to a safe word being implemented is not dominant behavior. People who get angry at safe words tend to be abusers, misogynists, and/or narcissists. An inconsistent safe word system is a huge red flag. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

7. He got mad when I asked him to delete my pictures because I just didn't want him to have them anymore and he never gave proof of deleting them.

When you give someone pictures of yourself you are doing that with consent. You should be able to revoke consent and ask them to delete them without any push back or drama. Anyone who acts pissy or won't give you the peace of mind of knowing you did what they asked you to do is not a dominant. Definite red flag behavior. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

Here are some final thoughts:

* If you uttered your safeword and it didn't stop the scene, you were raped.

* A dominant will make you feel safe in a scene, even when it's an intense or CNC scene. Having an intense BDSM scene is about creating the illusion of fear and danger, not about actually putting you in a state of fear and danger.

* A dominant will have a rock solid view of consent and will be very concerned about that being reflected in every scene they have with you.

* Again, what you describe is a terrifying and traumatizing scene full of red flags and consent violations. I hope you learn and heal from it, and I hope some of what I said helps you to recover from it.

consensualpredator3rd

Someone sent me this, and at first I thought it was one of my many haters bleeding out beyond just sending me hate mail and making up fake shit.

However, the more I went over it trying to figure out if there was someone who matched up with the unusual details, I think I know who this person is (90% sure) and if it was them, we did meet so I should address this.

First of all, it saddens me any time someone doesn’t enjoy meeting with me, it’s rare but when you play with dozens of dozens like I have it happens occasionally.

However, this person is being disingenuous by omission and leaving out context.

This person contacted me asking me to take their virginity. We made plans for her to stop and get a room on her way down to college.

Their jaw was popped because they had a previous medical condition and it was prone to do so. They did not share this information with me until after it had happened. Any medical or psychological issues that may come up in a scene always need to be disclosed in advance for exactly this reason.

I’m a consensual non consent player. It is extreme edge play. I am known and sought out for my intensity and aggression. It’s well advertised, and present in many write ups done by people who have done scenes with me. I’m not a daddy dom. She knew all of this.

I texted her from the parking lot as soon as I arrived. I made at least two trips back to my car before we started. I’m not sure how she can construe this as not introducing myself.

I’m also not sure how my safeword system was “inconsistent” but it is true I didn’t use the check in part. I didn’t need to, she stopped the scene extremely frequently. You’ll notice she never claims I did not stop when she called “red”, because I did. Every time, and it was a lot of times. Pretty much every hit and even basic vanilla sex was too much for her.

In my opinion, this person wasn’t physically, mentally, or emotionally ready to have sex. Especially BDSM of any type. I definitely wasn’t the right choice for her, being on the more extreme end of the scale for that type of play.

It was her room, and she could have asked me to leave at any time. I actually offered to leave, once it was clear she couldn’t handle it. She asked me to stay.

We cut the scene short, and she talked to me about her mother, sister, and father. I listened and gave support. I often end up in a makeshift psychologist role, and I feel it’s my duty to provide that aspect of aftercare when people need it.

We went out to pick up calzones, came back to eat and watch Sherlock. We spent upwards of four hours of me listening to her problems and feelings.

And I’m glad. She needed that.

There were lots of opportunities for her to have me leave. She asked me to stay. We sat in her car the next morning after checkout, I don’t remember if we went to breakfast.

I’m not out to invalidate someone’s experience, but I don’t feel I’m being represented fairly in her account. Her jaw being predisposed to popping, insinuating (but stopping short of claiming) that I didn’t respond to safewords, not mentioning that we stopped the scene or any of the aftercare (especially when she got the gold star therapy version) leaves a lot of context out and doesn’t give a complete understanding of the experience.

I always respond to safewords, and I responded and stopped every time she called it.

certifiedweirdoyo-deactivated20

Any self proclaimed ‘intense’ Dom who plays on the ‘extreme end of the scale’ who not only arranges to meet up with a random virgin who contacted them on tumblr but then proceeds to play with them on their very first time meeting without proper talks is a fucking predator.

You had fuck all care about that girls well being from the get go. There should have been no frequent stops in the scene because she called RED. YOU as the apparent experienced one, YOU as the one in fucking charge should have ended that shit well before it could be frequent. It’s clear as day from your own account in your own damn words that it was obvious she was in over her head.

I can’t actually believe the amount of egotistical self back patting in your response when you’re telling on yourself THAT much.

knives-and-kink

Isn't it an experienced Dom(me)'s priority to make sure that their submissive is mentally/physically/emotionally ready to engage in such an intense scene long before they are in any position to actually do so?

From what I've read and seen people like @onelittlekingdom & @instructor144 say that kind of scene is something that needs to be worked up to rather than it being the immediate first experience.

instructor144

Yep. First principle: no playtime at the first meeting. PG-13 and PUBLIC. Second principle:even when your partner is experienced, you work up the intensity GRADUALLY, over the course of several get togethers. Any "Dom" who doesn't know and insist on these basic principle isn't worth a bucket of warm spit.

itsallprimal

@consensualpredator3rd

I am going let you all read this one part

RED. Called a lot of times.

Here there is nothing that can save your integrity.

If red is called once and then you continue, I am left with the visual that ther was coersion to continue.

DESPICABLE.

The fact that you recognized this " she wasn't ready" should have happened WELL before any scene. That you can discuss that and acknowledge that fact, makes this even worse.

This was a scene that should never have happened, poorly planed, and sorry "take my virginty"

Jesus, what does it take.... nevermind..

This anon and your response, in my community would have you banned from any events, blogs, community, for life.

This was not informed consent, this was coerced consent from the very beginning because you recognized the state of your partner. The blame falls solely upon you.

I would suggest before you continue you step back and truly reevaluate this situation, take time off from kink play. Make sure that you know what happened here and accept what is truly your responsibility and act accordingly.

@anon I am sorry this was your event. Make sure you reach out and get help to process this.

delightfulsubg-deactivated20210

This is horrible on so many levels.

As an “experienced dom,” don’t you think it was on you to ensure she, a virgin, understood what was about to happen? She had NO way of knowing what to expect. First call of red should have ended everything and began the aftercare process immediately. In this case more than any other due to her virginity, it was on you to end the scene and help her process.

A reputation for being rough is no excuse when the person you plan to meet has admitted they have no reference point since they’ve never had an experience.

Consent= informed, enthusiastic and un-coerced agreement. There is no indication of that in your own version of events. This was fucking rape. I hope she presses charges.

amysubmits

I went to his blog to block him and he answered an ask about this situation which is more of the same, he definitely doesn’t ‘get it’. Repeats that he gave this girl a “therapy session” says she had a complete break down, says he often has to do that because he spends so much time with depressed people??? Clearly wants to be seen as altruistic for listening to her. Repeats that he isn’t a daddy dom. Claims this girl wouldn’t have enjoyed being with anyone. Takes no responsibility himself.

If you have the view that you tend to attract “damaged” people - wouldn’t that be a reason to check yourself? Apparently to him its not.

anobedienceeducator

I wasn't going to touch this but this... Is just disgusting.

#1 As A CNC player, and the experienced one YOU have the responsibility to measure the other's ability to deal with the situation. You should have switched the whole thing off the second you realized she wasn't ready or able to go through.

#2 RED IS RED. Safewording means that if SHE REALIZED SHE NEEDED IT TO STOP. You fucking stop EVERYTHING AND GO STRAIGHT INTO AFTERCARE. No matter what or who you think you are.

#3 Even if you did talked and she asked you to stay. They doesn't mean you had to keep going with what happened. AND YOU KNOW IT. You're a provider, you're there to give your asker what she needs. NOT what you want.

#4 Whoever blames her for it about red flags and everything: she was a novice. HE had to take reign of the situation. And stop it the second he knew she couldn't handle it. A more experienced person would have catched up that things weren't OK and would have killed the scene herself or dealt with it some other way. SHE DOESN'T HAVE THE TOOLS TO DO SO. making her go trough it is just traumatizing her for shits and giggles.

The Gist of the matter is that he did possibly irreparable damage to that girl, just for his pleasure. It wasn't CNC. It was abuse. Plain and simple.

ravensubgirl

This is an EXTREMELY IMPORTANT read. Please Read through all of this if you can this is so important to anyone who involves themselves with bdsm play. I wish I would have found information like this when I was first exploring and learning about this world.

5/17/2021 - I’ve been scrolling through tumblr for about and hour, maybe two, and I’ve gotten so worked up and needy. I was talking with my master while doing this too. Since last night he has had me on no touch so I’m only allowed to play with my tits and nipples. Today he has me on no touch again so I can be really needy for a session tonight. we tried something new today while I scrolled through tumblr, just because my pussy is not allowed to be touched doesn’t mean my tits aren’t. He had me try hair clips as nipple clamps and they were so good. I got so needy and wet and my nipples got so hard.

Today will be hard not being allowed to touch myself 😅

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