NEW BLOG POST* I believe in transparency, relatability and teachable moments with kids. While I understand and grew up under the old school - mama era, things have changed. "Real" old school mamas are scarce. To me an old school mama is one big on tradition and respect. Heck, Ima mid 80s baby (84' to be exact) what can I say? I'm used to that "Stay out of grown folks business, do as I say, don't ask me why, shut your mouth, kids don't have a say" and so on... In my opinion, that rearing isn't as effective especially for (post millennial/digital age) kids. We need an understanding greater than because I said so (sometimes). You see, having an understanding supports better decision making and even the potential of factoring in consequences vs flat out rebellion (stemmed by curiosity). Understanding can help minimize that curiosity which minimizes trouble. Granted, I'm a new mom rearing my siblings. This provides a little wiggle room but I'm still their parent and they need guidance, structure, rewards and the understanding of risk. Like, we have real conversation! I break everything down to them. Luckily, our similarities encourages me to give it to them straight. I get it and understand what it's like to be exposed to stuff your eyes can't take back. Around here, I shout-out the good stuff/progress as a balanced to when I must reprimand. READ MORE AT www.sistamom.com #dreamsbiggerthantexas #melanin #christpowersme #beinspired #HBCUalum #positivevibes #realwomen #blackauthors #goodvibes #inspirational #blackwriters #successfulwomen #bloggers #youthadvocate #millennial #sistamom #chicago #atlanta #positiveimpact #wcw #powerfulwomen #dmv #newyork #ilovetoread #blog #readers #readinglist #chicagoblogger #taurusseason #goodvibesonly