Hypnosis, Relationships, Social Issues

*Please briefly read through this before scrolling through my blog* Don’t follow if you’re a minor. Please be aware that there are occasionally spirals on my blog, and hypnotic language is used in some posts* *This blog is nsfw but brings up important social issues as well* I'm a guy (he/him, cishet, mid 20s) (U.S.) writing a lot of hypnosis stories and posting about cool ideas to try with hypnosis. I’m a switch. You’ll also see posts about other non-kink things because there’s more to life. No need to call me “sir.” This blog is founded on respect and consent. FYI: This is an accepting and friendly blog for people to enjoy (pro choice; I support feminism; Black Lives Matter; We are all equals; Consent is always necessary) (Not into dd/lg, sadism, degradation, cum, or guys) I block blank blogs and inactive blogs.

[hypnoticdom1]

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[hypnoticdom1]

Do you have any more inductions planned/in the works? i always love your script style and you're choice and placement of spirals is always 👌 😵‍💫 melts my brain sooooo much, i revisit the tag often.

happy birthday :D

So kind of you to say! I’m glad you find my scripts mind-melting 😌.

I didn’t have anything new planned necessarily since I didn’t see a ton of engagement last time I made a couple, but I’m definitely open to writing something new! If you have any content or theme ideas, feel free to let me know.

Thank you! :D

[nadinesmith]

less clothes = more comfortable

[castformi-deactivated20241025]

dystopia au where we are all assigned one of two chosen genders at birth

[peppylilspitfuck]

Thanks to ultrasounds, the genders can be assigned before birth.  The people are so excited to conform they throw “Gender reveal parties” to make sure their offspring exist in a strict binary since before they can even form thoughts. 

[slightlykylie]

Children are color-coded according to their binary assignment. 

[darkersolstice]

One of the genders is seen as inherently inferior.

[yothobro-deactivated20200505]

This all sounds really effing creepy when you put it that way

[rooksandravens]

#BECAUSE IT IS

[fuckyeahfeminist]

And if you deviate from the assigned gender you can be disowned by your family, fired from your job, and beaten by authorities.

[rodserlingofficial]

[anxeious]

[dogpuppy]

[blighted-vessel]

you only love me for my brainwashing spores that make everyone love me. hmph

[sleepytiggy]

being told to cum feels way better then cumming on your own

[laurawful]

"lovedrunk" is a word She needs to use more. who wants to get loveplayed on.

[laurawful]

THATS RIGHT

[contemptible-scoundrel]

fuuuck I could use a mysterious benefactor right now

[bidotorg]

[animentality]

[guerrillatech]

[mesmirised]

quick iris doodle before sleepy time Muahhaaha

[pawtheticpuppyboy]

I think when a sub says "you can do whatever you want to me" what they're actually wanting is to not make decisions anymore, and they think by saying this they can foist the decision making off on the dom without having to do any of the work beforehand. But unfortunately to get to the Not Making Choices part of kink you do in fact have to make a Lot Of Choices beforehand and communicate those choices to your partner. This is an essential part of the process and skipping it is both unsafe and unfair for whoever you're playing with.

Not Making Choices is the reward for communicating clearly, not the default

[homalothecium]

To people who say this, as someone who has been there, reasons you might find yourself wanting to say "you can do whatever you want to me":

It feels flirty (situationally dependent. This is not the use OP is talking about but make sure you've *already negotiated* before, don't say it in response to genuine questions. If anything else on this list feels true to you, don't let being flirty be an excuse to say it anyway/not communicate/not address those other factors.)

Wanting to please/prioritize your partner (not a bad desire, but they likely want a clear understanding of your own wants and limits so that they can not only do what they want to do but have the Impact they want.)

Fear of seeming too needy, demanding, not submissive enough (maybe ask for them to share some of their desires and limits first so it doesn't feel like you're leading the conversation right out the gate, and understand that you having to trust that if you ask for something they don't care for they'll say no is the same trust they have to have in you.) (note- some Doms DO complain about subs being demanding, or asking for things right out the gate, treating them as kink dispensers. Subs Can be shitty like that and it's fair to complain, but also Doms can do this unreasonably, and in either case people overhearing these complaints can absorb that "don't be demanding, treat your Dom as a person" incorrectly as "don't ask for things")

Not knowing what you want (generally you can just state this outright, I recommend including a request for suggestions or brainstorming, or a discussion of a kink tasting, "Can we try a couple things and see what clicks?" If they're not up to work with you on figuring it out then you will have to just figure out what you want by yourself or with someone else.)

Decision fatigue/desire to set aside making choices (you can in fact also say this bluntly. Being offered a simple two options to pick between works for some people, so you can suggest that as a starting point. You may also need to get some down time to start with, prior to subbing. Subspace is not a replacement for self care and the human need for relaxation. It can help with decision fatigue to have time in subspace, so before doing more in depth scenes needing signifact negotiating you can do smaller ones to help that, but you do need to make Some decisions and do communication upfront for that even if you find ways to safely minimize the decisions to start with. You could ask for suggestions and make the only decisions be indicating your interest/lack, fill out kink interest worksheets so it's on paper instead of a conversation and can be broken up into more manageable chunks, or do a tasting type scene where all you say is yes and no. Seriously try to give yourself downtime and meet your needs without Just putting them on another person though.)

Shame about expressing desires (let yourself be embarrassed. Turn red, stammer, say "I need a minute", push yourself to voice at least one thing. You don't need to be suave in a negotiation, and most Doms will find it cute/hot. And probably do some reflecting on where that shame comes from, how it does and doesn't align with your values, and unpack that some with a professional or at least a trusted friend.)

Fear of setting boundaries/voicing limits (this is a serious one. If you can't do this in the negotiation do you think you can safeword in the moment? You simply Have to find a way to set those boundaries to be able to play. That's not to say you can't Work on this while in a kink relationship, but you need to start working on it Now, and make sure that your Dom understands that that's where you're at and is okay with being in those troubled waters with you. Do Not Be Shitty if they are not up for it. Let them leave without guilting them.)

Lack of concern about your own wellbeing (first of all goddamn do I get it. Depression is hard, ideation warps perception of everything, trauma can destroy your sense of self preservation, I used to think trusting someone meant not minding if they did hurt you rather than having faith that they won't. If you can't find it in you to care about not being hurt for your own sake, care about it for theirs. They almost certainly don't want to trigger you, hurt you in a way you dislike, abuse you, or kill you. If they do want to do those things then you saying what you don't want won't stop them, so in that case it doesn't matter. But they probably don't, that's why they're negotiating with you. Your lack of concern doesn't outweigh their concern for your wellbeing, so let them know the relevant info.)

Thinking about what fits here can get you to a place to address issues, accomodate your needs, and communicate effectively.

[offshoreoilrig]

The gritty live action steven universe nostalgia reboot in 2053 will be projected on one of the 100 foot sand dunes overtaking most of the mountain west region by a found family of enterprising post-apocalyptic scavengers due to the collapse of the movie theater industry

[illyadolatry]

just like. for the crowd.

here's the sexual content guidelines saying nudity is ok

here's the bit from the termination email telling you you can make a new account as long as it doesn't break the same rule

here's the guidelines for what counts as explicit (not mature, aka grounds for content deletion)

here's the section telling us that you will always be able to respond to content getting flagged as explicit (lie)

here's the section where it says you will be notified when your accunt gets terminated, and that the appeals are reviewed by humans (both lies)

and by the way, posting a single thing against ToS isn't supposed to be grounds for deletion,