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must be nice to be able to let things go, unfortunately everything that has ever happened to me never leaves my mind

it's like, I can't remember what I did two weeks ago but I can tell you all about something that made me cry when I was 14

theclassicsreader

I think perfectionism is based on the obsessive belief that if you run carefully enough, hitting each stepping-stone just right, you won't have to die. The truth is that you will die anyway and that a lot of people who aren't even looking at their feet are going to do a whole lot better than you, and have a lot more fun while they're doing it.

– Anne Lamott, Bird By Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life

I wonder if I’m really happy with this life or I’m happy I met other people’s goals

elirluna

tshirt that says "IF U ASK ME ABOUT MY CAREER I WILL KILL MYSELF IN FRONT OF U"

luisonte

Amigo... espabila un poco

tastefullyoffensive

It's really an absurd business when you think about it.

I crawled back to the life I said that I wouldn’t live in.

seravph

i think it is very depressing that like every aesthetic people try to emulate are of people doing things but they themselves are incapable of being somebody that does things… the mall goth 2005 aesthetic revived in 2022 but nobody goes to the mall to be annoying and weird and nobody lets themselves be cringe… the cottagecore aesthetic but nobody knows how to raise gardens or live self sufficiently … the dark academia aesthetic but nobody actually reads books…. The obsession of looking like you are a type of person who does something without actually doing anything … the Instagram effect

seravph

we need to bring back the word Poser

seravph

ohhhh my fucking god this isn’t about hipsters and mainstream culture or fucking whatever . This is about how we’re living in an age that is so dependent on social media identity that it is more important to curate yourself as someone who appears as though they are competent and substantial through their appearance rather than their actions . Where your identity and sense of self is entirely dependent on your consumption